Having a nice body can help when initially interacting with a woman
But if you can’t talk… have no charisma… good luck… the brunt of attention you’ll recieve after getting big will come from other guys complimenting you on your gainz.
Girls… contrary to popular belief… generally don’t care that much about how buff you are. Stature, charisma, financial status/career, materialistic possessions… much more important.
In the context of a one night stand, being buff might help… but who cares about one night stands? In the grand scheme, how does sleeping with random women serve to benefit you in any way? Serious question
As to physical intimidation i.e ‘being an asshole’… being big does NOT mean you can fight. The bodybuilding subtypes are generally some of the easiest to beat down. Acting cocky/aggro just because you hit the weights might work if you are picking on someone who is untrained.
Mess with the wrong guy and you’ll see how some nerd working an IT gig can kill you without breaking a sweat. Avoid fighting at all costs… it is juvenile… a battle of egos…
Exception if the bodybuilder is unusually athletic.
If you are getting bullied… and have a clean bill of health… take up boxing/grappling for 6-12 months. A bully who knows how to fight will still pick a fight with you. I know from experience, when I was muscular… it didn’t stop the hyper aggressive psychopathic subtypes from trying to pick fights.
A target is a target. A target can be identified by predators… poor posture, head down… alone… low voice etc. Even if you have muscle… you’ll still be deemed a target via your demeanour.
Getting bigger shouldn’t turn you into an asshole. It MIGHT give you some confidence, but more often than not getting into bodybuilding actually invokes insecurity.
As said, you can see this winning-by-losing cope pop up in these threads.
“I’m having a hard time finding a woman. You fellas got any advice?”
Several posts later…
“Actually I don’t want a woman. Besides, woman suck. And I wanna smash goals in my 20s.” (Stated repeatedly in this and other threads.)
“I win!”
Yes, you won by being dickless. Sounds like a blast! All the honies are gonna be there at the end of the yellow-brick road.
Actually with a supportive partner, all this becomes easier. Many men significantly improve after they meet the right women or have children.
I might be throwing my bias around considering I think being involuntarily womanless can be an utterly lame existence. Perhaps there are men just fine with it.
Re: “getting laid” and money
Some of what I call my “porn come to life” moments (nothing to brag about and what I don’t think should be done) in life happened when I was unemployed!
Meh, I don’t call it being “dickless” I call it being smart. Also, if the majority of under 40 women weren’t such insufferable cunts, I’d probably have more of a drive but that’s obviously not the case in Western countries these days is it? So I decided to focus more on money. The question wasn’t about me wanting to know about getting women, it was about lifting and attitude. Unfortunatley a bunch of retards de-railed it.
I GUESS I could try signing up at a gym and chatting a few up but most people these days have their headphones in and are anti-social anyways so what’s the point?
Sometimes you DO win by loosing. Sometimes NOT making a choice saves you or breaks you.
It’s like the pot calling the kettle “black”, but then also blaming the pot for the kettle’s problems getting pots.
Aren’t you part of that group of ‘retards’?
To answer your question again, you don’t lift and you’re clearly mean - so lifting doesn’t turn you mean. Getting attention from women doesn’t turn you mean either, if anything, it’s the opposite.
not making a choice is still a choice, just a shitty one.
No, it’s not the pot calling the kettle black you idiot. I’m not the one who tries to use people for money. Many women do. OnlyFans, and whatever other gay shit people are doing today.
No, I’m not part of that group because I have a brain and acknowledge reality properly for what it is.
You called women under 40 “insufferable cunts”. You, indeed, are an insufferable cunt. So i stand by my statement.
I’m not entirely sure that you do, but I’m not about to go digging into your psyche. A lot of “red pill” guys think they see the world for what it is, but they’re missing a lot of shades between the blue pill they were taking and the red pill they’re on now. Dunning-Kruger and all that… you’ll figure it out.
Making no decision is arguably the worst decision. I’ll let you in on a secret for when a woman is unfortunately in your presence: women fucking hate indecisive men.
I’m VERY decisive when it comes to matters of business and other stuff. otherwise I wouldn’t have been able to accomplish all that I have. What that is, is none of your fucking business but I still stand by what I said.
