Brokeback Propaganda

[quote]Lorisco wrote:

I feel sorry for the guy! He is in for a lifetime of pain and regret.
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Look, I know what he went through was not easy. And he failed in his attempt. But what does that mean?

What you fail in anything do you simply throw your hands up in the air and quit?

NO!

You find another way to get the job done.

I think one reason that he failed is because he swallowed the entire line of the politcally correct.

“You were born that way.”

A claim that to date has never been substantiated.

If I were him I would try another therapy…

NEVER GIVE UP!

[quote]ZEB wrote:
Promiscuous homosexuals always on the make…thinking that heterosexuals are attracted to this type of thing…please get help!)[/quote]

Ah, c’mon Zeb. I don’t want help…I want your hot body. You know it would be fun!

[quote]ZEB wrote:
They are claiming that homosexuality is not a mental disorder. And as far as I’m concerned they may be right, or wrong. I’m not sure that it’s all that important.
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Every major medical and mental health organization has concluded that homosexuality is not a mental disorder. But wait, that’s not all!

They have also concluded that a) people do not choose their sexual orientation, b) people cannot generally change their orientation, and c) attempting to change one’s orientation can be damaging, and is NOT recommended.

People with a religious agenda will take flawed studies as fact, or will take solid studies and misportray them (see Zeb’s laundry list). I can provide a similarly lengthy list, but how many people have the time and education to separate the fact from the fiction?

Fortunately, the major medical and mental health organizations have done that work already. After reviewing the available body of research, including both the flawed studies and the solid studies, these respected scientific, educational, and government organizations have UNANIMOUSLY arrived at these conclusions regarding homosexuality.

You can take Zeb’s word for it, a man with a self-admitted religious agenda, or you can take the word of every major medical and mental health organization. You tell me which is more credible:

The Surgeon General’s Call to Action to Promote Sexual Health and Responsible Sexual Behavior (2001) asserts that homosexuality is not “a reversible lifestyle choice.”

(Note to Zeb: The Surgeon General is part of the government just like the CDC!)

The American Academy of Pediatrics in its policy statement on Homosexuality and Adolescence states:

The American Counseling Association has adopted a resolution that states that it:

The American Psychiatric Association in its position statement on Psychiatric Treatment and Sexual Orientation states:

[quote]The potential risks of “reparative therapy” are great, including depression, anxiety and self-destructive behavior, since therapist alignment with societal prejudices against homosexuality may reinforce self-hatred already experienced by the patient. Many patients who have undergone “reparative therapy” relate that they were inaccurately told that homosexuals are lonely, unhappy individuals who never achieve acceptance or satisfaction.

The possibility that the person might achieve happiness and satisfying interpersonal relationships as a gay man or lesbian is not presented, nor are alternative approaches to dealing with the effects of societal stigmatization discussed.[/quote]

The American Psychological Association in its Resolution on Appropriate Therapeutic Responses to Sexual Orientation, which is also endorsed by the National Association of School Psychologists, states:

The National Association of Social Workers in its Policy Statement on Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Issues:

[quote]endorses policies in both the public and private sectors that ensure nondiscrimination; that are sensitive to the health and mental health needs of lesbian, gay, and bisexual people; and that promote an understanding of lesbian, gay, and bisexual cultures. Social stigmatization of lesbian, gay, and bisexual people is widespread and is a primary motivating factor in leading some people to seek sexual orientation changes.

Sexual orientation conversion therapies assume that homosexual orientation is both pathological and freely chosen. No data demonstrate that reparative or conversion therapies are effective, and in fact they may be harmful. NASW believes social workers have the responsibility to clients to explain the prevailing knowledge concerning sexual orientation and the lack of data reporting positive outcomes with reparative therapy. NASW discourages social workers from providing treatments designed to change sexual orientation or from referring practitioners or programs that claim to do so.[/quote]

Garofalo, R, Wolf, R.C., Kessel, S., Palfrey, J., & Du Rant, R.H. (1998). The association between health risk behaviors and sexual orientation among a school-based sample of adolescents. Pediatrics, 101(5), 895-902.

Resnick, M.D., Bearman, P.S., Blum, R.W., Bauman, K.E., Harris, K.S., Jones, J., Tabor, J., Beuhring, T., Sieving, R.E., Shew, M., Ireland, M., Bearing, L.H., & Udry, J.R., (1997). Protecting adolescents from harm: Findings from the National Longitudinal Study on Adolescent Health. Journal of the American Medical Association, 278(10), 823-832.

Garofalo, et al. 1998; Remafedi, G., Frendh, S., Story, M., Resnick, M.D., & Blum, R. (1998). The relationship between suicide risk and sexual orientation: Results of a population-based study. American Journal of Public Health, 88 (1), 57-60.

Garofalo et al. 1998; Resnick et al. 1997.

Ryan, C., & Futterman, D. (1997). Lesbian and gay youth: Care and counseling. Adolescent Medicine: State of the Art Reviews, 8(2). [Also published in 1998 by Columbia University Press.]

Policy Statement: Homosexuality and Adolescence, American Academy of Pediatrics, 1993.

Resolution adopted by American Counseling Association Governing Council, March 1998.

Action by American Counseling Association Governing Council, April 1999.

Position Statement: Psychiatric Treatment and Sexual Orientation, American Psychiatric Association, 1998.

