End of Don't Ask, Don't Tell

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:
Again what I have is anecdotal, but when the stories I told above were reported nothing was done to the homo in question.[/quote]

Aahhhh “homo”. Another little nettle for the bigot to use. Not quite the egregious slur of “faggot” or “queer”, it still carries enough negative connotation that the bigot can express his distain without breaking social convention.

And, of course, the ever-wiley bigot has a “foolproof” escape if anyone points out his derogatory use of the term: homo could simply be short for homosexual (and six extra letters are just too damn inconvenient to type). So clearly the person pointing it out as an example of bigotry is just “tilting at windmills”, since Jimmy6 clearly didn’t mean to express an anti-gay sentiment when he talks about “Those fucking homos”.

Just like the use of “normal” to contrast heterosexuals and homosexuals. Sure, gays are “abnormal” only in the sense of them being a rarity, but Mick28 here would never call gays “rare” - the word rare generally carries a positive connotation. The term “abnormal”, on the other hand, carries a decidedly negative connotation - they’re “abnormal”, “something must be wrong with them”, they “should” be normal.

But the bigot is ultimately a coward, as usual. Rather than simply admit his bias, he’ll pretend he’s simply being realistic and continue flinging as-homophobic-as-polite-society-allows slurs around.

awwww shit! you got me! Iron dwarf used the word homo, and he doesn’t care if his mechanic is one, so I thought it’d be alright. Shit, where can I find a manual on acceptable gay terms? I sure am biased, you super sleuth you! Abnormal does indeed carry a negative connotation. There decidedly is something wrong with them. OHHHHHHH NOOOO! I said it! Guess any further arguments from me are gonna be invalid now huh? Whether or not you believe it, if there’s any truth to the theories that being gay stems from a disruption in the testosterone introduction process in the womb or traumatic childhood experience, that would mean something is indeed wrong with them.

I didn’t go into this earlier because I know its gonna lead this discussion elsewhere. Because you see, bigot or not, it doesn’t make my claims about unit readiness or cost or distractions any less true.

The fuck is Mick28?

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:
awwww shit! you got me! Iron dwarf used the word homo, and he doesn’t care if his mechanic is one, so I thought it’d be alright. Shit, where can I find a manual on acceptable gay terms? I sure am biased, you super sleuth you! Abnormal does indeed carry a negative connotation. There decidedly is something wrong with them. OHHHHHHH NOOOO! I said it! Guess any further arguments from me are gonna be invalid now huh? Whether or not you believe it, if there’s any truth to the theories that being gay stems from a disruption in the testosterone introduction process in the womb or traumatic childhood experience, that would mean something is indeed wrong with them.

I didn’t go into this earlier because I know its gonna lead this discussion elsewhere. Because you see, bigot or not, it doesn’t make my claims about unit readiness or cost or distractions any less true.[/quote]

lol. Iron Dwarf said it, so it should be ok for you to say it. Have you ever heard of the term “context”? Please. Research this. Learn it. Be smarter.

Yup. It hurts your position of being against something that represents an advance for gays when you’re anti-gay.

Its not a matter of unit readiness or cost or distractions - the foundation of your position is your own personal bias.

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:
Again what I have is anecdotal, but when the stories I told above were reported nothing was done to the homo in question. There were also numerous extra-curricular activities going on in the female berthing and when reported by the freaked out straight females, nothing happened. Save for one girl, who got in trouble for reporting two girls having sex in a rack because she shouldn’t have been in the berthing at that time.

Nobody in charge wants to be the “homophobe” who kicks the gay person out.

My friend, upon hearing the news of the DADT repeal; “I feel sorry for the girls berthing”.

Yes yes yes, I know I don’t speak for everyone. I can’t offer proof about what MAY happen. But experience should count for something, and if gays were this aggressive when they were SUPPOSED to be walking on egg shells, they most certainly will not be when allowed to be out in the open.

How come no ones brought up the issue of how expensive this will be? We really don’t have the money for this repeal, by the way.[/quote]

I don’t doubt there is plenty of anecdotal evidence for heteros getting aways with sexual harassment as well. That doesn’t mean it Is systematic, or that the issue can’t be escalated up the chain of command if an officer fails to enforce a strict anti-harassment standard.

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:

[quote]Dustin wrote:

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:

[quote]Dustin wrote:

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:
Nah, we wouldn’t lose 'em all. I recommend that they still be allowed to do support type jobs, ie nurse or admin roles. Just as long as they’re not involved in anything physical or in a war zone. [/quote]

Quoted for teh lulz.

You have disqualified yourself from making any legit argument.

