[quote]Edgy wrote:
I’d divorce my wife of 22 years if she was 300 lbs.
yep.
and I think most of you would also. Would I have an affair or a girl on the side for sexy time? nah - I aint smart enough to keep two wimmenz strung along.
I spend too much time out of my life devoting it to fitness and an ideal body to put up with it.
but life is toooooooo fucking short to have a lump of a lardass lazy ass wife. I’d take the kids too.
(awaits e-thrashing)[/quote]
This is possibly the best post of this thread.
Let me use the most generic excuse in the world for breaking it off with an obese chick;
If you dont love yourself enough to take care of your body, how the fuck are you gonna love me?
And its totally true.
youre also spot on about the lifestyle aspect of it Edgy, why would you want to continue to be with someone who’s lifestyle is so drastically opposite of your own? [/quote]
Nothing wrong with that at all. That’s not what the OP wants to do though.
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
how long have you been married? How long have you had a full time job? How long have you lived under your own roof? How many bills do you pay a month?[/quote]
how does any of this make someone consume tens of times more calories than they are using on a daily basis?
you have the mentality of a fat person too… “it’s all these other things that made me fat… not the fact that I shovel chocolate covered churros down my hatch 12x a day”
“it’s muh genetics”[/quote]
All the above can affect life choices. You have the mentality of a young inexperience man. [/quote]
AND theres the word of the hour… “Choices”
You CHOOSE to live a certain way. Yeah things affect that, try to sway you one way or the other, but in the end i refuse to believe anybody can be so limited by any kind of mental or emotional issue (im excluding instense problems like downs/schizo, etc) that they cant CHOOSE to do something about it.
Thats called whatever your problems are + lack of willpower.
[quote]Edgy wrote:
I’d divorce my wife of 22 years if she was 300 lbs.
yep.
and I think most of you would also. Would I have an affair or a girl on the side for sexy time? nah - I aint smart enough to keep two wimmenz strung along.
I spend too much time out of my life devoting it to fitness and an ideal body to put up with it.
but life is toooooooo fucking short to have a lump of a lardass lazy ass wife. I’d take the kids too.
(awaits e-thrashing)[/quote]
This is possibly the best post of this thread.
Let me use the most generic excuse in the world for breaking it off with an obese chick;
If you dont love yourself enough to take care of your body, how the fuck are you gonna love me?
And its totally true.
youre also spot on about the lifestyle aspect of it Edgy, why would you want to continue to be with someone who’s lifestyle is so drastically opposite of your own? [/quote]
Dont encourage him,
he is old
he will talk about old things for hours
mostly about his aches and pains[/quote]
Im picturing Buzz Killington from family guy… Am i somewhere in the ballpark?[/quote]
Yep with story about a kite
[quote]JCMPG wrote:
This whole thread is a classic example of if you are going to ask a question of people you do not know at least give them all the information they would need to have in order to give any kind of quality advice. The way he stated his original question there was so much left to the imagination how could any give any kind of quality advice except “cheating is not the answer”. And now the whole thing has tumbled into people argueing of what drugs to give her with out any sort of knowledge of her medical history. That is not to say the drugs wouldnt work, but how do we know without more information. OP needs to fill in the gaps here.[/quote]
The OP has been rolled up into Mr. Walkway’s green thong. The only gap he is filling is Mr. Walkway’s crack.[/quote]
Found the OP
[quote]JCMPG wrote:
This whole thread is a classic example of if you are going to ask a question of people you do not know at least give them all the information they would need to have in order to give any kind of quality advice. The way he stated his original question there was so much left to the imagination how could any give any kind of quality advice except “cheating is not the answer”. And now the whole thing has tumbled into people argueing of what drugs to give her with out any sort of knowledge of her medical history. That is not to say the drugs wouldnt work, but how do we know without more information. OP needs to fill in the gaps here.[/quote]
The OP has been rolled up into Mr. Walkway’s green thong. The only gap he is filling is Mr. Walkway’s crack.[/quote]
Found the OP
He will be back later[/quote]
He might need a tow truck! LMAO
[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:
If i sympathize with anyone here, its OP. [/quote]
This guy wants to cheat on his wife instead of dealing with his problems. He doesn’t want to divorce her because he needs (read uses) her for health insurance. And you sympathize with him?
