@smiling - it’s not just about banging girls. I don’t have one night stands. I like to have a relationship with a girl. But the novelty and excitement starts to fade after a few months so then I look out for another girl and show her a good time for a few months. The first few weeks are usually great and I’m on a high. Anyways, thanks for the replies everyone. Some interesting comments.
Oh one other thing; a couple of posters mentioned Asian girls. There’s a hell of a lot of Chinese people and people of Chinese descent in Aus but they’re almost never into me. Only a couple of Australianised ones I can think of offhand. Apart from that they pretty much ignore me, not sure what it is as I do fine with other girls. Maybe I’m too intimidating with my heavy brow line and beard/moustache etc. No big deal as I’m not particularly enamoured with them generally. I dated a girl of Indian descent once though. She was a really nice girl. She was a preschool teacher. Still is probably. She loves kids and I assume she’s probably married with kids by now.
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
I like to have a relationship with a girl. But the novelty and excitement starts to fade after a few months so then I look out for another girl and show her a good time for a few months. The first few weeks are usually great and I’m on a high.[/quote]
Any ideas on why you’re unable to maintain the initial intensity longer than a couple of months?
[quote]BlueCollarTr8n wrote:
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
I like to have a relationship with a girl. But the novelty and excitement starts to fade after a few months so then I look out for another girl and show her a good time for a few months. The first few weeks are usually great and I’m on a high.[/quote]
Any ideas on why you’re unable to maintain the initial intensity longer than a couple of months?
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I assumed it was like that for everyone. Not surreally.
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
[quote]BlueCollarTr8n wrote:
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
I like to have a relationship with a girl. But the novelty and excitement starts to fade after a few months so then I look out for another girl and show her a good time for a few months. The first few weeks are usually great and I’m on a high.[/quote]
Any ideas on why you’re unable to maintain the initial intensity longer than a couple of months?
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I assumed it was like that for everyone. Not surreally.[/quote]
Nah, it typically grows if you picked the right kind of girl for you.
Seems to me you let your little head pick the type fo girls you “like” and you heart and big head go along for the ride, boring quickly.
Try it the other way around. The little warrior is pretty much up for anything, all the time.
Sorry if I missed it, but how old are you?
When I was 15, I thought 27 year olds were ancient and unattractive. Now that I’m 35, I think 27 year olds are babies and frighteningly young (in general, sure there are exceptions, etc.). I’m sure it will become more pronounced as I age. I can objectively appreciate a nice fit young thing, but I don’t want to have sex with that nice fit young thing. It would just feel gross.
[quote]Be_Sound wrote:
Sorry if I missed it, but how old are you?
When I was 15, I thought 27 year olds were ancient and unattractive. Now that I’m 35, I think 27 year olds are babies and frighteningly young (in general, sure there are exceptions, etc.). I’m sure it will become more pronounced as I age. I can objectively appreciate a nice fit young thing, but I don’t want to have sex with that nice fit young thing. It would just feel gross. [/quote]
Lol what? Having sex with beautiful young girls would feel gross? Huh what?
^^ I’m early 30’s but I look older. I’d say I look late 30’s because of my face. Getting a few gray hairs on the muzzle too.
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
[quote]Be_Sound wrote:
Sorry if I missed it, but how old are you?
When I was 15, I thought 27 year olds were ancient and unattractive. Now that I’m 35, I think 27 year olds are babies and frighteningly young (in general, sure there are exceptions, etc.). I’m sure it will become more pronounced as I age. I can objectively appreciate a nice fit young thing, but I don’t want to have sex with that nice fit young thing. It would just feel gross. [/quote]
Lol what? Having sex with beautiful young girls would feel gross? Huh what?
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I didn’t say sex with beautiful young girls, necessarily, but yes; sex with people I consider significantly younger than me is not attractive.
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
^^ I’m early 30’s but I look older. I’d say I look late 30’s because of my face. Getting a few gray hairs on the muzzle too.[/quote]
I had figured you to be much younger than that.
