Yes.
But who gives a fuck I just want to be huge and have good qualifications. That’s all.
For those of you who think that big guys DO in fact, intimidate girls.
V-Diet.
[quote]'nuffsaid wrote:
On the big guy issue, there are some very attractive guys, but it does depend on his attitude and friendliness. ther’s a saying " men fear being laughed at (by women),and women fear being killed (by men)"
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The Gift of Fear by Gavin DeBecker. It’s pretty good reading, about the science behind intuition. It’s good for men too.
Mainly the whole book is about: if your gut tells you something bad is about to happen, get the hell out. People don’t do this because they feel silly, or don’t understand the feeling.
[quote]Westclock wrote:
Most girls fear larger guys.
Its obvious. Wouldn’t you be scared of someone who could seriously injure or kill you on a whim ?
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Not if she’s a good shooter.
[quote]Yo Momma wrote:
Westclock wrote:
Most girls fear larger guys.
Its obvious. Wouldn’t you be scared of someone who could seriously injure or kill you on a whim ?
Not if she’s a good shooter.
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silly woman, bullets cant harm us
[quote]bignate wrote:
im still in highschool, being almost 6’5’’ and 240, many of my teachers are intimidated, if i had to talk to them to change a grade i always do it sitting haha, but the girls are definitely into the abercrombie model look, possibly because so few guys in highschool have alot of muscle so its the obly option girls got?[/quote]
6’5 240 in highschool, lucky bastard.
[quote]'nuffsaid wrote:
Professor X wrote:
The downside is yes, you do get some true fat girls who seem to think “oooh, big guy plus big girl equals LUUUUV”.
It’s not like you have to go out with them if you don’t want to! It’s not a lot of fun being pursued by drooling or unattractive guys you can’t stand either, but many women are able to be gracious about it without making ugly remarks about them.[/quote]
Ugly remarks? Have you actually listened to how women talk in private about guys? Your post here tells me the answer is NO.
I would never even attempt to snub some girl who was talking to me no matter how she looked. That doesn’t mean I can’t speak on what I find attractive in a thread that has to do with attraction itself, nor should I have to bite my tongue about it like you seem to be implying. I don’t find morbid obesity attractive on a woman. Sorry if that hurts.
That doesn’t mean I go around yelling, “EWWWWWWW!!!” when I see them either. Get a grip.
[quote]LIFTICVSMAXIMVS wrote:
Yes, all women everywhere are intimidated by big muscular men.
No, wait! all women everywhere love big muscular men.[/quote]
LOL
[quote]Westclock wrote:
DragnCarry wrote:
Westclock wrote:
And then I felt really horrible, because she was scared of me, even though I would never touch her, and would kill anyone who would.
That might explain the uncertainty.
Im not quite sure what you mean…“uncertainty” ?
If a guy hit my girl I would kill him, or at least beat him severely.
Depending on the severity of damage he did to her.
Maybe just a broken eye socket and some bones.[/quote]
If you’ve just lost your temper during a heated argument, and she knows you’re the sort of guy who would consider killing someone, that makes it an uncertain situation.
I’m not saying you wouldn’t always act with what you felt was the utmost integrity, but seeing it from her side the fear that she felt is understandable.
I hope that doesn’t sound like criticism, just pointing out what she might have been afraid of. Then again, I’m a guy, so I have fuck-all idea what women think anyway!
lol guys. im not big and im fairly young too. but i wanna get 270-300 ish. sometimes i think i suffer from ILS, but im gonna try to make sure that it dont happen again, cuz im not a douche.
I just asked this question to some of the girls I’ve been messin around with and they surprisingly said yes, they were afraid at first, but they got to know me and know theyre not at all
so i’m gonna say that the personality is what girls want, but if youre a bigger guy ike I am, then you have to soften up the muscle a little bit and show the lover more than the obvious fighter in you
[quote]DragnCarry wrote:
Westclock wrote:
DragnCarry wrote:
Westclock wrote:
And then I felt really horrible, because she was scared of me, even though I would never touch her, and would kill anyone who would.
That might explain the uncertainty.
Im not quite sure what you mean…“uncertainty” ?