Resolution on Appropriate Therapeutic Responses to Sexual Orientation, American Psychological Association, 1997.

Haldeman, D.C. (1994). The practice and ethics of sexual orientation conversion therapy. Journal of Counseling and Clinical Psychology, 62(2), 221-227.

Davison, G.C. (1991). Constructionism and morality in therapy for homosexuality. In J.C. Gonsiorek & J.D. Weinrich, Homosexuality: Research implications for public policy. Newbury Park, CA: Sage Publications; Gonsiorek, J.C., & Weinrich, J.D.

(1991). Homosexuality: Research implications for public policy. Newbury Park, CA: Sage Publications; Haldeman, D.C. (1994).

"Policy Statement: Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Issues. Approved by Delegate Assembly, August 1996. Social Work Speaks, 4th ed., NASW, 1997

Romer v. Evans, 116 S. Ct. 1620 (1996)

Nabozny v. Podlesny, 92 F. 3d 446 (7th Cir. 1996)

[quote]ZEB wrote:
And his sometimes goofy logic: “homosexual men can easily be drawn sexually to a woman.” (yea oooookay…)
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More lies, Zeb? You are now blatantly presenting words of your own as words of mine, and expecting people to believe it? Remember that commandment about bearing false witness?

[quote]forlife wrote:
ZEB wrote:
And his sometimes goofy logic: “homosexual men can easily be drawn sexually to a woman.” (yea oooookay…)

More lies, Zeb? You are now blatantly presenting words of your own as words of mine, and expecting people to believe it? Remember that commandment about bearing false witness?[/quote]

I paraphrased your attitude above on homosexual men having sex with women.

Here is exactly what you stated:

If anything your original statement is even more ludicrous! I was giving you a break. But, since you at heart, very self destructive I can understand why you would want the clarification.

You have in fact been betrayed by your own supposed instincts, and the politically correct lie of the day. And you have no argument left other than to use the politically corrects most popular weapon: name calling!

By the way you also stated the following which you never really explained:

And also this beauty

When I ask for proof of this claim you talk about prison populations and ancient Sparta. Yea…very relevant to our conversation huh? (funny stuff)

It all comes down to mindless wishful thinking to rationalize why 87% of all homosexual men have had sex with women.

Then of course you contradicted yourself and the thousands of words you have typed on this very thread, and stated:

It must be a “choice” for the 87% of homosexual men who decide that day to get it on with a woman.

BUT

Not so much a choice for a normal healthy hetersexual male. He is not getting ready to go out on a Saturday night thinking that he is going to get lucky with Debbie, Donna or Harry!

That would only be in fantasy of how 87% of homoosexual males apparently think.

And as I have implored you before, please don’t act on this nutty thought process you have. Don’t try to hit on any straight males. You might get more than you bargained for.

:slight_smile:

LOL…

[quote]forlife wrote:
(Note to Zeb: The Surgeon General is part of the government just like the CDC!)[/quote]

Oh darn you forgot to read the commentary on the Surgeon Generals report.

Should I be charging you for this education?

Naw…

You see (as you know but try to hide from the readers of this thread) there are two very conflicting thougts on “change” and how it can be achieved.

"Sources for the Satcher Report

The paragraph in the Satcher report on homosexuality includes a number of references which give the impression that the assertions are supported by “valid scientific evidence.” But the articles referenced do not contain “scientific evidence” in any data-driven form, but are instead opinions characterized by attacks on religion and conventional morality. Four of the references used in the Surgeon General’s Report are analyzed below.

  1. Haldeman, D. (1994) “The Practice and Ethics of Sexual Orientation Conversion Therapy.” Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology 62, 2: 221-227.

The Haldeman article was used as a reference for the Surgeon General’s claim that change of sexual orientation is not possible. Haldeman reviews and critiques the literature reporting change of orientation, impugning the integrity of therapists and the honesty of clients who report themselves as changed. Haldeman did no original research; he did not interview clients or therapists. In 2001, Dr. Robert Spitzer did conduct a survey of men and women who claimed to have experienced change of sexual orientation. He found that while the extreme change of his subjects had been very difficult to achieve, the claim that change was impossible could not be sustained.

A look at Haldeman’s article shows that Haldeman does not (as the citation in the Surgeon General’s report implies) claim that change of sexual orientation is impossible. Although Haldeman thinks–in a very strange twist of reasoning–that spontaneous change of orientation does occur in many people but therapeutically assisted change somehow does not, he writes:

“For many individuals, sexual orientation is a variable construct subject to changes in erotic and affectional preference, as well as changes in social values and political philosophy that may ebb and flow throughout life. For some, ‘coming out’ may be a process with no true endpoint. Practitioners assessing change in sexual orientation have ignore the complex variation in an individual’s erotic responses and shifts in the socialcultural landscape.” (Haldeman 1994)
Haldeman objects to therapy directed toward change not because there are no reports of change (in fact, he references numerous studies which reported change), but because: “Psychotherapeutic approaches to sexual reorientation have been based on the a priori assumption that homoeroticism is an undesirable condition.”

