Celibacy?

[quote]therajraj wrote:

[quote]SexMachine wrote:

Anyway, I agree with the poster above. It is a bit presumptuous to imagine young women would be attracted to me in my “senior” years; or anyone else at that age for that matter. [/quote]

I didn’t explain, but this is why I mentioned moving to South East Asia.

It’s much easier to get younger girls as an older white man in this part of the world. Much more difficult in in Anglo nations.

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White? I’m a pretty swarthy bastard. Most take me for a wog. But thanks no, I’m not going to move to Asia to have sex with young girls. 8/)

[quote]kpsnap wrote:

I must admit that I do feel a little defensive on behalf of middle-age women since I am one.[/quote]

You’re extra-ordinary.

Most middle-aged women aren’t PLers and don’t hang out on lifting websites.

[quote]kpsnap wrote:

[quote]Varqanir wrote:

[quote]kpsnap wrote:
I think it’s presumptuous to assume a young, hot girl would be attracted to a man so many years her senior. Sure, you can probably find a youthful, vacuous gold digger if that’s your cup of tea. [/quote]

I don’t know about that.

My dad got remarried not long ago to a younger woman who, like he, is a university professor and accomplished poet. She is a tall, willowy redhead and absolutely gorgeous. Not a vacuous bone in her body, and about the most down-to earth, non-gold-digging woman I have ever met. And my father is about as far from “creepy” as it is possible to get. It was simply a case of mutual attraction and admiration.

She was born in 1980. My father was born in 1949. You may do the math.

Seems to work for them.[/quote]
It sounds like a good match intellectually, which, in my opinion, is hugely important. I’m obviously generalizing regarding age differences. Carry on.[/quote]

In my estimation, intellectual and sexual compatibility trump all else.

And of course, chronological age is no indication of intellect or emotional maturity. I’ve been with women my own age who were as petty and irrational as teenage girls. I’ve also been with a woman less than half my age (she was twenty, I was 43) who was almost certainly my intellectual superior. She was certainly more emotionally mature than most of the women I know in their twenties and thirties.

Understandable. But I’d say also say that you are far superior in many ways to the vast majority of “middle-aged” American women.

[quote]Varqanir wrote:

She was born in 1980. My father was born in 1949. You may do the math.

Seems to work for them.[/quote]

I wonder if May-December relationships will become more common in the West. Young women seeking out older masculine men who “get it” and are in shape.

Seems like the average young guy (especially under 25) is increasingly lost in this respect with many never figuring it out.

Damn you, Pangloss! How dare you steal my Kpsnap-complimenting thunder!

It is a great mistake for men to give up paying compliments, for when they give up saying what is charming, they give up thinking what is charming.

  • Oscar Wilde

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
It is a great mistake for men to give up paying compliments, for when they give up saying what is charming, they give up thinking what is charming.

  • Oscar Wilde[/quote]

If, with the literate, I am
Impelled to try an epigram,
I never seek to take the credit;
We all assume that Oscar said it.

[quote]SexMachine wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:

[quote]SexMachine wrote:

Anyway, I agree with the poster above. It is a bit presumptuous to imagine young women would be attracted to me in my “senior” years; or anyone else at that age for that matter. [/quote]

I didn’t explain, but this is why I mentioned moving to South East Asia.

It’s much easier to get younger girls as an older white man in this part of the world. Much more difficult in in Anglo nations.

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White? I’m a pretty swarthy bastard. Most take me for a wog. But thanks no, I’m not going to move to Asia to have sex with young girls. 8/)
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No hookers, no Southeast Asian nymphettes…

My god, man, how on earth do you expect us to help you when you just reject all our proffered solutions out of hand?

[quote]Varqanir wrote:

[quote]SexMachine wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:

[quote]SexMachine wrote:

Anyway, I agree with the poster above. It is a bit presumptuous to imagine young women would be attracted to me in my “senior” years; or anyone else at that age for that matter. [/quote]

I didn’t explain, but this is why I mentioned moving to South East Asia.

It’s much easier to get younger girls as an older white man in this part of the world. Much more difficult in in Anglo nations.

[/quote]

White? I’m a pretty swarthy bastard. Most take me for a wog. But thanks no, I’m not going to move to Asia to have sex with young girls. 8/)
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No hookers, no Southeast Asian nymphettes…

My god, man, how on earth do you expect us to help you when you just reject all our proffered solutions out of hand?[/quote]

That’s pretty funny. I loled. But I’d be happy to acquaint myself with some Asian ladies but I just don’t want to move there. Besides, there are shitloads of Asians here(Aus) anyway.

