Do Big Guys Intimidate Girls?

[quote]Professor X wrote:
LankyMofo wrote:
Professor X wrote:
I feel like a jackass just smiling for no reason.

X, smiling for no reason.

Shouldn’t you be mopping up some corner of the website for me?

I don’t pay “the help” for them to stand around cracking jokes.[/quote]

I mop FOOLS, not corners, FOOLS!!

God dammit!

Yes, all women everywhere are intimidated by big muscular men.

No, wait! all women everywhere love big muscular men.

Internet lurking sinetimes

[quote]CGspot wrote:
Oleena wrote:
I get shy around big guys. Not scared, just giggly-crush, afraid-to-say-the-wrong-thing shy. It’s been like that since I was old enough to be attracted.

I wonder if other women are the same way and the big guys are misinterpretting that as not interested.

I heard on the radio the other day that 70% of women are more friendly to someone they’re not attracted to. which i guess would mean they are cold to someone they are attracted to[/quote]

I think if that was true then almost every woman I have met in the past 2-3 years was attracted to me. Me no think so.

EDIT: For some reason my edit never went through. I don’t remember what I said exactly but I believe I said:

Women like tall men. Trust me. Being 5’2" I have rarely gotten any female attention. Aside from being called “Cute” by female friends… I only recieved genuine interest from one female. And I grabbed on to her and don’t plan on letting go.

Well I do know that some girls just have that steriotype in there head that a big guy is either a women beater or has got tickets on himself.

On the whole though I think women find bigger guys more attractive. It also seems to be that the more a women is around bigger guys the less intimidated she is. Like if a girl has a built brother, father or friend. she is more likely to want a built partner.
My GF used to like the pretty boy kinda guy but she says that after being with me all she sees is their skinny arms lol.

One point that hasn’t been made is that a girl might be intimidated because she thinks a built, attractive guy is out of her league.
Might sound stupid but the better looking you are the less approchable a lot of women will find you.
If your not the kind of guy that sparks up conversation with women you dont know, you might assume they are not interested but they are just waiting for you to make the first move.

[quote]Might sound stupid but the better looking you are the less approchable a lot of women will find you.
If your not the kind of guy that sparks up conversation with women you dont know, you might assume they are not interested but they are just waiting for you to make the first move.

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Curious. Any of you girls on here find me attractive? lol

[quote]Westclock wrote:

And then I felt really horrible, because she was scared of me, even though I would never touch her, and would kill anyone who would.[/quote]

That might explain the uncertainty.

No, I’m not intimidated at all.

I don’t think alot of women are, esp. as I find alot of the big guys I am attracted too are almost always married or in a relationship.

i remember back in high school, i was about 190 at 6 foot. not big by any means, but well built. my girlfriend at the time introduced me to one of her friends and the friend told me how intimidated she was by me. she actually said to her friend when we first started hookin up, “he’s fuckin scary. i dont know how u actually hook up with him”. i was shocked and flattered at the same time. the girl was tiny as hell so maybe that had somethin to do with it.

I’m decent sized (5’10 195) but, I’m in high school. That makes me one of the two or three biggest guys in the building. Almost everyone that doesn’t know me seems intimidated and even some of my close, non lifting type friends flinch if I go for a high five or something. And, folks have told me they were intimidated before they knew me.

I have a reputation for having a temper which really isn’t true most of the time. I also don’t smile much even though I’m a pretty happy and nice individual.

Girls that know me like to start play fights and such. There are so many girls that punch me or whatever when they walk by and then laugh because I’m unaffected. I think it’s because they know I’m friendly and won’t injure them.

So, I think that as long as you get to know the girls and don’t act like a meathead, they aren’t really intimidated by size. Most girls know me for a long time before they really start to talk to me so maybe bigness is a turn off at first.

I find you to be a sexyliciouspiece of fuckberry pie.

[quote]Westclock wrote:
Most girls fear larger guys.

Its obvious. Wouldn’t you be scared of someone who could seriously injure or kill you on a whim ?
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i found that hilarious

[quote]DragnCarry wrote:
Westclock wrote:

And then I felt really horrible, because she was scared of me, even though I would never touch her, and would kill anyone who would.

That might explain the uncertainty.

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Im not quite sure what you mean…“uncertainty” ?