[quote]JCMPG wrote:
This whole thread is a classic example of if you are going to ask a question of people you do not know at least give them all the information they would need to have in order to give any kind of quality advice. The way he stated his original question there was so much left to the imagination how could any give any kind of quality advice except “cheating is not the answer”. And now the whole thing has tumbled into people argueing of what drugs to give her with out any sort of knowledge of her medical history. That is not to say the drugs wouldnt work, but how do we know without more information. OP needs to fill in the gaps here.[/quote]
The OP has been rolled up into Mr. Walkway’s green thong. The only gap he is filling is Mr. Walkway’s crack.[/quote]
Found the OP
He will be back later[/quote]
Well there’s never been a man, ever shook this can
[quote]JCMPG wrote:
This whole thread is a classic example of if you are going to ask a question of people you do not know at least give them all the information they would need to have in order to give any kind of quality advice. The way he stated his original question there was so much left to the imagination how could any give any kind of quality advice except “cheating is not the answer”. And now the whole thing has tumbled into people argueing of what drugs to give her with out any sort of knowledge of her medical history. That is not to say the drugs wouldnt work, but how do we know without more information. OP needs to fill in the gaps here.[/quote]
The OP has been rolled up into Mr. Walkway’s green thong. The only gap he is filling is Mr. Walkway’s crack.[/quote]
Found the OP
He will be back later[/quote]
LOL
you post some great lols in the GAL man[/quote]
If you are going to do something do it right
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
ok, feel free to explain your claim “despite the fact that you constantly talk as though you are.”
[/quote]
Have you not noticed the number of people who respond to you with things like “…your know-it-all attitude…”?
You say dumb shit like this:
“I believe that powerlifting/lifting for strength, are very foolish ideas. I believe that methods like 5/3/1 will result in more injuries than growth, and should be avoided”
And I’ve seen you just shoot down a lot of people in multiple threads off-handedly as though you knew wtf you were talking about when there’s really no evidence to suggest so.
Also Cortes looks better than you so take that ya sonofabitch!
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
how long have you been married? How long have you had a full time job? How long have you lived under your own roof? How many bills do you pay a month?[/quote]
how does any of this make someone consume tens of times more calories than they are using on a daily basis?
you have the mentality of a fat person too… “it’s all these other things that made me fat… not the fact that I shovel chocolate covered churros down my hatch 12x a day”
“it’s muh genetics”[/quote]
All the above can affect life choices. You have the mentality of a young inexperience man. [/quote]
AND theres the word of the hour… “Choices”
You CHOOSE to live a certain way. Yeah things affect that, try to sway you one way or the other, but in the end i refuse to believe anybody can be so limited by any kind of mental or emotional issue (im excluding instense problems like downs/schizo, etc) that they cant CHOOSE to do something about it.
Thats called whatever your problems are + lack of willpower. [/quote]
Okay, welcome to life. Not everyone is driven like the typical person on T-Nation. Circumstances affect choices and life rarely is a simple as your equation.
[quote]aeyogi wrote:
Have you usd DNP? I have read about it, seems effective but risky; are the dangers overstated?
[/quote]
DNP is a PESTICIDE and banned since 1938, when the FDA was screwing around with marginally-dangerous drugs, but the ones that really tended to kill people.
If you’re going to use crap like that, use phentermine. It’s basically an amphetamine and not without its risks (was part of the phen-fen combo), but its 99.99% safer than DNP. Much larger room for dosage error.[/quote]
Thanks. Really just curious; I would not consider using something dangerous like DNP based on the advice on a forum.
Still would be curious to hear if the OP has used DNP and his experience.
[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:
If i sympathize with anyone here, its OP. [/quote]
This guy wants to cheat on his wife instead of dealing with his problems. He doesn’t want to divorce her because he needs (read uses) her for health insurance. And you sympathize with him? [/quote]
To an extent yes. I think its retarded that he refuses divorce. Assuming he has tried to address the problems and the situation but his wife is consistently resistant, then i think he should get a divorce.
I dont know if its for the kids or what the whole picture is, but thats obviously not gonna happen. So ignoring that, yeah i sympathize with him. He is stuck in a marriage (potentially for the rest of his life) that he is unhappy with, has fallen out of love, is no longer attracted to his wife and has become emotionally numb.
Id bet you’d find me curled up in another chicks bed too. Although id opt for the divorce to begin with.
If the majority of marriages fail, think of how many more there must be where they never get divorced, but the couple just grows old and bitter towards eachother instead. OP isnt breaking any barriers here, it would almost be taboo if he didnt cheat. Im not gonna treat him like he’s second-rate unless it can be confirmed that he is at fault here.
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
ok, feel free to explain your claim “despite the fact that you constantly talk as though you are.”
[/quote]
Have you not noticed the number of people who respond to you with things like “…your know-it-all attitude…”?
You say dumb shit like this:
“I believe that powerlifting/lifting for strength, are very foolish ideas. I believe that methods like 5/3/1 will result in more injuries than growth, and should be avoided”
And I’ve seen you just shoot down a lot of people in multiple threads off-handedly as though you knew wtf you were talking about when there’s really no evidence to suggest so.
Also Cortes looks better than you so take that ya sonofabitch![/quote]
“ya sonofabitch!”
I lol’d at that. I imagine it being screamed in a whiny, per-pubescent boy’s voice.