[quote]Be_Sound wrote:
I can objectively appreciate a nice fit young thing, but I don’t want to have sex with that nice fit young thing. It would just feel gross. [/quote]
Well, that’s enough internet for today…
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
[quote]BlueCollarTr8n wrote:
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
I like to have a relationship with a girl. But the novelty and excitement starts to fade after a few months so then I look out for another girl and show her a good time for a few months. The first few weeks are usually great and I’m on a high.[/quote]
Any ideas on why you’re unable to maintain the initial intensity longer than a couple of months?
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I assumed it was like that for everyone. Not surreally.[/quote]
Nah, it typically grows if you picked the right kind of girl for you.
Seems to me you let your little head pick the type fo girls you “like” and you heart and big head go along for the ride, boring quickly.
Try it the other way around. The little warrior is pretty much up for anything, all the time. [/quote]
Maybe. I’ve been with all kinds of girls though. At the moment I’m going out with a lady who owns and runs a restaurant. She’s not the wild type I usually go for. But she’s a really beautiful lady and her hair smells fantastic. I’ve mentioned before I have a thing for brown eyes and beautiful Mediterranean / Middle Eastern girls. Anyway, I’ve got to go. It’s really late here and I’ve just got back from a long drive.
[quote]Be_Sound wrote:
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
^^ I’m early 30’s but I look older. I’d say I look late 30’s because of my face. Getting a few gray hairs on the muzzle too.[/quote]
I had figured you to be much younger than that.[/quote]
Really? Why is that?
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
@smiling - it’s not just about banging girls. I don’t have one night stands. I like to have a relationship with a girl. But the novelty and excitement starts to fade after a few months so then I look out for another girl and show her a good time for a few months. The first few weeks are usually great and I’m on a high. Anyways, thanks for the replies everyone. Some interesting comments.[/quote]
I apologize if my statement came across as crass. I am woman enough to admit that the phrase “banging young chicks” says more about my own insecurities of getting older than a judgement of women in their 20s; dumb bimbos are not relegated to a single decade.
Actually I should apologise. I noticed a few ladies here seemed a bit miffed by what I said. Don’t take my finicky ways as any kind of norm. As you can see, there are lots of guys here who think 35+ ladies can be very beautiful. I was actually posting about my own insecurities of getting older and fear of marriage and so on.
[quote]Be_Sound wrote:
I can objectively appreciate a nice fit young thing, but I don’t want to have sex with that nice fit young thing. It would just feel gross. [/quote]
Wut?
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
@smiling - it’s not just about banging girls. I don’t have one night stands. I like to have a relationship with a girl. But the novelty and excitement starts to fade after a few months so then I look out for another girl and show her a good time for a few months. The first few weeks are usually great and I’m on a high. Anyways, thanks for the replies everyone. Some interesting comments.[/quote]
… dumb bimbos are not relegated to a single decade.
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… nooooooo…
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
[quote]Be_Sound wrote:
[quote]SexMachine wrote:
^^ I’m early 30’s but I look older. I’d say I look late 30’s because of my face. Getting a few gray hairs on the muzzle too.[/quote]
I had figured you to be much younger than that.[/quote]
Really? Why is that?[/quote]
…Because the way you view the world shows a lack of personal experience. I really thought you were in your early 20’s at best. I can not imagine being in my early 30’s having never been in a relationship beyond a couple of months. Get off the net and go see the world. That grey hair can be a lady killer if you have the confidence to back it up. Women love confidence and experience…and there is a difference between a 20 something girl and a woman. Be a silverback or leave the pack. Girls can be fun, but they’re boring. Woman can be fun and keep you coming back for more.
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]Be_Sound wrote:
I can objectively appreciate a nice fit young thing, but I don’t want to have sex with that nice fit young thing. It would just feel gross. [/quote]
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LOL. Consider that my gender identity and sexual preference might not be identical to the average poster here. I might make more sense if you don’t assume I’m the same as you.