If a guy hit my girl I would kill him, or at least beat him severely.
Depending on the severity of damage he did to her.
Maybe just a broken eye socket and some bones.

And I know from more or less anecdotal evidence, that the police and legal system have a tendency to “look the other way” in such instances.

If they feel it was justified they write it up as self defense, or justifiable homicide.

If someone punched your girl in the face, you could probably break his neck and it would be considered defense of her and youd be off and away.

When I moved here to marry my husband I actually got the lecture from a friend about how I should be scared because if he ever beats me up I’m screwed (not her exact words, but you get the point). Really? I love that he’s big. I love that I know he’d never try to hurt me. And those two things are absolutely unrelated.

Being scared of someone just because they could potentially injury you should they decide to hit you is just stupid.

Someone said a few posts ago that women feel safe around strong guys, that makes some sense. Plus there’s the fun of knowing that if I tease him the right way I’ll be pinned to bed and wont be able to get out… :slight_smile:

[quote]rondastarr wrote:
No, I’m not intimidated at all.

I don’t think alot of women are, esp. as I find alot of the big guys I am attracted too are almost always married or in a relationship.[/quote]

Sorry.

:wink:

[quote]BetaBerry wrote:
When I moved here to marry my husband I actually got the lecture from a friend about how I should be scared because if he ever beats me up I’m screwed (not her exact words, but you get the point). Really? I love that he’s big. I love that I know he’d never try to hurt me. And those two things are absolutely unrelated.

Being scared of someone just because they could potentially injury you should they decide to hit you is just stupid.

Someone said a few posts ago that women feel safe around strong guys, that makes some sense. Plus there’s the fun of knowing that if I tease him the right way I’ll be pinned to bed and wont be able to get out… :slight_smile:
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passionate words, ill try to remember that the next time im training till the verge of dying

[quote]aznt0rk wrote:
A chick found me on AsianAve.com. she messaged me and thought I was “cute”. She ranted for about 5 minutes about how she thought I was a stupid muscle head and thought I looked at myself 24/7 in the mirror, just because I posted a picture of myself topless, and I told her I loved lifting weights. As she was telling me this, I asked her, you wouldn’t have messaged me if there was no picture in the first place right? She was like, no I thought you looked like a nice genuine guy. Then I asked her, since you live like 45min away from me, why don’t I come over and we can fuck". She blocked me on MSN, that was what I was hoping.

My ex, never wanted me to get big in the first place, and told me I had Bigorexia.[/quote]

Cool story bro

[quote]Professor X wrote:

The downside is yes, you do get some true fat girls who seem to think “oooh, big guy plus big girl equals LUUUUV”.[/quote]

It’s not like you have to go out with them if you don’t want to! It’s not a lot of fun being pursued by drooling or unattractive guys you can’t stand either, but many women are able to be gracious about it without making ugly remarks about them.

On the big guy issue, there are some very attractive guys, but it does depend on his attitude and friendliness. ther’s a saying " men fear being laughed at (by women),and women fear being killed (by men)"

Don’t recall the author, apologies.

But many guys are incredibly scary when they’re angry, especially when you add the element of drinking, that is extra scary, although i do realise that body builders may niot drink as much because they want to stay fit.

im still in highschool, being almost 6’5’’ and 240, many of my teachers are intimidated, if i had to talk to them to change a grade i always do it sitting haha, but the girls are definitely into the abercrombie model look, possibly because so few guys in highschool have alot of muscle so its the obly option girls got?

Well,I guess a lot of big guys are also fat asses,regardless of how much muscle they hold. Either way,they’re not going to be too lean most of the time. Then again,some women like some gut on a man,but not obese.

From a strictly straight male point of view,I think huge traps that ‘shorten’ the neck and such ‘aberrations’ can look ugly and dehumanize a person’s appearance to some extent. I’ve seen girls say this too.

Another thing is some stereotypes may be true so that there are blue collar type (nothing wrong with that in itself) guys whose heads revolve around their bodies and lifting numbers,a a core of their masculinity. “urrrghh,yeaah,400 pounds bench!” “urrgh,pffft, 700 pound dead,and I don’t even train muh back!”
There are people like that on Facebook,MySpace etc. type sites. Not necessarily nothing wrong with that either but they may come across as vain or one dimensional.

Again,that may be great for some women but not for others. Hippy,‘intellectual’ types may dislike muscle or be indifferent towards it.