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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:

[quote]PB Andy wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
…did I do it right?

So I just recently transferred schools and i’m looking for a new beginning. I had a previous relationship as you some of you may know, that I’d like to forget about. Anyways I entered my new gym and noticed the receptionist staring at me. I told her about my account situation and some dialogue ensued. This is when I made my move

Me- so do you go to school around here
Her- yeah I actually go to “same college as me”.
Me- oh that’s nice i’m new here i’m still getting used to the place
Her- yeah it’ll be easy once you get used to it.
Me- it’ll be nice if you could show me around
Her- yeah that wouldn’t be a problem, btw I heard they’re recruiting for frats
Me- ahhhh that’s actually not my thing, so do you have a phone number
Her- i’m sorry I can give it to you (smiling)
Me- oh ok and walk out

Now I plan on walking in the next time as if not a single phuck was given.
[/quote]

Me- so do you go to school around here
Her- yeah I actually go to “same college as me”.
Me- oh that’s nice i’m new here i’m still getting used to the place
Her- yeah it’ll be easy once you get used to it.
Me- it’ll be nice if you could show me around
Her- yeah that wouldn’t be a problem, btw I heard they’re recruiting for frats
Me- [I don’t know anything about frats. What are they like? Which are the good ones?]
Her- [Tells me all about stupid frats]
Me- [Engage. Be opened minded. Ask her is she is in a sorority. She will be.* Ask follow up questions. Thank her.]
Her - [No problem.]
Me - [Can you do me a favor?]
Her – [maybe]
Me - [I think that frat idea sounds fun, but I want to think about it a little more. Can I call you after I think about it a little bit?]
Her – [Sure.]

Then you go with her to an open frat party and have drunken sex.

This is not that hard.

  • If she is not in a sorority, but rather a little sister in a fraternity, then disengage for reasons too numerous to list here.[/quote]

I wish I had made this thread before asking her smh. What do I do now?
[/quote]
learn from it and continue talking to girls. Better to be rejected than not talking to her at all.[/quote]

This. And don’t bother with this girl.

Or after a month of passing polite greetings at the door on a day she looks hot, tell her in a playful way, “Damn [insert name here], you look good today. Is it still your policy not to give out your number to gym guys? Because you are the hottest girl I see, day after day. You need to help me out and let me take you our and treat you like a princess.”

She’ll probably laugh at your ass and say no, which is the 75% response I’ve often gotten to such crap. But it plays on woman’s most basic carnal desire – to be lusted after. This is such a basic desire that 1/8 woman have rape fantasies. They want to be so beautiful and hot that men lose control around them.

As a result, about 1/4 say “yes,” especially when you do it where they won’t be slut-shamed or talked about — e.g., on vacation, at a business hotel, whatever.

Odds are less at her place of employment because the price of poker is too high.

But at parties, whatever, the direct, you-are-hottest-girl-and-I-want-to-fuck is amazingly high percentage.

Witness an approach that I used to do and it was not thought out, but what I really wanted to know:

You see hot girl. Walk up.

You – Hi my names Dave. What’s your name.
Her — fuck you, go away, unavailable, or “Glenda”
You — leave or “Glenda, you are the prettiest girl here and I want to know if your personality matches.”

Engage in further conversation, I seldom made out with girls in public, as that often ended up with an ex throwing a drink on me, so I’d typically lead into “We should go somewhere to get to know each other better.”

Either a no, or sex.

Just be direct. All the white knight bullshit is bullshit.

I met my wife skiing (or more accurately fucking with my ski boots as I walked up stairs and clogging traffic). She was wearing skin tight ski pants. She said “what are you doing down there” (because I was clogging traffic). I responded, “looking at your ass, it’s absolutely fantastic. My name’s Dave.” And I walked up and shook her hand.

[/quote]

I feel like if call her hot or anything remotely similar i’d get my ass kicked by either her brother, bf, ex bf, some whiteknight in the gym, etc. I don’t want to just have sex with her, that’s just a bonus in my opinion. I’ve always heard that confidence is the up most importance. I tried to be as confident as possible, dare I say a little too confident.This is honestly my first time ever even asking a girl out.
[/quote]
What a strange fear to have. I think you need to lift more.

