Yesterday’s Workout
Lower-ish body: Lighter, lower volume, slow controlled movements, then ab work.
Trained instinctively but didn’t log. It’s luteal phase, and it makes so much of a difference that it needs to be respected.
If I train as hard in luteal phase that I do in follicular or ovulatory phases, then I will end up with massive PMS, elevated cortisol, and tanked testosterone during a phase when it’s already naturally low. This impedes fat loss, muscle growth, libido, happiness, and peace.
When I hear male coaches poo-poo the female infradian rythm, I can assume they’re not having much sex and their wives can’t stand them for at least one portion of the month. Encouraging the female in your life to override her natural hormonal fluctuations is a recipe for an unpleasant relationship.
That’s a life you can have if you want it, but I’d rather work with my body’s natural ebb and flow of hormones. It makes me more of a bubbly, playful wife with a great sex drive and a decent enough body composition.
And that doesn’t seem like a common combination these days. But it’s what I aim for, and workouts can make or break that goal. I don’t follow an official “cycle-synched” program because at this point in life, my body tells me when to hold back and when to push it.
Today’s Workout: Lighter, lower volume
Abs
T-Bar Row
Push-Up
Seated Row
Bent over lateral raise
Machine lateral raise (bottom partials)
Stuff That Doesn’t Matter
I made a post on instagram for the first time in over half a year. Ugh next thing you know I’ll have a Stanley cup. KIDDING!! It’s fine if you have one; there are countless things I do that are worth making fun of. So feel free to poke fun.
What is the proper way to think about being social on the internet? Andrewgen and I had a chat (somewhere above) about this a while back and it really compelled me to back away from it for a couple seasons.
I have practical reasons to get back on, but I want to reframe social media in my mind, and keep it at arms’ distance. Yet I’m not sure that’s possible to do.
If you pop in and have made a lot of friends over the years, there’s an expectation of reciprocity. But the amount of time people spend posting stuff is so massive that you’d have to basically watch your phone and “heart” or comment on people’s private lives for hours a day… because the trend is now to share every fleeting thought and mundane activity a person does.
I can’t keep up and don’t want to. That doesn’t feel selfish; it feels sane. It’s just way too overwhelming.