[quote]eeu743 wrote:
[quote]Akuma01 wrote:
What are most people lacking in the gym? Intensity…Focus…Drive. I see Bro’s doing their Curls, not so much as a breath out of rhythm. I see 160lb guys squatting a good inch or 2 in the Smith cage, thinking that he is ACTUALLY lifting the 5 plates he has on each side, then finishing his set and chatting to his buddy as if he were sitting on a couch. You hear the perpetual “Dude i was so wasted,” and watch as he attempts to curl in a HS row machine, or atleast thats what his form portrays…
Then i look at my partner and i…just racked a 400lb 1 legged leg press… my facing seemingly melting…gasping for air. My quads tensing up, and blood pouring in, to the point where i need to stand. Our chatting and chuckling kicks up, only long enough to put on more weight.
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My training partner and I totally lacked some focus recently because we were cracking up talking about how you said your face was melting.
On a serious note, I don’t think I would have made half the progress I have today if not for the fact that my training partner and I always have a great time in the gym, talking and laughing and shit. Even when I feel like shit one day, I know that I’m gonna have a good time, even if it’s a mediocre workout. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all about the intensity during the exercise itself, we melt our faces daily. But in between? Fuckin great time. And that’s actually what I see from all the impressive guys in my gym.
Now you did say that you guys joke around some, so maybe we’re saying the same thing in different ways. I just don’t think you need to be serious the whole time, it’s a lot more fun to have a good time with it.[/quote]
On a similar note, when I train alone my workouts are just flat. I’m used to training with my brother and we joke a lot etc (still while keeping up the intensity). It totally motivates you.
I believe there’s good merit to it (psychologically). It’s like the studies that proved people find comedy more funny when they’re with someone (don’t laugh as much on their own). Same with training, people enjoy it more with decent company.
Also, there were studies done a while ago which inferred that being in a good mood raised testosterone levels…and if you are having a laugh/enjoying company, you are in “higher spirits” and are going to push harder (so long as the people you are with are serious about lifting). So not only do you have the peer pressure/competitiveness with training partners, but also there’s a good chance that you get a better hormone profile too.