But this charge ignores a number of studies in which the therapists proceeded from a neutral point of view as to outcome. We can look to the work of Elaine Siegel, author of Female Homosexuality: Choice without Volition-- A Psychoanalytic Study (1988). Because of her strong support for feminism, Siegel was asked to provide therapy for several lesbians. When the therapy began, Siegel did not view lesbianism negatively and the goal of therapy was not to change the women’s sexual orientation. Nevertheless, as the clients addressed underlying conflicts, in many, same-sex attraction disappeared.

Haldeman challenges the landmark study by Bieber et al (1962) for basing outcomes on “subjective therapist impression, not externally validated data or even self-report,” and because some of the subjects were probably bisexual. He dismisses many other studies because the outcomes were based on “patient self-report,” but he offers no proof for his contention that the subjects must have been self-deceived or even lying.

Haldeman reports on the early failures associated with a number of religious ministries to persons involved in same-sex activity, such as Homosexuals Anonymous and Exodus. He fails to mention that these groups addressed these problems and are still functioning–and that these groups do not claim that change of orientation will ever be easy–or even absolutely complete. For most people, these groups admit, some temptations will recur throughout their lives.

Haldeman insists “If a cure is offered, then there must be an illness” and that there is no evidence that homosexuality is an illness:

“Were there properties intrinsic to homosexuality that make it a pathological condition, we would be able to observe and measure them directly. In reality, however, there exists a wide literature indicating just the opposite: that gay men and lesbians do not differ significantly from heterosexual men and women on measures of psychological stability, social or vocational adjustment, or capacity for decision making.” (Haldeman 1994)
This conclusion, of course, is outdated. New research – three well designed studies (Herrell 1999, Fergusson 1999, and Sandfort 2001) which have been reported previously by NARTH- conclude that persons classified as homosexual do have a higher prevalence of psychological disorders than heterosexuals.

In contradiction, gay affirming therapists argue both sides of this issue–saying on the one hand that gay men and lesbians have no more problems than heterosexuals, and on the other that gay men and lesbians DO have many more problems but they are all caused by societal oppression.

Haldeman’s main objection to therapy directed toward change is that the availability of therapy perpetuates the “stigma” associated with homosexuality and thus is in his view unethical. Haldeman’s strong anti-religious bias can be seen in his quotation of T. Murphy (1992):

"There would be no reorientation techniques, were there no interpretation that homoeroticism is an inferior state, an interpretation that in many ways continues to be medically defined, criminally enforced, socially sanctioned, and religiously justified.

And it is in this moral interpretation, more than in the reigning medical theory of the day, that all programs of sexual reorientation have their common origins and justifications."

To which Haldeman adds: “This morality is at work in all aspects of homophobic activity, from the alarming increase in violent hate crimes against gay men and lesbians to the political and legislative agendas of anti-gay organizations.” (Haldeman 1994)

In his conclusion, Haldeman writes: “Homophobic attitudes have been institutionalized in nearly every aspect of our social structure, from the government and military to our educational systems and organized religions. … The appropriate focus of the profession is what reverses prejudice, not what reverses sexual orientation.” (Haldeman 1994)

The problem with this line of reasoning is that the so-called “stigma” associated with same-sex behavior is rooted in unchangeable facts, such as: Two persons of the same sex cannot conceive a child that is biologically the product of their love; Major religions hold as unchangeable the teaching that all sexual activity outside marriage between a man and a woman is objectively wrong. Haldeman’s anti-religious attitude should not be supported in a government document such as the Surgeon General’s Report.

  1. Herek, G. M. (1993) “The Context of Anti-Gay Violence: Notes on Cultural and Psychological Heterosexism,” in Garnets L.D., Kimmel, D.C., editors, Psychological Perspectives on Lesbian and Gay Male Experiences. NY: Columbia U. Press.)

In this article also referenced by the Surgeon General’s Report, Herek blames violence against homosexuals on “heterosexism,” which he defines as follows:

"Heterosexism is defined here as an ideological system that denies, denigrates, and stigmatizes any nonheterosexual form of behavior, identity, relationship, or community. Like racism, sexism, and other ideologies of oppression, heterosexism is manifested both in societal customs and institutions, such as religion and the legal system (referred to here as cultural heterosexism) and in individual attitudes and behaviors (referred to here as psychological heterosexism)… Heterosexism derives in part from cultural negativity toward particular forms of sexuality. (Herek 1993)
Herek offers as his example of heterosexism a (now deceased) psychoanalyst’s statement that normal sexuality “should ideally be heterosexual, marital, monogamous, reproductive, and non-commercial. It should be coupled, relational, within the same generation, and occur at home. It should not involve pornography, fetish objects, sex toys of any sort, or roles other than male and female.” (Rubin, 1984)

According to Herek, gay sexuality is radically different from Rubin’s idea of healthy sexuality. It “is not reproductive by definition, and not marital by status. Many gay relationships are not sexually exclusive. Some homosexual men have staked out ‘cruising areas’ for sexual behaviors that are semi-public.” It would seem, then, that Herek would not be satisfied that heterosexism was eliminated until there was also an elimination of shame and guilt over promiscuity, anonymous sexual encounters, being treated and treating others as mere sexual objects, public sexual activity, and infidelity. In other words, getting rid of heterosexism–the valuing of heterosexuality over homosexuality–would require a complete overhaul of centuries-old morals.

