MD: All of this post is 3M (Meat Market Mode) oriented.
First of all, generalization, like rumors, exist because most of the time theyre true and/or they work. Theres no smoke without fire. While exceptions will always exist, youre better off starting on classics` and refining your pitch, like any good salesman, after you get some feedback.
And, in the 3M mode, being ones self will give you some babes, but since youre only there for one night, a facade/act (note:if youre good at it) will broaden the range of possible babes. Who gives a shit about being <i>that</i> real **? Its not like the others going to see you around next time... So giving a good show always helps. And by hounding most of what we want, we are being true to our male nature. Hope its not too real for you so far. ;p
Finding out what works has nothing to do with confidence. It has to do with results, and refining your sales pitch will bang you more babes, and that`s the bottom line in the 3M mode. You still need confidence to land the pitch with conviction, though, or have compensating assets that help (looks, money, status, power, etc.).
And any guy who can fake confidence well enough will always bang more babes, just because, in part, he asks for more. The law of great numbers, so to say, will always give him a helping hand if he pitches enough, whatever game he had before.
Also, most women are not that honest either at start (ladder theory/kiss of death comes to mind), so using technique to drill through the shield (sometimes bitch shield) is just standard warfare. And putting up an act is actually fighting fire with fire, so to say.
But in the 3M world, everything is fair game. So why all that fuss about honesty and being genuine? It`s all short-term selling to have sex. You just have to hit the right buttons in the right way. Good con men will always reap more, whatever game they had at start before finding the con-methodology.
There`s a reason why techniques stand the test of time: they work. You just need enough brain power and killing instinct to use them right.
**Proof of the pudding that people love deception: look at how much money they can give to actors who, by definition, are phony, yet still move people more than any fellow man. Real? Nope. Effect? Yes. Most women have no idea of how Nicholas Cage would be in real life, but a good quantity of women I know would go to bed with him without a question nevertheless, specially after putting his Con Air act. I am not even talking about classics like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt, to start. Deception and fake, well done, still rules in the 3M world.
