You think you got it tough now wait until she starts going through the menopause. You’ll soon fuck the chores off because you wont want to sleep with a hot flushing harridan.
Joking aside, just chat with her man and lose the chores for sex philosophy. Talking always leads to better outcomes eventually. Good luck.
This probably states it best.
Ha. I’ve got the opposite problem. Figured out Mrs. (Dr.) Jewbacca was dialing up my dosage. I’ve apparently been cruising at 300mg/wk for 5 years.
Of course, this is the same woman who admitted on here to reading dirty stories about Bruce Banner turning into the Hulk and ravaging Betty Ross. I think I need to make her an appointment with Emily to find the source of her muscle fetish.
And this is when you relegate her to the sidelines.
Wow, you really are a peach of a human being, aren’t you…
Same as me, 54
Actually, she kind of already did. We put her on progesterone cream and that helped a lot.
Thank you for all the replies. I definitely got some perspective here. I did a little reading on the love languages and even went so far as to ask her “what do I do that makes her feel most loved?” She said everything ! LOL
The bottom line is that I’m a horny old pig of a man who likes to have sex pretty much more than almost anything else. After our most recent fight about this, she seemed like she would try to be more proactive about making sure I felt appreciated and that she was aware of all that I do. Its pretty good at home right now, I’ll just see how it works out.
Hey, it’s an ugly world but men want to fuck almost to the day they die. Women don’t. What do ya want???
Nice work. If things don’t improve, wake her in the middle of the night by taping her on the cheek with your raging boner. She’ll figure out that sex is a far better option than this and all will be rosey.
That’s my move!! 
That’s a particularly weird fetish you have. Do you have a tape preference?
Hey Studdy ,
This thread looks like a girls’ lunch get-together-for-a-moan session.
If you want to be valued for what you do , create value. How ? Through scarcity. Do less for her. Keep trying hard to please her and you will be treated like a bitch.
You probably get treated that way already.
If that doesn’t work , end the relationship and find somebody worthwhile.
Start acting like a man , not a pussywhipped doormat.
I hesitate to open this can of worms, but has this already been the case? If so, it becomes even more complex, no?
Finally someone with some decent advice.
How long have you been married?
This is very good news. It is awesome you can set down and talk.
I have found If I confess my wants and needs and I can get her to tell me hers we can come to some kind of compromise that works for both.
Keep this in mind your TRT T dose is what controls your libido. You should try to get her back on a very small dose of T. I know you’ve told me you two tried this but it took my wife a whole years with a TT of 200 Top of range 40. Before her libido kicked back in. It also brought back natural lubrication in her lady parts. 10 no more than 20 mg/wk is all it would take. Don’t do more you can turn her in to a raging somebody you don’t want to be around.
Then what? The next argument becomes “you’re not doing anything anymore, you don’t love me like you used to bla bla bla”
Marcusoldman’s comment: “This thread looks like a girls’ lunch get-together-for-a-moan session.”
Exactly.
Assuming TRT is not driving your thinking, consider risking everything here if you aren’t happy with your strong, independent woman who was single 18 years. An ongoing dialogue is good, but if you aren’t getting what you want from that marriage….
A guy your age in decent shape with a good personality who doesn’t abuse a woman can get sex about anywhere. I learned that at 62 after my wife of 28 years died. Great ones abound in your age group, and they’ll cook/clean for you.
EmilyQ is a trained therapist. I’m just much older and not the horndog you seem to be.
You are welcome to your opinion but anonymity isnt a license to be an asshole. Why come here if you dont have anything worthwhile to say? I only asked for advice from husbands who had something to contribute.