I guess I don’t specifically know his vows, but that would be an oral contract. Sertainly, respecting and supporting and being a father is implicit. When the state checks the validity of marriages for green cards, those things are required.[/quote]
?? Since when are you forced to agree to have and take care of kids in marriage vows?
Further, how is he not providing for his family because he trains?
Her issue is she wants him to stop doing what he loves and spend more time with her. I don’t think I have ever heard someone agree to specific terms like (I vow to be home by 6:30 and never train for more than 2 hours a night).
Look, you know what needs to change in society? The idea that a man is somehow wrong for not being turned on by his woman if she drastically changes from what she used to be.
I think men need to be held to a higher standard also (and I think many are now) and maintain themselves…but the idea that a man is somehow dishonoring his vows by being the same guy he was when he got married is DUMB.
If I go marry a porn star who strips at night, do I get to bitch 15 years later when she won’t go to church with me???[/quote]
Did I ever mention anything about stating what bothers him? No. Move on to attacking something I actually said.
He’s a piece of shit because he doesn’t put his family first. He is is douche because of how he conducts himself with other women. He’s a liar because he promised to be a man and isn’t.
She isn’t to blame because having his kids changed her. She is a mom now. That is what she vowed to do.
I guess I don’t specifically know his vows, but that would be an oral contract. Sertainly, respecting and supporting and being a father is implicit. When the state checks the validity of marriages for green cards, those things are required.[/quote]
?? Since when are you forced to agree to have and take care of kids in marriage vows?
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I’m not sure what to say, but yes, you are. You get her pregnant and you are obligated to be a father.
Never said anything about providing.
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Her issue is she wants him to stop doing what he loves and spend more time with her. I don’t think I have ever heard someone agree to specific terms like (I vow to be home by 6:30 and never train for more than 2 hours a night).
Please find something else to harp on.[/quote]
Please never become a spouse or father until you change and grow up. It’s clear you don’t know what either one is.
He’s a piece of shit because he doesn’t put his family first.[/quote]
Do you say the same about every NBA or NFL star?
He isn’t sexually attracted to his woman it seems…but it damn sure looks like she is being taken care of. That means you are trying to force him to live by your personal standards despite actually honoring his commitment. You don’t get to force a desire to spend more time with someone. No marriage declares you are now forced to never change how you feel about spending so much time with the other.
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Most of the guys I know flirt when they can. They put a hidden camera in a room, chose the hottesty secretary and set him up by saying, “LOOK, he actually talked to the girl with the big boobs and ass!!!”
LOL. Are you serious?
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She isn’t to blame because having his kids changed her. She is a mom now. That is what she vowed to do. [/quote]
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If she used to train way more seriously, having kids stopped that?
He’s a piece of shit because he doesn’t put his family first.[/quote]
Do you say the same about every NBA or NFL star?
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yup. and?
sure, if money is the only care a person needs. grow up.
Adultery is adultery. Justification by relative comparison is something a child does. “but Timmy across the street gets to stay up late”. I don’t care what most guys do. wrong is wrong.
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She isn’t to blame because having his kids changed her. She is a mom now. That is what she vowed to do. [/quote]
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If she used to train way more seriously, having kids stopped that?
How?[/quote]
… really? think about this one. What kind changes would be caused by having 3 kids? Use your imagination.
I’m not sure what to say, but yes, you are. You get her pregnant and you are obligated to be a father
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he is a father. What are you talking about? Where did they say he doesn’t take care of his kids?.
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He admitted he wasn’t spending enough time with them.[quote]
I’m about as likely to take marriage advice from you as Meadows would take your advice on cutting for a competition.
I actually gathered up abunch of your quotes that illustrated your total lack of comprehension on being a husband, but I realized I only needed one.
“Since when are you forced to agree to have and take care of kids in marriage vows?”
Again, don’t get married or get a girl pregnant because that is just about the most ignorant retarded view a husband or father could ever have. For the sack of innocent children and the happiness of both yourself and your would be spouse, just don’t do it.
I guess I don’t specifically know his vows, but that would be an oral contract. Sertainly, respecting and supporting and being a father is implicit. When the state checks the validity of marriages for green cards, those things are required.[/quote]
?? Since when are you forced to agree to have and take care of kids in marriage vows?
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I’m not sure what to say, but yes, you are. You get her pregnant and you are obligated to be a father.
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Wait a second, are you seriously saying that in order to get married you HAVE to have kids? I am getting married in just over 2 months and nobody told me this. My fiance and I have zero desire to have kids, ever. Does that mean that we will not be allowed to get married since we will not agree to have kids or will my marriage be annulled after a certain time if we do not produce children?
Also, I know for a fact that there is no children requirement or obligation to get a permanent resident card for your spouse, and eventually citizenship after the 3 year (or 5 year if the spouse was previously living in the US and is filing for citizenship immediately after getting married) residency requirement is met and the two year probationary period after the marriage is met. There is actually no interview or investigation at all until near the end of the 2 year probationary period, and only if the paper evidence, such as proof of joint accounts and loans, residence and such, are deemed insufficient.
I guess I don’t specifically know his vows, but that would be an oral contract. Sertainly, respecting and supporting and being a father is implicit. When the state checks the validity of marriages for green cards, those things are required.[/quote]
?? Since when are you forced to agree to have and take care of kids in marriage vows?
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I’m not sure what to say, but yes, you are. You get her pregnant and you are obligated to be a father.
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Wait a second, are you seriously saying that in order to get married you HAVE to have kids? I am getting married in just over 2 months and nobody told me this. My fiance and I have zero desire to have kids, ever. Does that mean that we will not be allowed to get married since we will not agree to have kids or will my marriage be annulled after a certain time if we do not produce children?
