Dchris's Grappling with Age

12/29

7 days until my 4 week paternity leave comes to an end. My wife and I now have three kids, ranging from 1-7 that we are fostering with them intent of adopting.

Current morning weight: 210

Training has been at home since going on leave. Next Monday I resume work and travel.

Today’s workout:
100kb swings with 60lber. Broke it into 4 sets with 3 pull-ups after each set. No rest between.

Barbell Rows
4x12-16

KB Dow
3x12-16x60lber

I was really hoping to weigh in at a new low tomorrow, but my wife’s best friend came over with her kid niece. I didn’t have enough food to make dinner for 7, so ordered pizzas. I didn’t eat over my daily cals, but there’s a bunch of food in my belly that will make me weigh more than I would have with .5 cup of rice and 6oz chicken.

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You’re a good man.

Also: a madman

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I’m not gonna lie, it’s difficult. Especially given the abuse these kids endured. It’s not for everyone, but it was a very conscience and calibrated decision my wife and I made. We took a year to prepare our house and all the things we need, support services, convenience strategies (especially with my travel), etc.

It’s a blast and has worked out better (IMO, haven’t asked my wife) than having kids biologically. Starting with new humans at my current career point would be extremely difficult, especially if we had two additional kids in the next 5 years.

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Not exactly a ground breaking revelation, but having kids has been the single biggest change in my life. I hope it brings you as much happiness.

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12/30

Didn’t weigh myself cause the youngest woke at 530 and I didn’t get contacts in until after I had drank coffee and water.

Leg day!!

Barbell lunges
3x6x115lbs

Front squats
3x10x115

Walking Frog Walk with 60lb KB
100’

Hanging Leg Raises
20

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This is the first year I haven’t been totally discouraged with my current level of fitness. I’m nowhere where I want to be… but, for the first time, in a long time, I ended the year better than I started. Overall, I lost 20lbs, probably added some muscle. Given the fact that I built the office I opened (which I live 4 hours away from) to five FT employees and added three kids, I’m not doing too shabby.

12/31

No official workout. Lots of pull-ups throughout the day.

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OHP
3x10x115lbs

KB Press
3x12x40lbers

Pullups
20

Plate Raises
100x45lb

Food:
Lunch - 2 eggs, 2 slices of bacon, Parmesan cheese and two corn tortillas

Dinner - 1 cup of rice, 3 eggs, 2tbsp of pesto.

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still some good work done to start the new year

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You accomplished a lot outside of the gym and dropped 20 pounds. Fitness progress in the face of increased stress is a huge win. Well done.

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@bigpappafrance @Frank_C

Thanks guys. While true, I’ve been trying to get my physical self to a certain level for a long time. Probably, incorrectly, under the assumption there would not be any sacrifices while pursuing professional aspirations. I’d really like to achieve it this year, especially as I approach 30.

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Pull Ups
30 - took 4 sets. 12, 7, 4, 7

BB Rows
5x12

KB Rows
2x10x60lb
2x16x40lb

Curls
3 sets of enough

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1/3

Leg Day - only had 15 minutes total to workout.

10 pull-ups

Barbell split squats
3x6x115/leg - no rest switching back and forth

Front Squats
3x6 -30 second break

Goblet squat
2x20x80lb KB

Legit couldn’t walk inside after doing the goblet squat. Completed workout in 9 minutes. :man_shrugging:t2:

Current weight, fully dressed (hats, sweats, phone, tshirt) with food in belly, is 214. Really hoping tomorrow is 209!

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1/4

Awoke to kids hanging on me. Weighed 209.4 fully dressed. Sure I was less, but couldn’t just undress to weigh myself. Haha

No real workout.

1/5

Morning weight 209, despite eating a crap ton at lunch.

Only a kinda-sorta-workout today

3 sets of:
8 pull-ups
8x115lb OHP
10x45lb plate raises
10x40lb KB row

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My wife just told me I look emaciated. My diet must be working.

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#goals.

Mine told me a few months ago my shoulders looked smaller. The divorce hearing is next week.

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It’s not fair that the muscles we want to be big more than anything are the first to “shrink”.

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I dunno man, my ab muscle (singular) seems to grow pretty damn quick.

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Fortunately, after 5-10 minutes that muscle can perk up again.

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1/6

Morning weight: 208 (new low)

Morning workout:

100kb swings with 60lber and 20 pull-ups

20 plate raises.

First day back to work today, after 4 weeks off. I’ve been up since 1am stressed. Not sure if because of work or because wife will be alone with kids.

I got home from work at 530, completely exhausted. But…alas, three kids are so excited to see me. My wife was warn out so I played dog pile on me for 3 hours while she rested and made dinner. Then spent 30 minutes tackling some wife requested projects, which leads me to this current moment. 9pm, laying in bed after being awake for 20 hours. Too tired to lift, didn’t eat dinner. Only meal was lunch, which was sushi and vegetable tempura.

Is sleep deprivation a weight loss tool? I recall it be effective for The Machinist. My new kids think I’m not very soft to jump on, I took that as a compliment. Crossing my fingers for 207 tomorrow. If it hit it, I’m having a pint of ice cream tomorrow. Hahaha

We can dream, right?

Or, more accurately, we can’t.

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1/7

Morning weight: 209. Fuck, no ice cream. That’s what I get for eating sushi for lunch yesterday.

No workout. Hit the road at 645. I decided to ease back into working and left the office tonight at 930. Ha.

Food today was meh.

Had a protein peanut butter cup for breakfast - 220 cals.
Cliff bar for late breakfast - 240 cals.
Hawaiian food for lunch (cup of rice, 6oz chicken and Mac n cheese) ~1,000 cals.

No dinner. Had my head down trying to finish a report and find a $120k error in a $77M budget.

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