Apparently, there will never be an end to hate crimes until this overhauling has been accomplished:

“Eradicating heterosexism, therefore, inevitably requires confronting violence against lesbians and gay men. Eliminating anti-gay violence, in turn requires an attack upon heterosexism.” (Herek 1993)
It is clear that Herek’s goal (and the goal of the Sexual Liberation movement) is for “heterosexism” to be categorized as an “ideology of oppression” --that is, made equivalent to racism.

The Surgeon General’s use of Herek as a source- referencing the very same article in which Herek lays out gay activism’s strategy for stigmatizing people of faith - by implication, puts Satcher’s government office on the side of anti-religious bias. For this reason, religious leaders across the country should demand that he be relieved of his position.

Warnings about the dangers posed by the demands of the gay movement have in the past been dismissed by many as an overreaction. Given the recent attacks on the Boy Scouts, the marginalizing of the Salvation Army, and now the latest Surgeon General’s report, should not those concerns now be recognized as warranted?

  1. Gonsiorek, J.C. (1982) “The Use of Diagnostic Concepts in Working with Gay and Lesbian Populations,” in J.C. Gonsiorek, editor, Homosexuality and Psychotherapy: A Practitioner’s Handbook of Affirmative Models. NY: Haworth.

The Surgeon General’s report claims that “anti-homosexual attitudes are associated with psychological distress for homosexual persons and may have a negative impact on mental health.” In support of this claim, it references an article by John Gonsiorek.

The article, however, offers no convincing evidence that the many psychological problems experienced by homosexuals and reported by Gonsiorek in some detail are directly caused by anti-homosexual attitudes. What the article does provide is ample evidence that behavior engaged in by homosexual men is sufficient cause for the problems they experience, as the following quotation demonstrates:

“Consider the following scenario: A gay man begins to frequent back-room bars, baths, public restrooms, parks or other public places for anonymous sex. He, on occasion, does have anonymous sex, which may be reinforcing and perceived as a boost to self-esteem. On another level, it may elicit a variety of guilt and self-recrimination responses if the individual has beliefs that sexuality, or same-sex activity, or some forms of sexual activity in which he has been engaging are wrong, immoral , improper, etc…Also, lack of success at sexual conquest may elicit feelings of poor body image, low self-esteem and others.” (Gonsiorek 1982)
Would it not seem reasonable that a person engaging in sex with strangers in public places–risking infection, assault, arrest, or public humiliation–might feel that what he was doing was “wrong, immoral” or at the least “improper”? Wouldn’t trying to rationalize this behavior as acceptable put a strain on his psychological health?

  1. Berrill, K. T. (1992) “Anti-Gay Violence and Victimization in the United States: An Overview,” in Herek, G. M., Berrill, K.T., editors, Hate Crimes: Confronting Violence against Lesbians and Gay Men. Newbury Park, CA: Sage, pp. 19-45.

This book is part of massive publicity effort directed toward one end: linking hate crimes committed by hooligans against homosexuals with religious teachings that proscribe sexual activity outside of marriage. The authors do not prove that the hooligans who attack homosexuals outside gay bars spend their spare time reading the Scriptures, attending religious gatherings, or studying pronouncements from the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. Neither do they offer evidence that people of faith who believe that the moral law on sexuality is God-given and unchangeable in fact “hate” homosexuals. But by repeating that claim, they plant this idea in the public’s mind: homosexuals would be safe if only people of faith would affirm homosexual behavior.

Why do gay activists insist that religious teachings are the root cause of their higher level of psychological problems?

It may be that they are trying to convince themselves that what they are doing is acceptable, when in their hearts they have serious doubts. In 1994, Ariel Shidlo published the results of a study on “internalized homophobia” among homosexual persons. He reported that a significant percentage of homosexuals he surveyed held negative attitudes toward their own homosexuality and toward other homosexuals.

For example, 53% of homosexuals agreed with the statement “Homosexuality is not as satisfying (good) as heterosexuality,” while 37% agreed that “Homosexuality is a sexual perversion.” (Shidlo 1994)

Is this the voice of individual conscience, recognizing something inherently wrong with gay life? If so, then these men and women are not likely to find peace, even if people of faith are forced to recant.

The above analysis has dealt with only one paragraph of the Surgeon General’s report. The rest is equally flawed. It is not a enough for the Bush administration to push the report under the rug and wait for Satcher’s term to end. The entire piece must be exposed and condemned.

References

American Psychiatric Association (2000) “Position Statement on Therapies Focused on Attempts to Change Sexual Orientation (Reparative or Conversion Therapies.” Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Association.

Bell, A.P. et al. (1981) Sexual Preference: Its Development in Men and Women. Bloomington, IN: Indiana U. Press.

Berrill, K. T. (1992) "Anti-Gay Violence and Victimization in the United

States: An Overview (in Herek, G. M., Berrill, K.T., editors, Hate Crimes: Confronting Violence against Lesbians and Gay Men. Newbury Park, CA: Sage, 19-45.

Bieber, I. et al. (1962) Homosexuality: A Psychoanalytic Study of Male Homosexuals. NY: Basic.

Coleman, E. (1978) “Toward a New Model of Treatment of Homosexuality: A Review.” Journal of Homosexuality 3, 4: 345 - 358.

Coleman, E. (1982) “Developmental Stages of the Coming-out Process,” in Paul, W., Weinrich, J., Gonsiorek, J., Hotvedt, M. , editors, Homosexuality: Social, Psychological and Biological Issues. The Final Report of the Society for the Psychological Study of Social Issues Task Force of Sexual Orientation. Beverly Hills: Sage, 149 - 157.