Also, I know for a fact that there is no children requirement or obligation to get a permanent resident card for your spouse, and eventually citizenship after the 3 year (or 5 year if the spouse was previously living in the US and is filing for citizenship immediately after getting married) residency requirement is met and the two year probationary period after the marriage is met. There is actually no interview or investigation at all until near the end of the 2 year probationary period, and only if the paper evidence, such as proof of joint accounts and loans, residence and such, are deemed insufficient.[/quote]
I guess I don’t specifically know his vows, but that would be an oral contract. Sertainly, respecting and supporting and being a father is implicit. When the state checks the validity of marriages for green cards, those things are required.[/quote]
?? Since when are you forced to agree to have and take care of kids in marriage vows?
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I’m not sure what to say, but yes, you are. You get her pregnant and you are obligated to be a father.
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Wait a second, are you seriously saying that in order to get married you HAVE to have kids? I am getting married in just over 2 months and nobody told me this. My fiance and I have zero desire to have kids, ever. Does that mean that we will not be allowed to get married since we will not agree to have kids or will my marriage be annulled after a certain time if we do not produce children?
Also, I know for a fact that there is no children requirement or obligation to get a permanent resident card for your spouse, and eventually citizenship after the 3 year (or 5 year if the spouse was previously living in the US and is filing for citizenship immediately after getting married) residency requirement is met and the two year probationary period after the marriage is met. There is actually no interview or investigation at all until near the end of the 2 year probationary period, and only if the paper evidence, such as proof of joint accounts and loans, residence and such, are deemed insufficient.[/quote]
never said anything about having to have kids.[/quote]
Then what did you mean by this:
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I guess I don’t specifically know his vows, but that would be an oral contract. Sertainly, respecting and supporting and being a father is implicit. When the state checks the validity of marriages for green cards, those things are required.[/quote]
I guess I don’t specifically know his vows, but that would be an oral contract. Sertainly, respecting and supporting and being a father is implicit. When the state checks the validity of marriages for green cards, those things are required.[/quote]
?? Since when are you forced to agree to have and take care of kids in marriage vows?
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I’m not sure what to say, but yes, you are. You get her pregnant and you are obligated to be a father.
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Wait a second, are you seriously saying that in order to get married you HAVE to have kids? I am getting married in just over 2 months and nobody told me this. My fiance and I have zero desire to have kids, ever. Does that mean that we will not be allowed to get married since we will not agree to have kids or will my marriage be annulled after a certain time if we do not produce children?
Also, I know for a fact that there is no children requirement or obligation to get a permanent resident card for your spouse, and eventually citizenship after the 3 year (or 5 year if the spouse was previously living in the US and is filing for citizenship immediately after getting married) residency requirement is met and the two year probationary period after the marriage is met. There is actually no interview or investigation at all until near the end of the 2 year probationary period, and only if the paper evidence, such as proof of joint accounts and loans, residence and such, are deemed insufficient.[/quote]
Damage is done here and this will end badly for them and kids.
Having personal goals and self centered desires are not a bad thing in life, however being an adult and married with children is knowing how to juggle both. I get up at 4:15 4 days during the work week, so I can work out and then get to work. Cause the rest of my day is work and then family. [/quote]
I’m not disagreeing with that.
However, the way the show presented the husband like the bad guy is annoyingly funny. I feel this way maybe 'cos I’m a dedicated athlete myself and I’m irked by the skewed view that people, especially people who don’t train, have of dedicated fitness people.
I’m not married, I ain’t got kids so, probably my priorities will change in the future (NOT!! lol) but I know many married husbands and wives who’ve managed to find a balance between their family life and fitness career/hobby.
I seriously don’t see anything wrong with what that guy does. He’s a dedicated bodybuilder. He’s doing exactly what most guys on the bodybuilding forum do, (posing, supplementing, spending 2 hrs or more at the gym, competing etc). How on earth is this affecting his kids? He doesn’t see them during weekends too?? Sorry something is missing there. I’ll support a woman when I feel she needs support but in this case, the wife is equally guilty of shitting on her marriage.
I’ll be interested to know if she would feel the same had her husband spent more time working late, sat at his office, ordering pizza, getting big and fat, in order to pay the mortgage. I bet she wouldn’t mind. She even said in the video that it wouldn’t bother her if he gained a bit of weight. Lol.
He’s looking better than ever. He’s younger than her. She’s not getting any younger and that’s the main issue right there. She needs to stop blaming it on bodybuilding. LOL.
I guess I don’t specifically know his vows, but that would be an oral contract. Sertainly, respecting and supporting and being a father is implicit. When the state checks the validity of marriages for green cards, those things are required.[/quote]
?? Since when are you forced to agree to have and take care of kids in marriage vows?
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I’m not sure what to say, but yes, you are. You get her pregnant and you are obligated to be a father.
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Wait a second, are you seriously saying that in order to get married you HAVE to have kids? I am getting married in just over 2 months and nobody told me this. My fiance and I have zero desire to have kids, ever. Does that mean that we will not be allowed to get married since we will not agree to have kids or will my marriage be annulled after a certain time if we do not produce children?
Also, I know for a fact that there is no children requirement or obligation to get a permanent resident card for your spouse, and eventually citizenship after the 3 year (or 5 year if the spouse was previously living in the US and is filing for citizenship immediately after getting married) residency requirement is met and the two year probationary period after the marriage is met. There is actually no interview or investigation at all until near the end of the 2 year probationary period, and only if the paper evidence, such as proof of joint accounts and loans, residence and such, are deemed insufficient.[/quote]
Dammit read the fine print.[/quote]
LOL! If those are actual requirements, then I know an immigration lawyer that is going to have a couple of VERY upset customers here in a couple of months.
