[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
oh god the advice in this thread…
thanks guys… I needed a good LOL[/quote]
Yo, how have you been?[/quote]
I have been doing well, thank you sir
with regards to what OP should have done with this female…I contend that he should have aloof as to her presence.
you see, this girl looked good, and she KNEW that she looked good. I mean, how could she not know? she likely has guys hitting on her and asking for her number every single day.
even though she is consistently getting affirmation from surrounding males, she had not yet gotten it from OP, that was his ace…and he blew it
she thought to herself “hey, that guy (OP) hasn’t hit on me yet, I bet I can make him come over here and hit on me/ask for my number just by looking at him”.
and he played right into her hand. any interest she had in OP instantly vanished as he proved himself to be just as easy and predictable as the rest.
other than that, OP, I would advise you to be very good-looking. if you are reasonably tall, tan, muscular, handsome, well-kempt, etc. AND on top of that, you ignore the girl…she will likely go to great lengths to get your attention.
in a sentence, focus on self-improvement…that’s never bad advice. I guarantee you that you didn’t come off nearly as confident as you think you did. [/quote]
Ah the old “act like you don’t give a fuck about her” approach… I guess i’d be messing with her ego if I tried this, but it’s too late now. I’m constantly told that i’m very good looking, i’m 6’1, i’m beginning to develop that muscular build, and I like to think I dress well. So I should still ignore her now? Even though I’ve given her validation? I don’t want to come off as a butt hurt pussy (although I will admit I already came off as a pussy unintentionally).[/quote]
I wouldn’t call it acting like you “don’t give a fuck about her”… more along the lines of “she isn’t special enough to warrant your attention”.
this is a tough situation, especially considering she is a college girl. you see, basically every girl in college is brainwashed into thinking that every guy is trying to rape them.
you really didn’t do yourself any favors by asking for her number the first time you ever spoke to her…
I would recommend that you keep any and all interaction with her very brief. limit it to a “hey what’s up” as you put your keys on the key rack (don’t break stride) and “take it easy/have a good one” as you leave.
keep it shallow and superficial, if she becomes interested in knowing more about you, she will make a move. if that never happens, then that’s just how things go sometimes.
whatever you do, do NOT be the last one out of the gym when she is closing, or prepare to be maced lol