Fergusson, D. et al. (1999) “Is Sexual Orientation Related to Mental Health Problems and Suicidality in Young People?” Archives of General Psychiatry. 56: 876-880.

Gonsiorek, J.C. (1982) “The Use of Diagnostic Concepts in Working with Gay and Lesbian Populations” in Gonsiorek J.C. editor, Homosexuality and Psychotherapy: A Practitioner’s Handbook of Affirmative Models. NY: Haworth.

Greene, B. (1997) “Ethnic Minority Lesbians and Gay Men: Mental Health and Treatment Issues,” in Greene, B., editor, Ethnic and Cultural Diversity Among Lesbians and Gay Men. Thousand Oaks CA: Sage.

Haldeman, D. (1994) “The Practice and Ethics of Sexual Orientation Conversion Therapy.” Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology 62, 2: 221-227.

Herek, G. M (1993) The Context of Antigay Violence: Notes on Cultural and Psychological Heterosexism," in, Garnets L.D., Kimmel DC, editors, Psychological Perspectives on Lesbian and Gay Male Experiences. NY: Columbia U. Press.

Herrell, R. et al. (1999) “Sexual Orientation and Suicidality: A Co-twin Control Study in Adult Men,” Archives of General Psychiatry 56: 876- 880.

Murphy, T. (1992) “Redirecting Sexual Orientation: Techniques and Justifications.” Journal of Sex Research 29: 501-523.

Remafedi, G. et al. (1998) “The Relationship Between Suicide Risk and Sexual Orientation: Results of a Population Based Study.” American Journal of Public Health 88, 1: 57-60.

Ross, M.W. (1985) “Actual and Anticipated Societal Reaction to Homosexuality and Adjustment in Two Societies.” Journal of Sex Research 21, 1: 40-55.

Ross, M.W. (1990) “The Relationship Between Life Events and Mental Health in Homosexual Men.” Journal of Clinical Psychology 46: 402- 411.

Rubin, G. (1984) “Thinking Sex: Notes for a Radical Theory of the Politics of Sexuality,” in Vance, C., editor, Pleasures and Danger:Exploring Female Sexuality. Boston: Routledge & Kegan Paul, 267-319.

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Shidlo, A. (1994) "Internalized Homophobia: Conceptual and Empirical Issues, in Greene, B., Herek G, Lesbian and Gay Psychology. Thousand Oaks: CA: Sage, 176-205.

Siegel, E. (1988) Female Homosexuality: Choice Without Volition-- A Psychoanalytic Study. Hillsdale, NJ: Analytic Press.

Spitzer, R. (2001) “200 Subjects Who Claim to Have Changed Their Sexual Orientation From Homosexual to Heterosexual.” Presentation at the American Psychiatric Association Conference, May 9.

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And since you ignored my lengthy post just full of interesting detaild I am now going to give them to you one at a time. If this takes until the end of the year I have no problem with that. :slight_smile:

Let’s start with this little tid bit since it was first on my lengthy list:

"US Justice Department 2000:

Homosexuals are overrepresented in child sex offenses: Individuals from the 1 to 3 percent of the population that is sexually attracted to the same sex are committing up to one-third of the sex crimes against children."

As I stated, if it’s not a mental disease as the sold out APA claims (and maybe it’s not) then what’s up with this?

Do you find this even a tad disturbing? If not why not?

forlife,

Let me know when you are ready for the next statistic, as I want each of them explained to my (and the readers) satisfaction.

We might be able to narrow down what exactly “normal” is. At least your definition anyway.

Thank you,

Zeb

[quote]
ZEB wrote:
And his sometimes goofy logic: “homosexual men can easily be drawn sexually to a woman.” (yea oooookay…)

I paraphrased your attitude above on homosexual men having sex with women.

Here is exactly what you stated:

“I think most gay men would tell you that they probably could have sex with women…” [/quote]

There is a huge difference between what I said, and what you portrayed me as having said. You went so far as to specifically twist my words to fit YOUR statement that gay men are attracted to women! I never said any such thing, and you know it.

As I have told you repeatedly, SEXUAL BEHAVIOR IS NOT THE SAME AS SEXUAL ORIENTATION!

Your “paraphrase” was a deliberate and dishonest attempt to twist my words to make me appear to agree with you. You then had the gall to call my words “goofy logic”, when it was your own words that you were condemning!

I don’t mind debating subjects in a mature and constructive manner, but your semantic games and outright dishonesty are getting old.

“Thou shalt not bear false witness.”

More selective amnesia? I said that IN A PERMISSIVE SEXUAL CULTURE, straight men can have sex with one another, just as IN A HOMOPHOBIC SEXUAL CULTURE, gay men can have sex with women.

Do you see the common thread here? Culture and religious beliefs can strongly influence SEXUAL BEHAVIOR.

See above.

I dream about you every night, Zeb. Someday you’ll come around, I just know it!

[quote]forlife wrote:

There is a huge difference between what I said, and what you portrayed me as having said. You went so far as to specifically twist my words to fit YOUR statement that gay men are attracted to women! I never said any such thing, and you know it.[/quote]

Your logic only gets more looney tunes as the debate winds on.

