I realize there are some people on this thread who are God-like and never lie, never cheat and always do right and at the other end of the scale, there are some people who will justify their future indiscretions by arguing that it is human nature to sleep around on their spouse.
I just don’t think that everybody who have had or will have affairs should be put in the same boat.
The title of this thread is “Brilliant Men Betray Wives”. There are many ways to betray a spouse and having affairs is only one of several symptoms of a deeper problem. Some decide to hide behind alcohol, drugs, food, work and even exercise. They would rather avoid the problem than face it or maybe, they just don’t know to fix it. Because of that, they may make bad decisions. However, I do think that if you keep making the same bad decision, there is something seriously wrong with you. But if he is remorseful of his actions, maybe then the experience has taught him something and he has a chance of becoming that wise man?
[quote]T-Matt wrote:
If no one has control over you and your domain how do you explain the placebo effect?
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Mental diarreah.
Just like our master - we regurgitate someone else’s toughts before mastering our own mind.
You are knowledgeable but you do not know your own truth.
You speak 2 dimensionaly.
The four dimensions are not separate entities neither are they far fetched states - With more self awareness comes more integration.
[quote]nephorm wrote:
T-Matt wrote:
I don’t know what planet he’s from but women do hit on guys ALL the time, it’s just that the man isn’t sexually aware enough to figure it out. They use body language more effectively than men do. Men use their eyes, yappers, and kino predominantly to hit on women
So that’s what it is… I’m just not sexually aware enough!
[quote]nephorm wrote:
T-Matt wrote:
I don’t know what planet he’s from but women do hit on guys ALL the time, it’s just that the man isn’t sexually aware enough to figure it out. They use body language more effectively than men do. Men use their eyes, yappers, and kino predominantly to hit on women
So that’s what it is… I’m just not sexually aware enough!
And here I thought I didn’t see women hitting on me because I smell like garbage and look funny.
You learn something new every day.[/quote]
You sound like Oscar the Grouch. I think even he has a girlfriend now.
[quote]Nominal Prospect wrote:
thighlord wrote:
If you truly believe this, then you have led a very sheltered life…
How sad.
Hahahahahaha
My poor, poor boy. You are decieving yourself mightily. What I have written is scientific fact.
If women had comparable sex drives to men, then men wouldn’t have to bust their asses trying to get sex from women. People everywhere would hump all day. Everything that is taken for granted about the sexes would be thrown out the window.
You’ve gotta be kidding me.
A clitoris is structurally and biologically analogous to a penis. It is made from the very same tissue and only a few centimeters long. Women act EXACTLY the way men would act if men had 2 cm long penises. A woman is, biologically, a male eunich. Everything about the sexes makes perfect sense when you throw out the societal double standards and apply a consistent, scientific standard to each. With hormone supplementation, a woman can expand the size of her clit and accordingly, her sex drive.
Yes, I know how terrifying this prospect is to those of you who have been raised to believe that men and women are “opposite” entities. They aren’t. They exist on the same biological continuum. There is no magical double standard that makes women “different” from men. When you apply equal standards, you find that women are inferior in practically all aspects. This explains their historically subservient roles. [/quote]
I can only read this post as a joke. It is too absurd to be taken seriously. As for the claim that what you wrote is scientific fact, again, I laugh heartily. You apparently don’t have a concept of what a scientific fact is. Your beliefs may very well be anthropologic and psychologic THEORY, but scientific fact? Get real. There is no way to test those statements in order for them to be considered facts.
I just know for a fact that nothing comes from nothing…
My truth is that I know that ‘free will’ does not exist… Everything you will ever be, everything you will ever be able to conceive, and every living creature who has ever roamed this earth has and always will live within the parameters a cause and effect relationship…Without a cause you wouldn’t even be able to sustain this conversation with me because you would have never grown into the person you are today. Keep thinking you’re the stimulus… You are just one human (just like we all are) in a process called evolution… The second you think that you are above evolution you have essentially spit on everyone’s grave who has roamed the earth before you. The earth is our stimulus… We live on its terms and within its parameters…
I’m just glad I learned about John Locke so that today I understand that my ‘free will’ is nothing more than the nature’s fenced backyard… The fence is nothing more than my knowledge of the fact that I will die someday… I cannot control nature therefore, it is my stimuli and I must respect it… unless I don’t care to live anymore…
[quote]Nominal Prospect wrote:
thighlord wrote:
If you truly believe this, then you have led a very sheltered life…
How sad.
Hahahahahaha
My poor, poor boy. You are decieving yourself mightily. What I have written is scientific fact.
If women had comparable sex drives to men, then men wouldn’t have to bust their asses trying to get sex from women. People everywhere would hump all day. Everything that is taken for granted about the sexes would be thrown out the window.
You’ve gotta be kidding me.
A clitoris is structurally and biologically analogous to a penis. It is made from the very same tissue and only a few centimeters long. Women act EXACTLY the way men would act if men had 2 cm long penises. A woman is, biologically, a male eunich. Everything about the sexes makes perfect sense when you throw out the societal double standards and apply a consistent, scientific standard to each. With hormone supplementation, a woman can expand the size of her clit and accordingly, her sex drive.
Yes, I know how terrifying this prospect is to those of you who have been raised to believe that men and women are “opposite” entities. They aren’t. They exist on the same biological continuum. There is no magical double standard that makes women “different” from men. When you apply equal standards, you find that women are inferior in practically all aspects. This explains their historically subservient roles. [/quote]
Do you honestly believe women can not? You should meet my wife, otherwise known as the fucking machine. And let me tell you, I ain’t no slouch but after 7yrs…two-a-days make you cry. Hell, my escape is going to the gym. Explain that if you will.
