APRIL 28TH BENCH TEST DAY WEEK 6
FLAT BENCH PRESS
bar x warm up
135x5 (each rep paused)
135x10 (touch and go)
225x2
275x1
295x1
315x1
(belt on)
335x1 (PR 5 lb- see video)
345x1 (PR 15 lb- forgot to turn camera on)
355x0 (fail- of course I have video- %^$#!)
5 min rest, then…
315x2
225x16 (PR 4 reps)
That’s it.
2 PR’s… why am I so unhappy with the results? Am I expecting too much from myself?
STORYTIME
Rundown-- Felt good going in, warming up etc… and then this guy who I have seen in the gym previously (last 2 months), but have never spoken to nor do I know, approaches me after my set of 225 warmup and says, with a smile… “You able to bench your bodyweight yet?” as he passes by.
I was stunned, I say after him, “is that supposed to be funny asshole”, and then he turns and gives me a look like we are gonna go. I was f’n pissed, and we end up staring each other down for a couple of minutes… then I said screw it, and started towards this guy to trash him. Another gym member intercedes as I am going for him and calms me down.
So, I continue with my training, both of us shooting death startes at each other from across the gym as he proceeds to do deadlifts with 155 lbs for multiple sets.
Then, he comes over and says, “Hey, I was just joking, all I meant is that you are a big guy and you probably weigh a lot, so pressing your bodyweight would be really good.” So, in my mind… he has basically called me weak, and fat in less than 5 minutes.
Now, I just stare at him with the rage building inside me. I have not been this mad in a long time… and I have this vision of actually ripping this f’n guys head off. The only thing that saved him at this point was that he is standing with a flat bench and an incline bench separating us, about 10-12 feet apart.
All I said was, “You have about 10 seconds to get the fuck away from me before I shove an Olympic bar up your ass, you fucking goof”. He then skulks away, to where I don’t know. I did not look for him to play the staring down Alpha Male bullshit game, because if he had of even looked at me I know things would have gone very badly.
I have been dwelling on this since yesterday. Did I over react? Am I reading too much into this? Am I wrong for feeling hurt and angry? Should I have pounded the shit out of this little asshole? Should I pound the shit out of him next time I see him?
Because I am still angry to the point that I could probably provoke him into doing something stupid like throwing the first punch… then I have carte blanche to thrash this goof.
Man. What an idiot. And in case you are wondering, this is not a young kid. He is about our age… 40-45 years old. You would think he would know better and provide support to other persons trying to stave off the Reaper.
I am pissed just recounting this event.