You said:

“I think most gay men would tell you that they probably could have sex with women…”

I’ll ask you for the 14th time (hurry go check my posts it might only be 12 times) how can a homosexual man “perform” sex with a woman?

Read this:

YOU ARE EITHER ATTRACTED TO WOMEN OR YOU ARE NOT. YOU ARE THE ONE WITH THE SEMANTIC BULL CRAP

“Its about orientation Zeb.”

LOL…

You are either aroused by a man or you are aroused by a woman. Those who are aroused by both are called “bisexual.”

But it seems that in the tisted world that you live in 87% of all homosexual men have sex with women too!

Now I don’t care where we go from here. And I will debate you until doomsday…trust me on this!

But you really have to explain to all of us how you and 87% of all homosexual men can have sex with women as well as men. And then declare that they were “born gay.”

What a crock!

[quote]I dream about you every night, Zeb. Someday you’ll come around, I just know it!
[/quote]

Now you see, dreaming is okay. But don’t ever try to pick up a straight guy in a bar at say 1:00 am based on any of the tripe you try to pass off as facts on this thread.

It’s funny stuff here and most are laughing at it, no one gets hurt. But 1:00 in a bar…well you might meet with more resistance than you able to handle.

Peace brother :slight_smile:

[quote]ZEB wrote:
Oh darn you forgot to read the commentary on the Surgeon Generals report.[/quote]

What commentary would that be? Oh, you mean the biased article that you published directly from the NARTH website?

http://www.narth.com/docs/greport.html

Nice try, but your sources reveal your agenda. A quick education on NARTH:

NARTH stands for “National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality”.

NARTH was founded in 1992, with the following self-proclaimed goal:

If that isn’t a political agenda, I don’t know what is!

NARTH stands alone against every major medical and mental health organization by teaching that sexual orientation is a disorder, that it is chosen, and that it can be changed through effort. It represents a tiny minority of extremist professionals (less than 1%) who are religiously motivated to show that homosexuality is “wrong”.

People can listen to a small right wing organization with an admitted homophobic agenda, or they can listen to EVERY MAJOR MEDICAL AND MENTAL HEALTH ORGANIZATION, WHICH HAS UNANIMOUSLY STATED THAT HOMOSEXUALITY IS NOT A MENTAL ILLNESS, THAT PEOPLE DON’T CHOOSE THEIR ORIENTATION, THAT THEY CANNOT GENERALLY CHANGE IT, AND THAT ATTEMPTING TO DO SO CAN BE HARMFUL, AND IS NOT RECOMMENDED.

Seems like a no brainer to me.

[quote]ZEB wrote:
Let’s start with this little tid bit since it was first on my lengthy list:

"US Justice Department 2000:

Homosexuals are overrepresented in child sex offenses: Individuals from the 1 to 3 percent of the population that is sexually attracted to the same sex are committing up to one-third of the sex crimes against children."
[/quote]

I have neither the time nor the interest to debunk every one of your misrepresentations. However, I will address this one as an example, since it was at the top of your list.

  1. You claim the above quote comes from the U.S. Department of Justice (2000). That is a lie. The quote actually comes from Timothy Dailey (a well known anti-gay activist), in an article he published on the “Family Research Council” website.

  2. It is a common trick to use the “up to” language as a way to make a statistic seem more extreme than it really is. For example, an ad might say that you can “earn up to $60,000 per year by using our new eBay selling strategies!” Of course, the average salary per year may be much, much lower. See “How to Lie With Statistics” by Darrell Huff.

  3. Homosexuality is not pedophilia. NARTH likes to claim homosexuals prey on children, by highlighting cases of pedophilia happening between men and boys. What they don’t tell you is that those men are interested in children (pedophiles), and are NOT interested in other men (homosexuals).

Research study:

Another research study:

Yet another:

See this research as well:

[quote]ZEB wrote:
YOU ARE EITHER ATTRACTED TO WOMEN OR YOU ARE NOT. YOU ARE THE ONE WITH THE SEMANTIC BULL CRAP[/quote]

Nice diversion from the fact that you deliberately lied about what I said, and were caught in the act. Thou shalt not bear false witness.

I’ve already explained my stance on this. It is YOU that is trying to make it confusing.

Got it? That is a direct quote from the following professional organizations:

American Academy of Pediatrics
American Counseling Association
American Association of School Administrators
American Federation of Teachers
American Psychological Association
American School Health Association
Interfaith Alliance Foundation
National Association of School Psychologists
National Association of Social Workers
National Education Association

I’ll repeat it again since you keep ignoring it:

And I’ll continue repeating it until you finally address it. You can claim all you want that people don’t act contrary to their orientation. But I’m taking the word of the above organizations over yours.

[quote]But don’t ever try to pick up a straight guy in a bar at say 1:00 am
[/quote]

There aren’t many straight guys in the bars I frequent :wink:

Hey you forgot to respond to this.

What say you about these stats? I have many more to come so let’s get going.

[quote]ZEB wrote:
And since you ignored my lengthy post just full of interesting detaild I am now going to give them to you one at a time. If this takes until the end of the year I have no problem with that. :slight_smile:

Let’s start with this little tid bit since it was first on my lengthy list:

"US Justice Department 2000:

Homosexuals are overrepresented in child sex offenses: Individuals from the 1 to 3 percent of the population that is sexually attracted to the same sex are committing up to one-third of the sex crimes against children."

