SexMachine! G’day mate, how you goin’?
SexMachine, in no way am I making fun of you, your views or the situation you expect yourself to be in in, say, 15 years. After reading through the whole thing, I can’t help but feel amused. For a moment, I thought you just wanted to draw attention or something.
Having said that, I deem the scenario you set up ridiculous. Even if the following statement you made really is your reality:
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Womanless = life over. After serious consideration of the matter that’s how I feel about it. When I look at what really matters that’s all that comes up. Money? Just a means to an end. Same with success. What do you think motivates most the guys here to work out? Forget what they say. It’s all about getting girls. That’s why they do it.
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If chasing and bedding wimmenz is what by far matters most to you in life and you’ll keep taking care of yourself (mentally, physically, culturally and maybe apply a little cognitive and affective empathy here and there), you’ll be golden.
Take a look at old man push. I doubt he’d be having trouble scoring, should he so choose. I mean, take a look at his derriere he’s so fond of showcasing to Colucci - that’s some real thrusting prowess right there (all homo, push - I know you can take it). And he’s going to be a gramps, to boot.
Now, nobody is in a position to tell you what you should value most in your life, SexMachine. I’m just suggesting that there are additional worthwhile pursuits one could dedicate (parts of) his life to in addition to chasing and bedding women and lifting weights.
By ‘dedicate’, I’m not talking about chores. I mean ‘engaging in something long-term, constantly improving and having fun’.
You see, as much as I love carnal pursuits (wimmenz, the female shape) and physical exertion (lifting, hiking, running), I used to feel empty after emptying myself into a nice lady (no matter how great the sex was) or setting a new PR.
So, maybe there are a few other things that might rank right up there with wimmenz for you. Maybe you already have plenty of them and just failed to mention it. Maybe I misinterpreted your statement about ‘Womanless = life over’.
And even without those additional pursuits: you’ll be golden (see above).
To give my words some tangible context:
I’m about your age (mid 30s) and I love wimmenz like the next guy.
As much as I love adventure, I also love to read. A lot. In many languages. I also love Science, that’s why I dedicated 6 years of my life to Science and R&D after earning two degrees (which were necessary to give me a good headstart). After that, I’ve felt the pull of adventure once again (and making big money) and said my farewells to Science.
Another thing close to my heart is helping out people in need. I’m a life consultant of sorts on the side, but all pro bono and only by referral (my inner problem solver gets a big kick out of this, tbh).
I chased cougars way before uni and before they were called cougars (I think), I lived menage a trois (them damn accents ain’t working), I lived polyamory (it’s not for me), I tried many a (shitty) thing that seemed to be fun at first and after some time I found what I perceived to be the perfect match (pure happenstance) and I married her (best thing I ever did).
And together, we’re having us our own adventures. Still, I’m sticking to my guns (Science, Books, Problem Solving).
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By the way, don’t take this as an endorsement for marriage: iMho, a lot less folks should get married. If you can’t communicate with and open up honestly to your partner and haven’t at least lived together for a substantial amount of time, you have no business getting married. But hey, that’s just me - it’s a free country.
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