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[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:

[quote]PB Andy wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
…did I do it right?

So I just recently transferred schools and i’m looking for a new beginning. I had a previous relationship as you some of you may know, that I’d like to forget about. Anyways I entered my new gym and noticed the receptionist staring at me. I told her about my account situation and some dialogue ensued. This is when I made my move

Me- so do you go to school around here
Her- yeah I actually go to “same college as me”.
Me- oh that’s nice i’m new here i’m still getting used to the place
Her- yeah it’ll be easy once you get used to it.
Me- it’ll be nice if you could show me around
Her- yeah that wouldn’t be a problem, btw I heard they’re recruiting for frats
Me- ahhhh that’s actually not my thing, so do you have a phone number
Her- i’m sorry I can give it to you (smiling)
Me- oh ok and walk out

Now I plan on walking in the next time as if not a single phuck was given.
[/quote]

Me- so do you go to school around here
Her- yeah I actually go to “same college as me”.
Me- oh that’s nice i’m new here i’m still getting used to the place
Her- yeah it’ll be easy once you get used to it.
Me- it’ll be nice if you could show me around
Her- yeah that wouldn’t be a problem, btw I heard they’re recruiting for frats
Me- [I don’t know anything about frats. What are they like? Which are the good ones?]
Her- [Tells me all about stupid frats]
Me- [Engage. Be opened minded. Ask her is she is in a sorority. She will be.* Ask follow up questions. Thank her.]
Her - [No problem.]
Me - [Can you do me a favor?]
Her – [maybe]
Me - [I think that frat idea sounds fun, but I want to think about it a little more. Can I call you after I think about it a little bit?]
Her – [Sure.]

Then you go with her to an open frat party and have drunken sex.

This is not that hard.

  • If she is not in a sorority, but rather a little sister in a fraternity, then disengage for reasons too numerous to list here.[/quote]

I wish I had made this thread before asking her smh. What do I do now?
[/quote]
learn from it and continue talking to girls. Better to be rejected than not talking to her at all.[/quote]

This. And don’t bother with this girl.

Or after a month of passing polite greetings at the door on a day she looks hot, tell her in a playful way, “Damn [insert name here], you look good today. Is it still your policy not to give out your number to gym guys? Because you are the hottest girl I see, day after day. You need to help me out and let me take you our and treat you like a princess.”

She’ll probably laugh at your ass and say no, which is the 75% response I’ve often gotten to such crap. But it plays on woman’s most basic carnal desire – to be lusted after. This is such a basic desire that 1/8 woman have rape fantasies. They want to be so beautiful and hot that men lose control around them.

As a result, about 1/4 say “yes,” especially when you do it where they won’t be slut-shamed or talked about — e.g., on vacation, at a business hotel, whatever.

Odds are less at her place of employment because the price of poker is too high.

But at parties, whatever, the direct, you-are-hottest-girl-and-I-want-to-fuck is amazingly high percentage.

Witness an approach that I used to do and it was not thought out, but what I really wanted to know:

You see hot girl. Walk up.

You – Hi my names Dave. What’s your name.
Her — fuck you, go away, unavailable, or “Glenda”
You — leave or “Glenda, you are the prettiest girl here and I want to know if your personality matches.”

Engage in further conversation, I seldom made out with girls in public, as that often ended up with an ex throwing a drink on me, so I’d typically lead into “We should go somewhere to get to know each other better.”

Either a no, or sex.

Just be direct. All the white knight bullshit is bullshit.

I met my wife skiing (or more accurately fucking with my ski boots as I walked up stairs and clogging traffic). She was wearing skin tight ski pants. She said “what are you doing down there” (because I was clogging traffic). I responded, “looking at your ass, it’s absolutely fantastic. My name’s Dave.” And I walked up and shook her hand.

[/quote]

I feel like if call her hot or anything remotely similar i’d get my ass kicked by either her brother, bf, ex bf, some whiteknight in the gym, etc. I don’t want to just have sex with her, that’s just a bonus in my opinion. I’ve always heard that confidence is the up most importance. I tried to be as confident as possible, dare I say a little too confident.This is honestly my first time ever even asking a girl out.
[/quote]
What a strange fear to have. I think you need to lift more.[/quote]

I’m in a new environment where I know absolutely no one.I guess time to just lift brah.

