[quote]epitome wrote:
Other things to consider are…
When you are sick, you can’t fucking study or do shit. So anything that keeps you from getting sick keeps you from a week of lousy studies and shitty retention from classes.
Manage stress. I see meditating has been mentioned here. Time management is important, and not spreading yourself out thin.
Sleep. Diphenhydramine Hydrochloride, 25 mg is what helps me sleep. Take it regular and it’s less effective from my experience on it. Melatonin? I take it here and there. Not sure about it’s safety. ZMA before bed? Cheap, so I do it. At the least, it’s an inexpensive placebo effect.
Can’t be forgetting basics like the above.
One BIG thing that helps you with life, is realizing that others think what you think of them WAY mroe than they think of you.
Like, before you go to bed, after a party and you lie down on a pillow, you go and think of what others thought of you. And they do the same.
Same with, I’m picking up a chick, and she tells me, you’re weird. Now, why the fuck is she talking with me if I’m a weirdo? Ain’t the case that I am.
It’s more a matter that she’s trying to impress me by calling me a weirdo. She wants to make me think that she is an authority on what is and isn’t weird, as well as that she isn’t wierd herself. Thus, she is seeking validation from me. Twisted, isn’t it?
Same token, you walk down the street and a guy makes hard eye contact with you like he’s a tough guy. Fucking ignore it. Guy is more concerned with what you think of him, as “macho”. You not giving a fuck says wonders about your self esteem and not letting this petty shit bother you.
People live thier lives seeking validation in these twisted ways, and when you see that this is what we do, a HUGE motivator for us is what do others think of me, I want to be thought well of. So much so, that a guy won’t fuck a chick his friends rag on, but she turns him on. It’s a primary motivator in life, and realizing it for something we all engage in and therefore pointless, as something you and I are prone to, also, you can stop this shit and not get all fuddled in your head, or have a racing and unrelaxed mind, and your happiness can go up and your stress down. Helps do better in school and enjoy life.
And in that example, where the guys buddies rag on the girl he wants to fuck? Same token, there. Making it seem like they fuck hotter women and to put you down to put themselves up in your eyes. Twisted.
BTW, Anyone have any opinions on L-Theanine? Green Tea? On the Blueberry studies linked above?
epitome.[/quote]
Interesting post bro, I can relate as well to these issues...Not fun having to think about that stuff, as bushy said, it's hard but try to just Not give a f...
We as humans have done more to hurt mother earth and ourselves than any other creature on the planet..and that's coming from men predominantly...
Men do some fucked up shit to other people in the name of religion and other crap...It's too bad the ego of man seems to easily justify these things to the existance of being such a "superior" being...
Sad.
anyway, interesting read buddy,
ToneBone