If a guy hit my girl I would kill him, or at least beat him severely.
Depending on the severity of damage he did to her.
Maybe just a broken eye socket and some bones.
If you’ve just lost your temper during a heated argument, and she knows you’re the sort of guy who would consider killing someone, that makes it an uncertain situation.
I’m not saying you wouldn’t always act with what you felt was the utmost integrity, but seeing it from her side the fear that she felt is understandable.
I hope that doesn’t sound like criticism, just pointing out what she might have been afraid of. Then again, I’m a guy, so I have fuck-all idea what women think anyway![/quote]
A valid argument, I thought you were referring to her knowing that I would protect her with extreme prejudice. Which was contradictory to her fearing me…and thus confusing.
You were referring to her knowing that I was capable of violence, which makes perfect sense.
We have had spats and heated arguments before, I have yelled before, but this was the first time she was actually scared.
Usually she will yell and scream back at me in my face and punch and kick me. Shes punched me right in the face before hard enough to hurt her hand (she punched at a funny angle). I have since started blocking my face, But still, I usually just let her have the body shots.
You might say that I was under the impression she wasn’t scared of me as long as I didn’t give her any physical reason to be, I took it for granted. And it was shocking and unsettling to realize otherwise.
[quote]Stength4life wrote:
This is gonna be a long thread[/quote]
It’s getting longer
[quote]polo77j wrote:
Stength4life wrote:
This is gonna be a long thread
It’s getting longer[/quote]
thats what she said…
[quote]ElbowStrike wrote:
OP: Do this mental exercise.
Close your eyes and imagine you are a 135 pound man in the army, prison, old school gym, or some other all-male environment.
Strongly visualize the all-male barracks, the all-male fitness facility, bathrooms, everything.
In this setting you are surrounded by dozens of 250-300 pound strongman competitors – all of whom are homosexual and find you attractive. They all have varying degrees of being forward or even aggressive with their attempts at gaining your attention and getting you to be receptive to their affection.
Most of them are “nice guys” who recognize that you don’t return their interest and are kinda cool to hang out with – although they sometimes snap and get pissed off that you don’t love them back.
Some of them are downright aggressive and cat-call when you walk by, follow you, and try high-pressure sales-like tactics to get you to go on a date with them.
How safe do you feel right now?
This is about the closest I can get to understanding what it would be like to be a woman.
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So… just like women with men, you would probably want to take a serious amount of time when hanging out with any of these guys to make sure they’re a “safe” guy who isn’t gonna take the first opportunity he gets to catch you alone, slip some rohypnol in your drink, and go to town on your asshole while you’re passed out – or just feel you up uninvited or beat the shit out of you and rape you while you’re fully conscious.
This is the kinda shit we men conveniently forget that women have to consider.
So no shit most women are going to be intimidated by big, powerful men, with the appropriate amount of time to “feel out” whether he’s an upstanding guy or a twitchy, misogynistic rapist.
Once again, evolutionary psych explains everything.
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Ok man (cuban voice) this it what you got to do. You take a tot brasshh and burn it ok. Then you put it in wata and stick them in their colos.
[quote]Westclock wrote:
Usually she will yell and scream back at me in my face and punch and kick me. Shes punched me right in the face before hard enough to hurt her hand (she punched at a funny angle). I have since started blocking my face, But still, I usually just let her have the body shots.
You might say that I was under the impression she wasn’t scared of me as long as I didn’t give her any physical reason to be, I took it for granted. And it was shocking and unsettling to realize otherwise.[/quote]
Another factor may be that she won’t control her own aggressiveness and temper (hence the punching), so will she really believe that anyone else will? Especially a man and one of your size? Just a thought.
She might want to consider counseling. Punching and kicking, especially someone you love, during an argument is seriously wrong. Just because you can keep her from hurting you doesn’t make it acceptable behavior.
She doesn’t seem so intimidated to me.
Didn’t seem to work the first time.
Regardles…
She doesn’t seem to mind meatheadness.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
'nuffsaid wrote:
Professor X wrote:
That doesn’t mean I go around yelling, “EWWWWWWW!!!” when I see them either. Get a grip.[/quote]
i lol’d.