Another thing I didn’t express in my previous posts is my befuddlement with a seemingly increased interest in the subject of homosexuality amongst some heterosexual men and displays of cross dressing on social media by some too, including some big names in the lifting scene. This is peculiar to me.
Can someone chime in on this?
When I was younger, in the 90’s and aughts, what was understood by the me and other men was the simple fact that some men were homosexual and some that cross dressed. I am from NYC, after all. None of the men I knew “hated gays” or mistreated them and I can only think of two men who were “secretly gay”, a term often applied to heterosexual men who have an actual, expressed aversion to homosexuality.
But homosexuality was not a topic of interest. It simply wasn’t discussed often. It was a sort of “to each, his own” policy. Why is it a hot topic now?
I will not engage in any in-depth intellectual discussion about homosexuality in itself, and that goes for homosexual acts, not just orientation, and that’s because I do not have guarantees for self- control (no gaslighting, no emotional blackmail, no ad hominem attacks) from other men. I simply am asking for some input on what I asked.
Regarding sex education, I have two kids, a son (going on five years old) and a daughter (going on three) I see no need to presexualize either of them and I’d rather introduce the discussion of sex regarding where babies come from first, sexual acts for pleasure second, then orientations, and if necessary, paraphilias, fetishes, relationship arrangements, and so on, whether I condone or disapprove of them. I will not leave any topic closed to discussion.
I have seen firsthand what pre-sexualization does. I don’t need any sexuality plastered all over society, let alone in what media children consume.