You FAIL.
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YOU fail, for not offering a valid reason as to why I fail. What I said may be a little out there but I’ve yet to see a valid counter argument. Just hearin a lot of “oh no no you’re crazy man” but no ones really addressing the points I made.[/quote]

I quoted your ignorant statement about woman in the military. There is no need to counter argue your verbal poop. And what you have been saying is more than just, “a little out there”.

It’s clear you are a little man with major issues. Luckily, you aren’t in the military anymore.[/quote]

Read it^. Then read it again. Then maybe once more for good measure. Lol @ litle man with issues, internet doctor. If you can’t come up with a decent response just say that, don’t pretend you don’t want to. [/quote]

What is there to respond to? You’re a bigot towards gay men and apparently think women are “weak” and can’t do their job in the military. Why should I spend a second trying to refute ignorance?

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:

[quote]goldengloves wrote:

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:
Nah, we wouldn’t lose 'em all. I recommend that they still be allowed to do support type jobs, ie nurse or admin roles. Just as long as they’re not involved in anything physical or in a war zone. And yes, the website I linked earlier has valuable info in regards to this. I’ve personally been at the shitty end of the hypocrisy of the military’s equal employment opportunity policy, where men and women supposedly have the same chances for advancement. Tell me, what’s equal about the standards for the physical assessment? Either you admit that women are physically weaker and simply shouldn’t do some jobs, or you have the same requirements. Can’t have it both ways.

A purely anecdotal story, but anytime I was alone with one of the females in my shop and a pilot called for a radar transmittter to the flight deck on the run for the next sortie (120 pound awkward ass piece of equipment) it was invariably me who had to do it. Now, I’m not complaining, it’s part of the job, but when ol’ girl gets the same eval as me, there’s a problem. Shit like this goes on ALL the time. Not to mention the headaches they cause with missed work cuz of pregnancy and their emotional instability in a stressful workplace.
And losing 20 percent of the military works out perfectly, since they’re trying to downsize last I heard anyway. Simple solution, just get rid of all the women not in support roles.[/quote]

There are different standards for age and gender, probably because of their capabilities.

You weren’t saying that only women filling certain positions or possessing certain physical capabilities should be able to serve, you were saying they shouldn’t be allowed to serve period. If a woman meets the requirements then she should be able to fill that position.[/quote]

No shit it’s because of their capabilities. As in, women aren’t as capable as men when it comes to physically demanding jobs.

And to be clear, I wasn’t flip flopping, I’ve always thought that women should still be allowed support roles, I just wasn’t detailing what i thought should happen in my previous post on the matter for the sake of simplicity. If it makes you happy I’ll formally withdraw whatever it was I said about women not serving earlier in favor of my most recent post. My apologies.

As for women that ARE capable of physical jobs, you’ll find in the website I linked that its absurdly unlikely. Even if you did find some freak of a chick who could pull it off, you’d still have to address the issue of deployability because of pregnancy.

Assuming anybody would want to impregnate a chick that looked like she-hulk, of course.

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If they meet the requirements then they should be able to fill the position. "If the United States is to remain the world’s most capable and most powerful military power, we need to have the best person in each job, regardless of their gender. "

[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:

[quote]goldengloves wrote:

[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:

[quote]goldengloves wrote:

[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
While I think ending this policy is good. I don�??�??�??�?�¢??t think it�??�??�??�?�¢??s an answer. While gays should be able to be who they are and fight for their country, so should people uncomfortable with situations this will create.

If per chance I wouldn�??�??�??�?�¢??t want to shower with a gay man in the room or bunk with one, I should still be able to serve my country too, right?

Additionally, if homosexuality is now an acceptable topic for people serving in the military it�??�??�??�?�¢??s got to be acceptable from all sides. If they are allowing people to come out in support of being homosexual, you must also allow people to express their beliefs on the subject even if they disagree with it.

Like I said, ending the policy is good, banning gays is wrong. But some things still need to be addressed. I don�??�??�??�?�¢??t know what the answer is.
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Well to be honest soldiers were already showering with gays soldiers, just not openly gay soldiers. A soldier being openly gay doesn’t mean that he’ll automatically try to have an intimate relationship with a heterosexual soldier or harass a heterosexual soldier either. If someone is bothered by the thought of interacting with a gay soldier then they’re under no obligations to join the military or remain in the military.
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Never said that they did. I Just wouldn’t be comfortable with it. It’s just who I am. Shouldn’t I be allowed to both be myself and serve?[/quote]

Sure, people can say they dislike the thought of serving with a homosexual, that dislike is patently irrelevant as to whether or not that soldier should be able to be openly gay while serving in the military though.[/quote]

I was talking about being openly anti-gay in the military. That should be tolerated, no?
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So long as you don’t violate the code of conduct you must follow, yes.

[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:

I was talking about being openly anti-gay in the military. That should be tolerated, no?
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You can be quite the annoying advocate:)

Seriously, though… the answer is, no.