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[quote]jbpick86 wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

I feel like if call her hot or anything remotely similar i’d get my ass kicked by either her brother, bf, ex bf, some whiteknight in the gym, etc. I don’t want to just have sex with her, that’s just a bonus in my opinion. I’ve always heard that confidence is the up most importance. I tried to be as confident as possible, dare I say a little too confident.This is honestly my first time ever even asking a girl out.
[/quote]

Pro tip: don’t think about other dudes when calling a chick hot. [/quote]

Pro tip #2: no one is going to kick your ass for calling a girl hot, unless the bf is standing right next to her when you do it. Embrace rejection.

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Keep in mind that when you deal with the “hired guns” (waitresses, front desk girls, baristas, etc…) they are PAID TO BE NICE TO YOU. They also get hit on ALL THE FUCKING TIME. And they have probably fucked a customer or two in their day, dealt with the inevitable fall out from that and have decided to not mix business with pleasure. Now that isn’t to say that if you manage to spark some amazing attraction that you can’t pull a hired gun. I’m saying that you better come correct with your approach and have some serious skillz.

If you are asking here for dating advice, I would submit for your consideration that more practice is needed before you can realistically expect to pull a quality hired gun. And by the way, hired guns are GREAT for practice! Spit game at them every time you see them. Watch their eyes dilate and skin flush and their body language as they respond to you…

But don’t close the deal unless A) it’s your first time meeting them and you are SURE you knocked it out of the park or B) they go out of their way to give you proximity over the course of a few different times visiting the establishment. Any other scenario will most likely end up with an outcome other than the one you are hoping for.

And just to confound the issue, sometimes you have fools luck and meet a girl who is just “ready to dance”… Then you can throw all that advice away and follow your gut. Keep in mind that out of all the girls you see throughout your day that you are attracted to, only about 33% of them are even OPEN to being hit on and giving their number. The rest are either in a relationship, hoping to be in a relationship, dealing with a breakup, only dates guys with dark hair and blue eyes, <<>>, or just plain aren’t attracted to you.

You could spit the PERFECT opening line, and toggle the conversation PERFECTLY and you still won’t get the digits. Or if you do, she will flake… That’s just a fact of life that has nothing whatsoever to do with your actions or ability or “attractiveness”. Sometimes the answer is just no.

But it’s really no big deal. Just keep approaching and going for the number. Once you have a few numbers, I’ll expect another thread entitled, “why do all these girls flake on me?”. LOL Then we’ll start to discuss how to improve your conversion rate. But start with the numbers. Good luck.

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

I feel like if call her hot or anything remotely similar i’d get my ass kicked by either her brother, bf, ex bf, some whiteknight in the gym, etc. I don’t want to just have sex with her, that’s just a bonus in my opinion. I’ve always heard that confidence is the up most importance. I tried to be as confident as possible, dare I say a little too confident.This is honestly my first time ever even asking a girl out.
[/quote]

The odds of this happening are less than 2% in my experience. Don’t think about it. If it does happen, and you are confronted by someone, don’t try and fight them, tell them that they are lucky. If they STILL get in your face about you just talking to “their girl”, give them a Scottish kiss and beat their ass in front of “their girl”. You will have “won” her at this point and you can then put her over your shoulder, carry her to the nearest empty room and have sex with her. This is primal stuff here - I’m serious…

:slight_smile:

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[quote]angry chicken wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

I feel like if call her hot or anything remotely similar i’d get my ass kicked by either her brother, bf, ex bf, some whiteknight in the gym, etc. I don’t want to just have sex with her, that’s just a bonus in my opinion. I’ve always heard that confidence is the up most importance. I tried to be as confident as possible, dare I say a little too confident.This is honestly my first time ever even asking a girl out.
[/quote]

The odds of this happening are less than 2% in my experience. Don’t think about it. If it does happen, and you are confronted by someone, don’t try and fight them, tell them that they are lucky. If they STILL get in your face about you just talking to “their girl”, give them a Scottish kiss and beat their ass in front of “their girl”. You will have “won” her at this point and you can then put her over your shoulder, carry her to the nearest empty room and have sex with her. This is primal stuff here - I’m serious…

:slight_smile:
[/quote]
Seriously. Then you’ll build a reputation as a badass at your new school.

