Exactly and over her bodily aging she has little control. That’s the whole point.
I always ask myself how one can be so delusional when I see people saying stuff like “But it’s Rihanna! Look how successful she is!” The truth is, it doesn’t matter. She’s not as hot anymore (IMO not even hot anymore). Men don’t care if you’ve had a number one single this year, it does not make you more attractive as a woman, while a man with a number one single is overwhelmed with girls. It’s solipsism I think. Girls think what they find attractive must be attractive to men too.
I don’t have time to hang around here much anymore, but I figured out one thing that is consistent in this ever changing dynamic.
I can almost 100% guarantee that tomorrow will be worse than today. Everyday, we lose more rights, more horrible decisions are made and more people are dying and suffering.
So enjoy today, for tomorrow it will be worse.
I don’t know where the bottom is.
You’re German, right? How do they usually take that advice?
I might be biased but I’ve met plenty of German girls and I’ve seen them come on holidays to enjoy male attention since I’m a teenager. I’ve seen them come, all female groups, with boyfriends/husbands back home, getting their slut on and then going back with their ego all boosted up making sure their men still sit own to pee.
I used to enjoy their availability when I was younger, but now the more I see it the more it bothers me and makes me careful about puting my trust on someone.
Edit: this is not to say that German girls are sluttiest, ime it’s the same with any of these girls abroad, wheather from the Netherlands, Scandinavia, Spain, etc, it’s just that women from Germany and the UK are more prevalent here.
Just an observation, that may just be my experience. I think there is a general stereotype that at things like a bar setting men are much more aggressive than women. I am starting to think that isn’t true. I think they just don’t necessarily get in trouble for it. Many women complain about things men do, but many women do those things or similar too. I can think of a lot of things were if the roles were reversed, that the guy would be taking a big risk to do, but women do it casually. For example, I haven’t and haven’t ever seen on of my male friends slap a random girls ass at a bar. But, women have done that to me, and I have seen them do that stuff to guys they haven’t even talked to yet. I can think of several things like this that would be sexual harassment if the roles were reversed that I think are thought to be done much more often by men, but I think women actually do it more.
I think there’s a cultural element to this, as some see it as liberating and empowering to refuse to abide by these tasks, traditionally associated with the female role.
The problem is men still have to provide what’s traditionally been expected of them.
So, these young girls don’t think they should cook or clean AT ALL because that’s sexist but who´s gonna fix the sink? Who’s gonna stand up in the midle of the night when you hear noises and sounds like someone’s breaking in? It’s not going to be them, that’s for sure. That’s what the men is for.
I wouldn’t get married with a woman under those conditions.
Oh yes absolutely.
I’ve seen women flirt with and harass even bartenders. A girl I know from Germany felt a bartender’s ass when he served us.
Can you imagine the shitstorm if the roles were reversed?
Not long ago I had a girl I didn’t know dancing close to me pull my cigarette out of my mouth, blow smoke to my face and keep dancing.
She was surprised that I took the fag back but fuck her. I only smoke now when I’m hammered so that cigarette was higher in my priorities than her.
I am not sure if this idea is some fringe thing? Do women understand that they are actually probably worse as far as being aggressive, yet complain about men being aggressive in these settings? Is it just okay socially for it to be this way? I kinda think that is what it is. Most guys aren’t going to go off on a woman for slapping their ass or something, so they get away with it, and if you can get away with it, why not?
I 100% agree. I make the majority of the money by a wide margin.
I clean toilets and do laundry and share responsibilities for the kids. But, she does 99% of the cooking and household stuff. Of course we have a maid that comes once a week to do deep cleaning.
I take care of the repairs around the house and the vehicle maintenance (I do most of it myself because most shops these days are full of idiots). It is a partnership and both have to contribute. My wife was raised more traditionally. She is a very independent person and we make decisions together, but I have the final say in most things. You can’t have 2 leaders - it does not work.
Being the head of a household and the man of the house does not mean you lord over everyone and become a tyrant. You serve and take care of your household. It is a big responsibility and requires a strong supportive spouse to work effectively.
Of course a lot of folks and modern feminism would look at my comments as sexist and patriarchal, but I really don’t care. It works.
I also like to do the repairs myself, not because most shops these days are full of idiots (which they are, probably because everyone’s gone off to college for their sociology degree so no one wants to do the hard work anymore), but I find it’s good father-sons bonding and what the hell, will prevent them from being screwd in the future.
i agree, but an equal partership may work as well.
Maybe they wouId, but fuck them. I agree with you here.
Especially because:
I see no problem with a guy being a stay at home dad or working part-time so a wife can focus on her career but it seems to me than when the man isn’t making the majority of money money he gets no respect. I don’t mean from his peers or anything, but from his own spouse.
I speaking only from what I know personally. I could be way off, but the guys are know under these conditions are often mistreated, oppressed and even cheated on.
I think it has to be an equal partnership, but also you need a deciding vote if you can’t agree fully on something.
If I make the decision, I will take the responsibility on dealing with the failure or issues. If my decision succeeds positively, I share that success equally with my spouse. I think that is part of being a good “leader”.
I pretty much am always the one giving up and asking for forgiveness after a fight. I just don’t have the mental energy to put up with it, so I give up. It seems it often comes down to being able to be right or happy. I choose the latter a lot more often than my wife haha.
I am lucky here. While she is female, she does admit when she is wrong more often than not.
And looks at things logically more so than most females I have dealt with. She has a masters in math though so makes a little sense. I have it easy where my wife is concerned in reality compared to most it seems.
It’s mostly because they have not been trained right, by parents, teachers, and the media. A measly few decades ago, most women, including our mothers and grandmothers, were highly capable in all that was needed to raise children and run a home. I’m not bragging here, but my wife is very competent in running a home and child raising because of upbringing and her natural inclination and talent (artistic, creative, green thumb).
Number 3 on your list conflicts with your other points. One of the most significant reasons many women in the current day fall short in them is because decades ago they were influenced to enter the workforce en masse and over time increasingly put careerism, fun, and “girlfriends” before men, home, and family. And today even their boomer parents urge them to rack up academic and professional accolades because they wouldn’t want them to be “owned” by a man and “don’t need a man.”