[quote]T-Matt wrote:
I just know for a fact that nothing comes from nothing…
I cannot control nature therefore, it is my stimuli and I must respect it… unless I don’t care to live anymore…
T-Matt[/quote]
I experience from all facts that everything comes from God.
I can control my spirit, it is my life force, gift and stimuli I received from above.
And I respect it, lest I belive that all that I am is whithin the boundaries set by those who live in fear.
I have mastered my mind, lifted my spirit and expanded my consciousness enough to know that whilst I function within the fence with you - who I am is beyond the earth and beyond anyone’s perception of me.
True freedom awaits those who are willing to take it to the skies and “push the outside of the envelope”.
You physical state is nothing more than high speed particles of energy.
When you achieve self-mastery you can command your energy to push beyond any bounderies.
Your free will starts and ends when you recognize the force that gives it.
[quote]undesired08 wrote:
You should meet my wife, otherwise known as the fucking machine. And let me tell you, I ain’t no slouch but after 7yrs…two-a-days make you cry. Hell, my escape is going to the gym. Explain that if you will.[/quote]
With that wife and that sexual routine and you name yourself UNDESIRED?
A clitoris is structurally and biologically analogous to a penis. It is made from the very same tissue and only a few centimeters long. Women act EXACTLY the way men would act if men had 2 cm long penises. [/quote]
[quote]Alpha F wrote:
undesired08 wrote:
You should meet my wife, otherwise known as the fucking machine. And let me tell you, I ain’t no slouch but after 7yrs…two-a-days make you cry. Hell, my escape is going to the gym. Explain that if you will.
With that wife and that sexual routine and you name yourself UNDESIRED?
Explain THAT if you will.
It’s just never enough for you guys,huh?..
sigh
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The name has absolutely NOTHING to do with me, I hate making a new name up for reading one article (I did not think I would enjoy this site). So “Undesired” is for me not “desiring” to come up with yet another name that I would most likely forget. Who the hell was I to know that I would read some of the most insane shit in my relatively short life here. Of course, the more insane the better.
[quote]Nominal Prospect wrote:
A clitoris is structurally and biologically analogous to a penis. It is made from the very same tissue and only a few centimeters long. Women act EXACTLY the way men would act if men had 2 cm long penises. A woman is, biologically, a male eunich. Everything about the sexes makes perfect sense when you throw out the societal double standards and apply a consistent, scientific standard to each. With hormone supplementation, a woman can expand the size of her clit and accordingly, her sex drive.
Yes, I know how terrifying this prospect is to those of you who have been raised to believe that men and women are “opposite” entities. They aren’t. They exist on the same biological continuum. There is no magical double standard that makes women “different” from men. When you apply equal standards, you find that women are inferior in practically all aspects. This explains their historically subservient roles. [/quote]
You’re way out of date:
[quote]The outside portion of the clitoris, the clitoral glans, is entirely or partially covered by the clitoral hood or prepuce, tissue that is homologous to the foreskin in males. In humans, the clitoral body then extends several centimeters upwards and to the back, before splitting into two arms, the clitoral crura. Shaped like an inverted “V”, these crura extend around and to the interior of the labia majora. Including external and internal components, it is thought the clitoris is similar in size to the penis.
Most of the clitoris is hidden, and external stimulation of the entire clitoris can result in a more profound sexual response. There is considerable variation among women with regard to how much of the clitoris protrudes from the hood and how much is covered by it, ranging from complete, covered invisibility to full, protruding visibility.[/quote]
Your entire existence is held in check by the absolute truth that is death… Your free will cannot expand the parameters of death…
The only way free will exists is if you can achieve a power of having the ability to cheat death… I believe that if you had no physical state, you would have a free will… Since we are all fortunate enough to have a physical state our free will is grounded to our instinct to protect our physical state… That is all I’m really trying to say…
I believe that when someone brings God into a conversation that they bring him only in the need of help, of something to lean against… as insurance… He’s always a great tool to bring into a conversation because he is thought of as infinity… Infinity makes anything else obsolete… You just ended the conversation on my end…
[quote]T-Matt wrote:
Your entire existence is held in check by the absolute truth that is death… Your free will cannot expand the parameters of death…
The only way free will exists is if you can achieve a power of having the ability to cheat death… I believe that if you had no physical state, you would have a free will… Since we are all fortunate enough to have a physical state our free will is grounded to our instinct to protect our physical state… That is all I’m really trying to say…
I believe that when someone brings God into a conversation that they bring him only in the need of help, of something to lean against… as insurance… He’s always a great tool to bring into a conversation because he is thought of as infinity… Infinity makes anything else obsolete… You just ended the conversation on my end…
Good lifting to you too…
T-Matt[/quote]
You are welcome to believe whatever you want.
That makes it nothing more and nothing less then YOUR truth.
What an amazing thought provoking thread! What a lot of you may have missed is the male who is in love, a good father and provider, who needs more than the wife can or is willing to give. I never understood why so many good family men go to prostitutes or have a girlfriend “on the side.” I understand it now.
I have a good friend who has a married girl friend on the side. They meet pretty much just for sex. They meet because that need is not fulfilled in their mariage. They both have good marriages otherwise, its just that their sexual desires are not being met at home. Both their spouses would be very hurt by their infidelity. It seems that they have found the ideal solution to their problem.