I’ve always had a thing for older women. My wife (outside of some randoms) was the first person I’d been with more than once or twice under 30 since I was 19 lmao. And we were 26 when we got married.

[quote]Varqanir wrote:
In my estimation, intellectual and sexual compatibility trump all else.
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Couldn’t agree more. Nothing is sexier than a keen intellect.

[quote]SexMachine wrote:

[quote]Varqanir wrote:

[quote]SexMachine wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:

[quote]SexMachine wrote:

Anyway, I agree with the poster above. It is a bit presumptuous to imagine young women would be attracted to me in my “senior” years; or anyone else at that age for that matter. [/quote]

I didn’t explain, but this is why I mentioned moving to South East Asia.

It’s much easier to get younger girls as an older white man in this part of the world. Much more difficult in in Anglo nations.

[/quote]

White? I’m a pretty swarthy bastard. Most take me for a wog. But thanks no, I’m not going to move to Asia to have sex with young girls. 8/)
[/quote]

No hookers, no Southeast Asian nymphettes…

My god, man, how on earth do you expect us to help you when you just reject all our proffered solutions out of hand?[/quote]

That’s pretty funny. I loled. But I’d be happy to acquaint myself with some Asian ladies but I just don’t want to move there. Besides, there are shitloads of Asians here(Aus) anyway.
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I actually know a mid-20’s redhead who runs, lifts (well sort of) and plays hockey who’s moving to Australia for grad school in a couple of months…

[quote]kpsnap wrote:

[quote]Varqanir wrote:
In my estimation, intellectual and sexual compatibility trump all else.
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Couldn’t agree more. Nothing is sexier than a keen intellect. [/quote]

Does having a good memory count? :wink:

[quote]2busy wrote:

[quote]kpsnap wrote:

[quote]Varqanir wrote:
In my estimation, intellectual and sexual compatibility trump all else.
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Couldn’t agree more. Nothing is sexier than a keen intellect. [/quote]

Does having a good memory count? :wink:
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Only if you don’t confuse the two. Having a good memory can mask as “highly intelligent” and recall is a valuable skill.

But having an incredible memory doesn’t actually make one smart in the true sense, even though they are often spotted together in nature.

[quote]SexMachine wrote:
I’ve come up with a problem that concerns me. I really don’t think I can get married. I just don’t like living with a woman for one thing. Don’t get me wrong. I love girls. Sweet sixteen…well, I don’t want to do time. Actually, I pretty much ignore girls younger than 24ish. The problem is I don’t like woman older than about 35.

I’m just not attracted to them. It’s just how I’m made I guess. And therein is another problem. What am I going to do in my 40’s and older? I’m definitely not going to be the creepy guy who goes after much younger girls. And I won’t like girls my own age. So celibacy after 45ish? I don’t think I could handle that either. I wouldn’t want to go 35+ years without women. I guess my life will be pretty much over in ten years or so. What a drag… :([/quote]

Wait until your 45ish and see if you still have the same attraction, might change??

[quote]scoots2 wrote:

[quote]SexMachine wrote:
I’ve come up with a problem that concerns me. I really don’t think I can get married. I just don’t like living with a woman for one thing. Don’t get me wrong. I love girls. Sweet sixteen…well, I don’t want to do time. Actually, I pretty much ignore girls younger than 24ish. The problem is I don’t like woman older than about 35.

I’m just not attracted to them. It’s just how I’m made I guess. And therein is another problem. What am I going to do in my 40’s and older? I’m definitely not going to be the creepy guy who goes after much younger girls. And I won’t like girls my own age. So celibacy after 45ish? I don’t think I could handle that either. I wouldn’t want to go 35+ years without women. I guess my life will be pretty much over in ten years or so. What a drag… :([/quote]

Wait until your 45ish and see if you still have the same attraction, might change??[/quote]

Naaa…

I would take someone I find attractive, have fun with, and has a good head on their shoulders, long before some bombshell whose most pressing thing on her mind is the newest handbag. I have wasted more money than I care to admit on useless women like that. Years later and dollars thinner, my conclusion had led me to believe that there is no pussy good enough to put up with her shit.

Salient?

[quote]SexMachine wrote:
Best argument for intelligent design. Seriously. [/quote]
Yeah.

[quote]Captnoblivious wrote:
Salient?[/quote]

Jesus, that’s sobering. I knew the risk increased, but I didn’t know a 49 year old woman has a %10 chance of a child with Down’s.