Military discipline and civil rights do not always coincide. In fact, it has taken an act of Congress to enforce the extension of the civil right of being openly gay on the military. Without an act of Congress (obviously unlikely in the instance you provide), the military command has the legal authority to truncate the civil rights of anyone they wish to.

So, basically, if the military does not want their members to include people who are openly homophobic or anti-homosexual, there is nothing to stop them from having it that way.

LOL as always at all the non-military people inputting their opinions on something that DOES NOT EFFECT THEM, but rather, effects US.

I don’t even know where to start…

Actually, I’m not going to right now. I’m honestly too pissed off.

[quote]hungry4more wrote:
LOL as always at all the non-military people inputting their opinions on something that DOES NOT EFFECT THEM, but rather, effects US.

I don’t even know where to start…

Actually, I’m not going to right now. I’m honestly too pissed off. [/quote]

Oh my, those evil non-military people paying your bills.

I think a simple thank you would be enough.

Preferably on Veterans Day.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]hungry4more wrote:
LOL as always at all the non-military people inputting their opinions on something that DOES NOT EFFECT THEM, but rather, effects US.

I don’t even know where to start…

Actually, I’m not going to right now. I’m honestly too pissed off. [/quote]

Oh my, those evil non-military people paying your bills.

I think a simple thank you would be enough.

Preferably on Veterans Day.

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How bout you suck my dick on veteran’s day. You’re not allowed to say no, that’d be homophobic.

Are you American, living in Austria? Or are you Austrian, living in Austria? This is important, cuz I’m trying to figure out whose bills you pay.

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:
Are you American, living in Austria? Or are you Austrian, living in Austria? This is important, cuz I’m trying to figure out whose bills you pay.[/quote]

Does it matter?

Nobody is forced at gunpoint to pay for my bills, thats for sure.

Goes a long way when it comes to not having an unwarranted sense of entitlement.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:
Are you American, living in Austria? Or are you Austrian, living in Austria? This is important, cuz I’m trying to figure out whose bills you pay.[/quote]

Does it matter?

Nobody is forced at gunpoint to pay for my bills, thats for sure.

Goes a long way when it comes to not having an unwarranted sense of entitlement.

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Thanks, that’s all I needed. Your opinion doesn’t matter. Be silent.

Orion, sense of entitlement I do NOT have by any means, quite the opposite.

Having said that, you’re talking about dictating OUR living conditions, and the sexual nature of them. That’s a pretty serious thing.

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]hungry4more wrote:
LOL as always at all the non-military people inputting their opinions on something that DOES NOT EFFECT THEM, but rather, effects US.

I don’t even know where to start…

Actually, I’m not going to right now. I’m honestly too pissed off. [/quote]

Oh my, those evil non-military people paying your bills.

I think a simple thank you would be enough.

Preferably on Veterans Day.

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How bout you suck my dick on veteran’s day. You’re not allowed to say no, that’d be homophobic.[/quote]

Dont traumatize me bro!

[quote]hungry4more wrote:
Orion, sense of entitlement I do NOT have by any means, quite the opposite.

Having said that, you’re talking about dictating OUR living conditions, and the sexual nature of them. That’s a pretty serious thing. [/quote]

If that is you in your avatar, I am confident that you will be able to ward of any unwanted advances.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]hungry4more wrote:
LOL as always at all the non-military people inputting their opinions on something that DOES NOT EFFECT THEM, but rather, effects US.

I don’t even know where to start…

Actually, I’m not going to right now. I’m honestly too pissed off. [/quote]

Oh my, those evil non-military people paying your bills.

I think a simple thank you would be enough.

Preferably on Veterans Day.

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How bout you suck my dick on veteran’s day. You’re not allowed to say no, that’d be homophobic.[/quote]

Dont traumatize me bro!

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I’ll give you some PTSD :wink:

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Jimmy6 wrote:
Are you American, living in Austria? Or are you Austrian, living in Austria? This is important, cuz I’m trying to figure out whose bills you pay.[/quote]

Does it matter?

Nobody is forced at gunpoint to pay for my bills, thats for sure.

Goes a long way when it comes to not having an unwarranted sense of entitlement.

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Thanks, that’s all I needed. Your opinion doesn’t matter. Be silent.
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Ach, give a bureaucrat a gun and he gets all uppity…

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]hungry4more wrote:
Orion, sense of entitlement I do NOT have by any means, quite the opposite.

Having said that, you’re talking about dictating OUR living conditions, and the sexual nature of them. That’s a pretty serious thing. [/quote]

If that is you in your avatar, I am confident that you will be able to ward of any unwanted advances. [/quote]

Lol yes it…but in case you hadn’t noticed, most Marines are skinny lil SOBs. Lucky for them I’M not gay, if you get my drift :slight_smile: