[quote]Chushin wrote:
And FTR, I couldn’t possibly care less if you and Emily got a room together and were never seen alive again.[/quote]
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
@ pangloss:
In a dating/relationship scenario (never an interest) she would order for you. Dress you, direct your life in general.
Sexually I have no idea what her whole sexuality encompasses but I’d say we were in between your examples. I was not tied up and totally helpless and while she was “responsible” for her own orgasm, she was responsible for mine too and as mentioned it wasn’t a tease and denial, prolong the pleasure thing. It was a power trip for her to refuse activity leading to mine. Ultimately I got off but I would bet her “boyfriends” eventually lose that “privilege”. It was highly irritating.
@ Frankie:
she was hot, the sex was frustrating as mentioned but ultimately ended well. There won’t be a repeat and a relationship was never considered.[/quote]
How big is she? Maybe I’m not able to generalize beyond my own experience, but all of the men I’ve slept with have had a considerable strength advantage over me. I may, and often do, start out in the role of aggressor or tease, but at some point generally the dominant option is removed if I’m teasing or lingering too long. Or talking! Sometimes that happens. lol
Couldn’t you just…take over, and get off when you were ready?
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Petite. And yes, I could but again this wasn’t a tease and denial scenario. Legitimate “no” lines would’ve been crossed. Maybe she’s in to the rape fantasy (i’m not) and missed it but considering her relationship parameters I doubt it.
Whatever her issue is, it did not settle my ennui ;)[/quote]
So, are you saying that in the middle of it, if she declared “oh no, you’re not doing that right now,” or however she verbalized her control, and you said “oh yes I am,” she would have removed her consent and declared the situation nonconsensual?
I can only imagine that this would, if anything, worsen one’s ennui. It would mine, if I had both random hookups and a general sense of dissatisfaction with life. But of course these two things feed one another, so I don’t have either one. :)[/quote]
In paragraph one, yes, exactly.
I disagree random sex creates dissatisfaction in life however, it merely satisfies a natural urge. Unless you encounter a highly irritating personality clash.[/quote]
I’m not suggesting that it creates dissatisfaction, but rather that it does nothing to create satisfaction. Random sex itself is neutral, however the pursuit of it requires a focus of energy in a direction that does not increase emotional well being. It’s a masturbatory exercise to some extent.[/quote]
Yep, I’m in love alright![/quote]
Does your wife read your comments and if she did, would previous conversations cut out of existence in a certain forum be advantageously missing from an inappropriate fraternization standpoint?
Steak and clouds are pretty benign, yes?[/quote]
Why do you care what his wife thinks, Mr.-I-just-wandered-in-here-last-month?
[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
@ pangloss:
In a dating/relationship scenario (never an interest) she would order for you. Dress you, direct your life in general.
Sexually I have no idea what her whole sexuality encompasses but I’d say we were in between your examples. I was not tied up and totally helpless and while she was “responsible” for her own orgasm, she was responsible for mine too and as mentioned it wasn’t a tease and denial, prolong the pleasure thing. It was a power trip for her to refuse activity leading to mine. Ultimately I got off but I would bet her “boyfriends” eventually lose that “privilege”. It was highly irritating.
@ Frankie:
she was hot, the sex was frustrating as mentioned but ultimately ended well. There won’t be a repeat and a relationship was never considered.[/quote]
How big is she? Maybe I’m not able to generalize beyond my own experience, but all of the men I’ve slept with have had a considerable strength advantage over me. I may, and often do, start out in the role of aggressor or tease, but at some point generally the dominant option is removed if I’m teasing or lingering too long. Or talking! Sometimes that happens. lol
Couldn’t you just…take over, and get off when you were ready?
[/quote]
Petite. And yes, I could but again this wasn’t a tease and denial scenario. Legitimate “no” lines would’ve been crossed. Maybe she’s in to the rape fantasy (i’m not) and missed it but considering her relationship parameters I doubt it.
Whatever her issue is, it did not settle my ennui ;)[/quote]
So, are you saying that in the middle of it, if she declared “oh no, you’re not doing that right now,” or however she verbalized her control, and you said “oh yes I am,” she would have removed her consent and declared the situation nonconsensual?
I can only imagine that this would, if anything, worsen one’s ennui. It would mine, if I had both random hookups and a general sense of dissatisfaction with life. But of course these two things feed one another, so I don’t have either one. :)[/quote]
In paragraph one, yes, exactly.
I disagree random sex creates dissatisfaction in life however, it merely satisfies a natural urge. Unless you encounter a highly irritating personality clash.[/quote]
I’m not suggesting that it creates dissatisfaction, but rather that it does nothing to create satisfaction. Random sex itself is neutral, however the pursuit of it requires a focus of energy in a direction that does not increase emotional well being. It’s a masturbatory exercise to some extent.[/quote]
Yep, I’m in love alright![/quote]
Does your wife read your comments and if she did, would previous conversations cut out of existence in a certain forum be advantageously missing from an inappropriate fraternization standpoint?
Steak and clouds are pretty benign, yes?[/quote]
Why do you care what his wife thinks, Mr.-I-just-wandered-in-here-last-month?
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This is a multi thread conversation.
[quote]CargoCapable wrote:
This is a multi thread conversation.[/quote]
Multi thread. Multi handle. Who can blame a guy for not knowing what’s going on?
[quote]LoRez wrote:
Dominant people are usually compensating for something. Usually, not always.
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Fixed that for you.
HoustonGuy runs a cargo/shipping company in Houston (H-town), Texas (Aggie-land).
are you bigger? are you stronger? do you have the drill? if the answer is yes to all those questions then show her who’s the bitch. If she doesn’t enjoy it afterwards then at least you keep your pride, as a man, I would hate to be bossed around by some girl in bed.
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
are you bigger? are you stronger? do you have the drill? if the answer is yes to all those questions then show her who’s the bitch. If she doesn’t enjoy it afterwards then at least you keep your pride, as a man, I would hate to be bossed around by some girl in bed.[/quote]
jajajaja…
You try to boss around people all day, be the man in a relationship and be the Terminator in bed every single day.
If she wants top be in charge every now and then, fine.
If I do not want her to be in charge that day and she puts up a fight, even better.
It is not as clear cut as “Hulk Smash!!!”
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
are you bigger? are you stronger? do you have the drill? if the answer is yes to all those questions then show her who’s the bitch. If she doesn’t enjoy it afterwards then at least you keep your pride, as a man, I would hate to be bossed around by some girl in bed.[/quote]
jajajaja…
You try to boss around people all day, be the man in a relationship and be the Terminator in bed every single day.
If she wants top be in charge every now and then, fine.
If I do not want her to be in charge that day and she puts up a fight, even better.
It is not as clear cut as “Hulk Smash!!!”[/quote]
It isn’t s clear cut but we’re talking about a random chick not a girlfriend or a wife. I give my girlfriend the benefit but then again my girlfriend is very submissive. Sometimes she gets a bit out of hand and thats when I lay the man law on her, I dont know, she likes it…
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
are you bigger? are you stronger? do you have the drill? if the answer is yes to all those questions then show her who’s the bitch. If she doesn’t enjoy it afterwards then at least you keep your pride, as a man, I would hate to be bossed around by some girl in bed.[/quote]
jajajaja…
You try to boss around people all day, be the man in a relationship and be the Terminator in bed every single day.
If she wants top be in charge every now and then, fine.
If I do not want her to be in charge that day and she puts up a fight, even better.
It is not as clear cut as “Hulk Smash!!!”[/quote]
It isn’t s clear cut but we’re talking about a random chick not a girlfriend or a wife. I give my girlfriend the benefit but then again my girlfriend is very submissive. Sometimes she gets a bit out of hand and thats when I lay the man law on her, I dont know, she likes it…[/quote]
So, random chick is using someone as a fucktoy?
The… horror?
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
are you bigger? are you stronger? do you have the drill? if the answer is yes to all those questions then show her who’s the bitch. If she doesn’t enjoy it afterwards then at least you keep your pride, as a man, I would hate to be bossed around by some girl in bed.[/quote]
jajajaja…
You try to boss around people all day, be the man in a relationship and be the Terminator in bed every single day.
If she wants top be in charge every now and then, fine.
If I do not want her to be in charge that day and she puts up a fight, even better.
It is not as clear cut as “Hulk Smash!!!”[/quote]
It isn’t s clear cut but we’re talking about a random chick not a girlfriend or a wife. I give my girlfriend the benefit but then again my girlfriend is very submissive. Sometimes she gets a bit out of hand and thats when I lay the man law on her, I dont know, she likes it…[/quote]
So, random chick is using someone as a fucktoy?
The… horror?
[/quote]
If YOU like to be used as a fucktoy, thats fine with me. I would never be used a a fucktoy unless at at some point I get to show “random” chick what a little whore she is. That’s what I’m into, dominating role, it’s what I like.
So, Ronaldo7 likes to dominate women IN BED like little whores?
The… horror?
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
are you bigger? are you stronger? do you have the drill? if the answer is yes to all those questions then show her who’s the bitch. If she doesn’t enjoy it afterwards then at least you keep your pride, as a man, I would hate to be bossed around by some girl in bed.[/quote]
jajajaja…
You try to boss around people all day, be the man in a relationship and be the Terminator in bed every single day.
If she wants top be in charge every now and then, fine.
If I do not want her to be in charge that day and she puts up a fight, even better.
It is not as clear cut as “Hulk Smash!!!”[/quote]
It isn’t s clear cut but we’re talking about a random chick not a girlfriend or a wife. I give my girlfriend the benefit but then again my girlfriend is very submissive. Sometimes she gets a bit out of hand and thats when I lay the man law on her, I dont know, she likes it…[/quote]
So, random chick is using someone as a fucktoy?
The… horror?
[/quote]
If YOU like to be used as a fucktoy, thats fine with me. I would never be used a a fucktoy unless at at some point I get to show “random” chick what a little whore she is. That’s what I’m into, dominating role, it’s what I like.
So, Ronaldo7 likes to dominate women IN BED like little whores?
The… horror?
[/quote]
Lol—
Nothing wrong with that but would you actually have a problem to be used as a life sized dildo?
Sex is more than physical, who knows what demons she is trying to cast out.
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
BTW, I havent been on T-Nation in a while. What happened so SAMA? and where did all the sexy ladies go?[/quote]
Its super secret.
Someone apparently decided to stalk someone IRL, sexy ladies protested, TN decided to shut it all down.
Understandable, but still.
Meh.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
are you bigger? are you stronger? do you have the drill? if the answer is yes to all those questions then show her who’s the bitch. If she doesn’t enjoy it afterwards then at least you keep your pride, as a man, I would hate to be bossed around by some girl in bed.[/quote]
jajajaja…
You try to boss around people all day, be the man in a relationship and be the Terminator in bed every single day.
If she wants top be in charge every now and then, fine.
If I do not want her to be in charge that day and she puts up a fight, even better.
It is not as clear cut as “Hulk Smash!!!”[/quote]
It isn’t s clear cut but we’re talking about a random chick not a girlfriend or a wife. I give my girlfriend the benefit but then again my girlfriend is very submissive. Sometimes she gets a bit out of hand and thats when I lay the man law on her, I dont know, she likes it…[/quote]
So, random chick is using someone as a fucktoy?
The… horror?
[/quote]
If YOU like to be used as a fucktoy, thats fine with me. I would never be used a a fucktoy unless at at some point I get to show “random” chick what a little whore she is. That’s what I’m into, dominating role, it’s what I like.
So, Ronaldo7 likes to dominate women IN BED like little whores?
The… horror?
[/quote]
Lol—
Nothing wrong with that but would you actually have a problem to be used as a life sized dildo?
Sex is more than physical, who knows what demons she is trying to cast out. [/quote]
I wouldn’t mind that, specially if shes really hot BUT at some point I’ll probably have to take control or maybe not.
I let girls get on top of me and do whatever they want but after a while I just take them off and fuck them how I want. You’re right though, one of these days I’m going to let my lady friend take over, see what she turns into, jajaja…
All this talk of dominance and not one mention of a leash collar of chasitity locks?
