[quote]kpsnap wrote:
[quote]AlisaV wrote:
I got the same thing from my mom – “You’re not planning to use steroids, are you?” And “Don’t compete or anything.” My dad was all worried I would lose my delicate figure.[/quote]
Yep. My mom said to me last summer: “Do you want your arms to look like that?” Now, I must say, I have rockin’ shoulders and arms for my size. I used to weigh next to nothing and have anorexic Vogue model arms. I’m proud of their definition now. Apparently, my mom doesn’t agree.
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I think it’s hard for people who aren’t a part of ‘gym culture’ to appreciate muscle definition. I used to covet skinny arms, until I got serious about training. The funny thing is, many people will see muscle definition, and automatically think - oh, look how ‘big’ that arm is - even if it’s actually way smaller than their own flabby one.
My mom once said to me - “Oh my god, Rachelle, your arms look like a man’s arms!” I decided to take that as a compliment. ![]()