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Some sororities and fraternities have this new bullshit policy that doesn’t allow them to dirty rush by having the opposite gender recruit them. I got my ass railed by OSL for giving my number out to new girls after telling them about the greek life on campus. Several buddies from other universities that are greek have ran into that. depending on the school and greek leadership it might have been frowned upon for her to do that after mentioning greek life. Im just adding this in.

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[quote]texas man wrote:
Some sororities and fraternities have this new bullshit policy that doesn’t allow them to dirty rush by having the opposite gender recruit them. I got my ass railed by OSL for giving my number out to new girls after telling them about the greek life on campus. Several buddies from other universities that are greek have ran into that. depending on the school and greek leadership it might have been frowned upon for her to do that after mentioning greek life. Im just adding this in.

[/quote]
so you’re saying there’s a chance? lol

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]texas man wrote:
Some sororities and fraternities have this new bullshit policy that doesn’t allow them to dirty rush by having the opposite gender recruit them. I got my ass railed by OSL for giving my number out to new girls after telling them about the greek life on campus. Several buddies from other universities that are greek have ran into that. depending on the school and greek leadership it might have been frowned upon for her to do that after mentioning greek life. Im just adding this in.

[/quote]
so you’re saying there’s a chance? lol[/quote]

Bro probably not haha
maybe if you keep going at it like ruffian said but hell dude you are new
scope some other ladies of campus out
follow the advice dude

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[quote]texas man wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]texas man wrote:
Some sororities and fraternities have this new bullshit policy that doesn’t allow them to dirty rush by having the opposite gender recruit them. I got my ass railed by OSL for giving my number out to new girls after telling them about the greek life on campus. Several buddies from other universities that are greek have ran into that. depending on the school and greek leadership it might have been frowned upon for her to do that after mentioning greek life. Im just adding this in.

[/quote]
so you’re saying there’s a chance? lol[/quote]

Bro probably not haha
maybe if you keep going at it like ruffian said but hell dude you are new
scope some other ladies of campus out
follow the advice dude[/quote]

And just because you keep making a run at this girl doesn’t mean you cant keep practicing with other girls. No rule says that your only allowed to hit on one girl at a time.

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[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]SonOfWolf wrote:
Should have pumped your arms before doing it , atleast thats how i do it.I dont leave the house without a pump.[/quote]

It’s much easier to get that pump when you’ve eaten a lot of pasta. Pasta made by momma.[/quote]

Off topic: haven’t forgotten your email. I need to get you names and numbers of operators (the guys who own the wells), not the service end of the company, which is where I am (and you would be). I could get sporadic work for your guy when something fucks up, but what you want is an operator with 3-4 rigs running all the time and you have to stay ahead of them building drilling locations/pits.[/quote]

Curious if you’ve gotten mine?

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[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:

[quote]PB Andy wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
…did I do it right?

So I just recently transferred schools and i’m looking for a new beginning. I had a previous relationship as you some of you may know, that I’d like to forget about. Anyways I entered my new gym and noticed the receptionist staring at me. I told her about my account situation and some dialogue ensued. This is when I made my move

Me- so do you go to school around here
Her- yeah I actually go to “same college as me”.
Me- oh that’s nice i’m new here i’m still getting used to the place
Her- yeah it’ll be easy once you get used to it.
Me- it’ll be nice if you could show me around
Her- yeah that wouldn’t be a problem, btw I heard they’re recruiting for frats
Me- ahhhh that’s actually not my thing, so do you have a phone number
Her- i’m sorry I can give it to you (smiling)
Me- oh ok and walk out

Now I plan on walking in the next time as if not a single phuck was given.
[/quote]

Me- so do you go to school around here
Her- yeah I actually go to “same college as me”.
Me- oh that’s nice i’m new here i’m still getting used to the place
Her- yeah it’ll be easy once you get used to it.
Me- it’ll be nice if you could show me around
Her- yeah that wouldn’t be a problem, btw I heard they’re recruiting for frats
Me- [I don’t know anything about frats. What are they like? Which are the good ones?]
Her- [Tells me all about stupid frats]
Me- [Engage. Be opened minded. Ask her is she is in a sorority. She will be.* Ask follow up questions. Thank her.]
Her - [No problem.]
Me - [Can you do me a favor?]
Her – [maybe]
Me - [I think that frat idea sounds fun, but I want to think about it a little more. Can I call you after I think about it a little bit?]
Her – [Sure.]

