[quote]polo77j wrote:
Honestly, people, the kid made a hard commitment to abstain from doing the deed until marriage and all you heathens are trying to convince him he’s fucking up? Fantastic, someone comes in here with some sort of ridged moral conviction and you all try to turn him onto getting his dick wet by telling him what a stiff he is … fantastic.
How about instead of preaching to someone about a positive life decision we give him date ideas that are fun so he can give it to her … the fun that is. I’m absotlutely ashamed at the level of intolerance you dicks are giving this kid. He’s not a pussy after all.
Seriously, let’s lend him a hand, stroke his ego, and give him ideas for a great time!![/quote]
Some classic shit right there polo :D[/quote]
I don’t know, I think I made it too obvious there at the end … Mark Twain wouldn’t like it
[quote]Vicke_bg wrote:
Take her to Ikea, or something like rock climbing, paintball… Something unusual. Girls are bored of normal guys, and definitely you are not like every other guy.
Why Ikea? You have over there bedrooms, kitchens, bathrooms and all those things you have in houses, and you can make it fun! Act like you cook her meal, you are waiting for her in bed, waiting for her to change your tv channel because you are comfortable in your chair, and when she is already coming, let her bring you your protein shake Just have fun![/quote]
Honestly, I’ve taken a few girls I’ve dated rock climbing … it’s a great time plus you get to watch their cute asses as they climb up the wall and check out their camel toe while they’re in the their harness
OP are you of the mindset that you’ll abstain until marriage then once you’re hitched it will be a non-stop fuckfest? If so consider that if a girl is willing to ACTUALLY not have sex until she’s wed she can’t have much of a libido. I know a religious couple, the farthest they’ve gone is kissing WITH TONGUE OMG and I’ve talked to some of her friends who’ve told me that she’s said even after marriage she only really plans to have sex to get a kid or 2 then that’s it.
[quote]polo77j wrote:
Honestly, people, the kid made a hard commitment to abstain from doing the deed until marriage and all you heathens are trying to convince him he’s fucking up? Fantastic, someone comes in here with some sort of ridged moral conviction and you all try to turn him onto getting his dick wet by telling him what a stiff he is … fantastic.
How about instead of preaching to someone about a positive life decision we give him date ideas that are fun so he can give it to her … the fun that is. I’m absotlutely ashamed at the level of intolerance you dicks are giving this kid. He’s not a pussy after all.
Seriously, let’s lend him a hand, stroke his ego, and give him ideas for a great time!![/quote]
Some classic shit right there polo :D[/quote]
I don’t know, I think I made it too obvious there at the end … Mark Twain wouldn’t like it[/quote]
Perhaps a little lacking in subtlety but nevertheless thoroughly entertaining.
[quote]dollarbill44 wrote:
A good first date, and one that I recommend to anyone who asks me on the subject, bring her by my place and watch me have sex with her.
DB[/quote]
Yeah, but Yukon is a long ways off, man, or I’d a been dropping babes off at your place for years.[/quote]
I think there is nothing wrong with wanting to wait until marriage to have sex. That’s not what I do but I know it can work out for some people.
That being said if you want to get into a relationship you still have to excite her. If you are too tame you are still going straight to the friend zone whether she has your beliefs or not. You still have to do things that make it clear that you are a couple and not friends hanging out.
Anyway, about date ideas my favourite first date is to just go and get a coffee somewhere then maybe go for a walk. You can do something more exciting second time round when you know what she likes. The best first date I’ve ever had was when we just went to get a quick coffee but ended up spending 5 hours there. Would have been longer but I realised I only had 2 hour parking. I was safe in the end which was lucky!
[quote]Vicke_bg wrote:
Take her to Ikea, or something like rock climbing, paintball… Something unusual. Girls are bored of normal guys, and definitely you are not like every other guy.
Why Ikea? You have over there bedrooms, kitchens, bathrooms and all those things you have in houses, and you can make it fun! Act like you cook her meal, you are waiting for her in bed, waiting for her to change your tv channel because you are comfortable in your chair, and when she is already coming, let her bring you your protein shake Just have fun![/quote]
Honestly, I’ve taken a few girls I’ve dated rock climbing … it’s a great time plus you get to watch their cute asses as they climb up the wall and check out their camel toe while they’re in the their harness[/quote]
Based on what’s going on I seriously doubt the op’s interested in checking out this chicks moose knuckle… unless maybe there’s a surprise hot dog lunch in there. Not that there’s anything wrong with that…
So… you don’t want to sleep with her, or be in any sort of sexual relationship with her?.. So you just want to be friends? Why are you concerned about a date if that’s the case?[/quote]
I DO NOT want to sleep with her. I DO want to date her and try to pursue her in a respectful manner. I want to wait until I am married to get down with the get down, and until that day comes I will date girls in a way that does not include sex of any sort. [/quote]
I DO NOT want to sleep with her. I DO want to date her and try to pursue her in a respectful manner. I want to wait until I am married to get down with the get down, and until that day comes I will date girls in a way that does not include sex of any sort. [/quote]
I’m so glad to hear that there is a man out there choosing to wait. Let me just say that real men are the ones strong enough to wait, and the guys on this thread trying to say otherwise are full of it. Believe it or not, most of my girl peers tell me the same things these guys are saying! They think I’m old-fashioned or don’t understand “how relationships work.” Excuse me for liking chivalry among other things.
As for a date idea, I would say a picnic and reading of her favorite book. It’s really fun to read novels, poems, or anything aloud with someone–you just alternate chapters or stanzas. Plus, it may start a cute tradition–George and Martha Washington read to each other every night!
[quote]AmericanGirl wrote:
Let me just say that real men are the ones strong enough to wait.
Excuse me for liking chivalry among other things.