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
are you bigger? are you stronger? do you have the drill? if the answer is yes to all those questions then show her who’s the bitch. If she doesn’t enjoy it afterwards then at least you keep your pride, as a man, I would hate to be bossed around by some girl in bed.[/quote]
jajajaja…
You try to boss around people all day, be the man in a relationship and be the Terminator in bed every single day.
If she wants top be in charge every now and then, fine.
If I do not want her to be in charge that day and she puts up a fight, even better.
It is not as clear cut as “Hulk Smash!!!”[/quote]
It isn’t s clear cut but we’re talking about a random chick not a girlfriend or a wife. I give my girlfriend the benefit but then again my girlfriend is very submissive. Sometimes she gets a bit out of hand and thats when I lay the man law on her, I dont know, she likes it…[/quote]
So, random chick is using someone as a fucktoy?
The… horror?
[/quote]
If YOU like to be used as a fucktoy, thats fine with me. I would never be used a a fucktoy unless at at some point I get to show “random” chick what a little whore she is. That’s what I’m into, dominating role, it’s what I like.
So, Ronaldo7 likes to dominate women IN BED like little whores?
The… horror?
[/quote]
Lol—
Nothing wrong with that but would you actually have a problem to be used as a life sized dildo?
Sex is more than physical, who knows what demons she is trying to cast out. [/quote]
I wouldn’t mind that, specially if shes really hot BUT at some point I’ll probably have to take control or maybe not.
I let girls get on top of me and do whatever they want but after a while I just take them off and fuck them how I want. You’re right though, one of these days I’m going to let my lady friend take over, see what she turns into, jajaja…[/quote]
That’s all well and good but the moment you said “if she puts up a fight” my mind just went to “kill the rapist”.
[quote]Alex Good wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]ronaldo7 wrote:
are you bigger? are you stronger? do you have the drill? if the answer is yes to all those questions then show her who’s the bitch. If she doesn’t enjoy it afterwards then at least you keep your pride, as a man, I would hate to be bossed around by some girl in bed.[/quote]
jajajaja…
You try to boss around people all day, be the man in a relationship and be the Terminator in bed every single day.
If she wants top be in charge every now and then, fine.
If I do not want her to be in charge that day and she puts up a fight, even better.
It is not as clear cut as “Hulk Smash!!!”[/quote]
It isn’t s clear cut but we’re talking about a random chick not a girlfriend or a wife. I give my girlfriend the benefit but then again my girlfriend is very submissive. Sometimes she gets a bit out of hand and thats when I lay the man law on her, I dont know, she likes it…[/quote]
So, random chick is using someone as a fucktoy?
The… horror?
[/quote]
If YOU like to be used as a fucktoy, thats fine with me. I would never be used a a fucktoy unless at at some point I get to show “random” chick what a little whore she is. That’s what I’m into, dominating role, it’s what I like.
So, Ronaldo7 likes to dominate women IN BED like little whores?
The… horror?
[/quote]
Lol—
Nothing wrong with that but would you actually have a problem to be used as a life sized dildo?
Sex is more than physical, who knows what demons she is trying to cast out. [/quote]
I wouldn’t mind that, specially if shes really hot BUT at some point I’ll probably have to take control or maybe not.
I let girls get on top of me and do whatever they want but after a while I just take them off and fuck them how I want. You’re right though, one of these days I’m going to let my lady friend take over, see what she turns into, jajaja…[/quote]
That’s all well and good but the moment you said “if she puts up a fight” my mind just went to “kill the rapist”.[/quote]
Who’s the rapist? I’m lost.
I have no clue, the quoting system on here just gets confusing after a while. I think it was Orion. It was him that said he likes it if she puts up a fight when he tries to dominate her, right?
May as well explain my reasoning now as well… If you enter into a sexual engagement knowing full well that you are to be the submissive partner then said sex consists of her dominating you. Any attempt to change the basic dynamic of the relationship results in a new, entirely different one.
It’s basically like going into a dominatrix’s dungeon and ass fucking her halfway to oblivion. I mean, would you appreciate it if doctors were suddenly allowed to perform any procedure without your consent? Pretty much the same thing only with sex.
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
All this talk of dominance and not one mention of a leash collar of chasitity locks?
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Clearly, these people are amateurs. True female dominance is achieved only by the use of the RAPEAXE!