As I stated, if it’s not a mental disease as the sold out APA claims (and maybe it’s not) then what’s up with this?

Do you find this even a tad disturbing? If not why not?
[/quote]

[quote]forlife wrote:
ZEB wrote:
Let’s start with this little tid bit since it was first on my lengthy list:

"US Justice Department 2000:

Homosexuals are overrepresented in child sex offenses: Individuals from the 1 to 3 percent of the population that is sexually attracted to the same sex are committing up to one-third of the sex crimes against children."

You claim the above quote comes from the U.S. Department of Justice (2000). That is a lie. The quote actually comes from Timothy Dailey (a well known anti-gay activist), in an article he published on the “Family Research Council” website.[/quote]

The above comment is indicitive of your very poor logic my friend!

You think that I got the above statistic from NARTH. Therefore, you dispute that it is from the US Department of Justice.

However, if you used good logic you could also think that just because it is on the NARTH web site (I just checked it) does not mean that it is not a statistic from the US Department of Justice!

Hence, you have once again applied “politically correct logic” to your argument. And have thus made yourself look like a bafoon.

As a matter of fact I did not get the above statistic from NARTH. And it is a reliable quote from the US Justice Department.

Case closed, you lose!

Please try to unravel that perverted thought process of yours.

I thank you,

Zeb

NEXT

forlife

I have addressed it a few times. That you keep clinging desperately to this is sort of pathetic.

  1. The APA sold their soul to the homosexual agenda. Not even bringing up for a vote (which they usually do) homosexuality being a mental disorder.

  2. Taking this and running with it the organizations you listed did NONE of their own research and assumed the APA to be the experts in this area.

Is that the best you have to offer?

forlife,

Let’s move on because as Ricky Ricardo always says “You have a lot of splainin to do.” :slight_smile:

Now what do you make of the following:

“Even homosexual activists don’t try to hide the connection with pedophilia. In The Gay Report – a book published back in 1979 – authors Karla Jay and Allen Young found that 73 percent of those (gay men) surveyed had had sexual relations with males 16 to 19 or younger.”

16 years old?

Quite a group you belong to.

Hmmm, now why would a group like the Boy Scouts, who are not a political organization at all want to exclude homosexual men from serving as scout masters or in other positions of authority?

Could it be for the following reasons?

? Pedophiles are invariably males: Almost all sex crimes against children are committed by men.

? Significant numbers of victims are males: Up to one-third of all sex crimes against children are committed against boys (as opposed to girls).

? The 10 percent fallacy: Studies indicate that, contrary to the inaccurate but widely accepted claims of sex researcher Alfred Kinsey, homosexuals comprise between 1 to 3 percent of the population.

Read the above again-remember when you tried to use Kinsey as a legitimate resourse? That was funny.

Below is the one you don’t like. but it’s quite true:

? Homosexuals are overrepresented in child sex offenses: Individuals from the 1 to 3 percent of the population that is sexually attracted to the same sex are committing up to one-third of the sex crimes against children.

? Some homosexual activists defend the historic connection between homosexuality and pedophilia: Such activists consider the defense of “boy-lovers” to be a legitimate gay rights issue.

? Pedophile themes abound in homosexual literary culture: Gay fiction as well as serious academic treatises promote “intergenerational intimacy.”

More on this final one to come…

Proviso: I generally don’t like making long posts – they’re empty of pathos and impact, and are utterly boring most of the time.

[quote]Gleemonex wrote:
You entered the thread with a statement that there is no proof that homosexuality is genetic. I don’t think we’ve touched on that since you were proven wrong.

ZEB wrote:
LOL…the best minds in the world have not proven that one wrong bub![/quote]

You assert that there is no proof that homosexuality is genetic [1]. I have only to provide one counter-example, and your are proven diametrically wrong.


Estimates of heritability of homosexuality Study Male Female
Hershberger, 1997 0% 48%
Bailey et al., 2000 40% 0%
Kendler et al., 2000 28?65%
Kirk et al., 2000 30% 50?60%


[i]A number of sections of the brain have been reported to be sexually dimorphic; that is, they vary between men and women. There have also been reports of variations in brain structure corresponding to sexual orientation. In 1990, Swaab and Hofman reported a difference in the size of the suprachiasmatic nucleus between homosexual and heterosexual men. In 1992, Allen and Gorski reported a difference related to sexual orientation in the size of the anterior commissure.

However, the best-known work of this type is that of Simon LeVay, reported in “A Difference in Hypothalamic Structure Between Hetero-sexual and Homosexual Men” in the journal Science, August 1991. LeVay studied four groups of neurons in the hypothalamus, called INAH1, INAH2, INAH3 and INAH4. This was a relevant area of the brain to study, because of evidence that this part of the brain played a role in the regulation of sexual behaviour in animals, and because INAH2 and INAH3 had previously been reported to differ in size between men and women.

He obtained brains from 41 deceased hospital patients. The subjects were classified as follows: 19 gay men who had died of AIDS, 16 presumed heterosexual men (6 of whom had died of AIDS), and 6 presumed heterosexual women (1 of whom had died of AIDS).