[/quote]
OK I have nothing wrong with a guy wanting to wait and I’m not gonna give him shit for it, but screw you. Are you implying that because I’ve had sex before marriage, that I lack willpower? I’d agree with you if I actually wanted to ‘save myself’, but I don’t.
And I guarantee that chivalrous Knights back in the olden days banged broads left and right.
I didn’t read any of the responses so I apologize if this has been said .
Take her out to dinner and drinks, then FUCK(FUCK) THE SHIT OUT OF HER without a condom because we all know it feels better. When you feel like you’re about to finish, BAM…stickz it in the puperzz!
You are welcome! and once again, I apologize if this has been said already.
don’t forget, BANG HER hard!
Edit: and stickz itz in the puperzz a couple times not just at the end.
So… you don’t want to sleep with her, or be in any sort of sexual relationship with her?.. So you just want to be friends? Why are you concerned about a date if that’s the case?[/quote]
I DO NOT want to sleep with her. I DO want to date her and try to pursue her in a respectful manner. I want to wait until I am married to get down with the get down, and until that day comes I will date girls in a way that does not include sex of any sort. [/quote]
You have a hard life ahead of you. It is pretty hard to make a woman feel good in a romantic way if she ends up thinking you don’t want to sleep with her. And if she doesn’t feel good, she isn’t going to want to marry you. I think there is a book called “Catch-22” that you might want to read.
You sound like you have a traditional and socially conservative point of view. Here’s how that game is supposed to work:
You pursue her and let her know that you are tormented by not being able to sleep with her.
She feels all giddy that she has created this feeling in a man. It turns her on too, but she helps you hold it together until marriage by talking a lot about how good it will be.
You both get impatient and marry within 6 months.
Step 4 can either turn out great, bad, or somewhere in between. Good luck getting there without step #1 though. As fictional ghost of Ronald Regan would say, “It’s a bitch.”.
I DO NOT want to sleep with her. I DO want to date her and try to pursue her in a respectful manner. I want to wait until I am married to get down with the get down, and until that day comes I will date girls in a way that does not include sex of any sort. [/quote]
I’m so glad to hear that there is a man out there choosing to wait. Let me just say that real men are the ones strong enough to wait, and the guys on this thread trying to say otherwise are full of it. Believe it or not, most of my girl peers tell me the same things these guys are saying! They think I’m old-fashioned or don’t understand “how relationships work.” Excuse me for liking chivalry among other things.
As for a date idea, I would say a picnic and reading of her favorite book. It’s really fun to read novels, poems, or anything aloud with someone–you just alternate chapters or stanzas. Plus, it may start a cute tradition–George and Martha Washington read to each other every night!
I DO NOT want to sleep with her. I DO want to date her and try to pursue her in a respectful manner. I want to wait until I am married to get down with the get down, and until that day comes I will date girls in a way that does not include sex of any sort. [/quote]
I’m so glad to hear that there is a man out there choosing to wait. Let me just say that real men are the ones strong enough to wait, and the guys on this thread trying to say otherwise are full of it. Believe it or not, most of my girl peers tell me the same things these guys are saying! They think I’m old-fashioned or don’t understand “how relationships work.” Excuse me for liking chivalry among other things.
As for a date idea, I would say a picnic and reading of her favorite book. It’s really fun to read novels, poems, or anything aloud with someone–you just alternate chapters or stanzas. Plus, it may start a cute tradition–George and Martha Washington read to each other every night!
Good luck![/quote]
lol… ok
If this all goes swimmingly and she falls for whatever date he decides on, they get close and the chemistry becomes strong, sex is going to happen.
Kissing is inevitable, touching and so on will come,and will either one of them really say ‘lets wait’ at that moment? I highly doubt it. There is self control but this is the most pwoerful natural desire of all. most people cant even diet without one little cheat snack or meal. In fact this is bad since he probably doesnt carry around condoms not expecting sex. He’ll fuck her raw guaranteed.
and what if she wants sex and he goes ‘lets wait till marriage’ she might not even want to get married anytime soon, and what a way to drop it on her, while shes wide open.
Girl + boy + chemistry and attraction+ alone time = sex
I DO NOT want to sleep with her. I DO want to date her and try to pursue her in a respectful manner. I want to wait until I am married to get down with the get down, and until that day comes I will date girls in a way that does not include sex of any sort. [/quote]
I’m so glad to hear that there is a man out there choosing to wait. Let me just say that real men are the ones strong enough to wait, and the guys on this thread trying to say otherwise are full of it. Believe it or not, most of my girl peers tell me the same things these guys are saying! They think I’m old-fashioned or don’t understand “how relationships work.” Excuse me for liking chivalry among other things.
As for a date idea, I would say a picnic and reading of her favorite book. It’s really fun to read novels, poems, or anything aloud with someone–you just alternate chapters or stanzas. Plus, it may start a cute tradition–George and Martha Washington read to each other every night!
Good luck![/quote]
I’m saying this with 100% certainty and honesty: This is the single dumbest thing Ive ever read.
[quote]hungry4more wrote:
All I got out of this thread was “We’re gonna have another virgin in the Marine Corps”. I just don’t get how that works…[/quote]
That shit’s weird to me too. I think it’s a way to feel more masculine by doing something considered manly to mask homosexual urges…
I asked a legit question an never got a response. Will you do other stuff that leads to orgasm short of penetration. Im operating under the assumption there will be kissing, petting, heavy petting, hand under garment activity.
Date ideas…shit man…somewhere your on top of you game. Mini golf?
Men bond through activity, women bond through conversation. Ideally you want a mix of both. Thats why shooting pool, darts and whatnot brought up earlier were a good idea. Bowling. Plus they are in close proximity to a drink for you both to loosen up.
Just have fun![/quote]