Then you go with her to an open frat party and have drunken sex.

This is not that hard.

  • If she is not in a sorority, but rather a little sister in a fraternity, then disengage for reasons too numerous to list here.[/quote]

I wish I had made this thread before asking her smh. What do I do now?
[/quote]
learn from it and continue talking to girls. Better to be rejected than not talking to her at all.[/quote]

This. And don’t bother with this girl.

Or after a month of passing polite greetings at the door on a day she looks hot, tell her in a playful way, “Damn [insert name here], you look good today. Is it still your policy not to give out your number to gym guys? Because you are the hottest girl I see, day after day. You need to help me out and let me take you our and treat you like a princess.”

She’ll probably laugh at your ass and say no, which is the 75% response I’ve often gotten to such crap. But it plays on woman’s most basic carnal desire – to be lusted after. This is such a basic desire that 1/8 woman have rape fantasies. They want to be so beautiful and hot that men lose control around them.

As a result, about 1/4 say “yes,” especially when you do it where they won’t be slut-shamed or talked about — e.g., on vacation, at a business hotel, whatever.

Odds are less at her place of employment because the price of poker is too high.

But at parties, whatever, the direct, you-are-hottest-girl-and-I-want-to-fuck is amazingly high percentage.

Witness an approach that I used to do and it was not thought out, but what I really wanted to know:

You see hot girl. Walk up.

You – Hi my names Dave. What’s your name.
Her — fuck you, go away, unavailable, or “Glenda”
You — leave or “Glenda, you are the prettiest girl here and I want to know if your personality matches.”

Engage in further conversation, I seldom made out with girls in public, as that often ended up with an ex throwing a drink on me, so I’d typically lead into “We should go somewhere to get to know each other better.”

Either a no, or sex.

Just be direct. All the white knight bullshit is bullshit.

I met my wife skiing (or more accurately fucking with my ski boots as I walked up stairs and clogging traffic). She was wearing skin tight ski pants. She said “what are you doing down there” (because I was clogging traffic). I responded, “looking at your ass, it’s absolutely fantastic. My name’s Dave.” And I walked up and shook her hand.

[/quote]

You sir, are a wizard. But, goddamn, if that ain’t good advice.

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[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]SonOfWolf wrote:
Should have pumped your arms before doing it , atleast thats how i do it.I dont leave the house without a pump.[/quote]

It’s much easier to get that pump when you’ve eaten a lot of pasta. Pasta made by momma.[/quote]

Wasn’t it chicken and rice? His mum didn’t want him to get puffy.

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[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]Legalsteel wrote:

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]SonOfWolf wrote:
Should have pumped your arms before doing it , atleast thats how i do it.I dont leave the house without a pump.[/quote]

It’s much easier to get that pump when you’ve eaten a lot of pasta. Pasta made by momma.[/quote]

Wasn’t it chicken and rice? His mum didn’t want him to get puffy. [/quote]

Started out as pasta, I believe. Pasta made by a “stupid” mom.
[/quote]

Yup, stupid mom not buying him anything but the proteinz.

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turns out the girl I asked out is extremely popular on campus and every guy and their mom wants a piece of that ass. So do I get any credit for having the balls to ask her out?

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[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
turns out the girl I asked out is extremely popular on campus and every guy and their mom wants a piece of that ass. So do I get any credit for having the balls to ask her out? [/quote]

POIDNH[/quote]

I can’t do that for obvious reasons, but i’ll do the next best thing. Just imagine a girl that’s 5’5, wavy black hair, cute smile, thin build, and her celebrity look alike would be a young Eva Longoria.