The AIDS patients in the heterosexual groups were all identified from medical records as intravenous drug abusers or recipients of blood transfusions, though only 2 of the men in this category had specifically denied homosexual activity. The records of the remaining heterosexual subjects contained no information about their sexual orientation; they were assumed to have been mostly or all heterosexual “on the basis of the numerical preponderance of heterosexual men in the population”.

LeVay found no evidence for a difference between the groups in the size of INAH1, INAH2 or INAH4. However, the INAH3 group appeared to be twice as big in the heterosexual male group as in the gay male group; the difference was highly significant, and remained significant when only the 6 AIDS patients were included in the heterosexual group. The size of the INAH3 in the homosexual male brains was similar to that in the heterosexual female brains. However, he also found some contrary results:

* Three of the 19 homosexual subjects had a larger group of neurons in the hypothalamus than the average control-group subject.
* Three of the 16 control-group subjects had a smaller group of neurons in the hypothalamus than the average homosexual subject.

William Byne and colleagues attempted to replicate the differences reported in INAH 1-4 size using a different sample of brains from 14 HIV-positive homosexual males, 34 presumed heterosexual males (10 HIV-positive), and 34 presumed heterosexual females (9 HIV-positive). They found a significant difference in INAH3 size between heterosexual men and women. The INAH3 size of the homosexual men was apparently smaller than that of the heterosexual men and larger than that of the heterosexual women, though neither difference quite reached statistical significance.[/i]


There you go, my burden of proof [2]. In fact, twice as much as I needed. Q.E.D.

[quote]Gleemonex wrote:
When you equated the ‘problem’ of homosexuality with obesity and alcoholism, and challenged someone to argue the positive aspects of obesity, I successfully did so. I don’t think we’ve heard that comparison since.

ZEB wrote:
Gee, I’m sorry about that. We all should have known that there many benefits from being obese. In fact, I’m going to go out on a limb and say that being obese is almost as beneficial as being a promiscuious homosexual![/quote]

Why? The subject is closed. You basically asserted that everything that doesn’t fit into a KJV is automatically bad. I proved to you that that assertion was wrong, and that ‘good’ and ‘bad’ are more complex than you would like. Mission accomplished.

Your posts are already plenty long. You really shouldn’t make them any longer unless the additional material is relevant or entertaining.

[quote]Gleemonex wrote:
People of the same sex should be allowed to marry, because there are no reasonable contraindications.[/quote]

Before I answer your questions below, allow me to point out that you have failed to attack my basic premise. I would likely have no problem attacking yours, if you were to try to make one.

[quote]ZEB wrote:
And so should people of the same family be allowed to marry. If they don’t have children together what’s the harm?[/quote]

One potential harm (depending, among others, on the definition of ‘family’) is that fertility/virility is not a wholly understood paradigm, so a child might issue from such a relationship. That being said, it’s not a subject I’ve much considered in the past because it’s really not all that important to me.

None, as far as I’m concerned. I’m not personally opposed to polygamous marriage. [3]

Which age of consent? It varies from 12 to 18 (and possibly beyond) depending where you are on the planet.

A lot of things in the U.S.A. are backsliding. Such as the economy and national acedemic performance, for instance. Your point?

…and?

I’m going to let you in on a lettle secret of mine. When I’m feeling heterosexual, I don’t fuck men. Try it and let me know how it works.

[quote]Gleemonex wrote:
You’re going to have to understand the difference between behaviour and orientation before we continue talking about this.

ZEB wrote:
Um…I think forlife said it was about sexual “preference.” Then he said orientation was about “choice.” And when he got sick of me reminding him of the facts regarding each, he copped the “orientation” plea.[/quote]

Omigod, he used several words! One of them must be wrong!

Irrelevant. We’re not talking about straight marriage.

Already answered by myself in small, simple, un-politically-correct words three pages ago. Learn to read.

Irrelevant. You asked for examples of straight men fucking other men. Such examples exist in prison. Q.E.D. If you want reasonable answers, make reasonable assertions or ask reasonable questions.

The same reason they didn’t “have the right” to marry women. Institutionalised marriage didn’t exist as you understand it today. You’re aware that Spartans weren’t Christians, yes?

-Glee


[1] However, if you literally mean that “the best minds in the world have not proven [that homosexuality is genetic]”, then you’re absolutely right. Most of them have concerned themselves with more important matters like mathematics, philosophy and philanthropy.
[2] Biology and sexual orientation - Wikipedia
[3] I’ll bet you weren’t expecting that, were you? :wink:

Respond to this forlife:

HOW TRUSTWORTHY IS THE APA?

Read this and draw your own conclusions:

"…a June 11, 2003 article from CNSNews.com said “Psychiatric Association Debates Lifting Pedophilia Taboo”. In a step critics charged could result in decriminalizing sexual contact between adults and children, the American Psychiatric Association (APA) recently sponsored a symposium in which participants discussed the removal of pedophilia from an upcoming edition of the psychiatric manual of mental disorders.

Homosexuality was once considered a crime but later declared by the APA to be a treatable “mental illness” is now considering pedophilia as natural. I wrote in my June 18, 2003 article Seek For Sex Education And You Shall Find “There you have it, folks, government supported sexual child abuse.”

As I charged in prior posts the APA is a very liberal organization. What other wacky things are to come from this organization only time will tell.

http://www.newswithviews.com/Betty/Freauf31.htm