[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Steel Nation wrote:
[quote]howie424 wrote:
His wife is fucking hot.[/quote]
Nice body. Face is busted though.[/quote]
Yeah, she ain’t ageing well. I wouldn’t even want to fuck that.
She’s insecure. It’s not even about her kids. It’s about her. She probably worried he’d leave her for a younger sexy blonde. She wants to save her marriage? Go to the gym with your hubby and push weights. See how you look in 6 months, with proper diet and exercise, a better haircut and some botox on your face.
Shit, that was harsh.
Lol.
Seriously, why the heck does she stay with a man who’s ‘‘obsessed about himself’’? Can’t she look after the kids on her own? Does she work? Is she a housewife? The guy clearly doesn’t give a shit about his responsibilities so why is she still with him? I would have kicked his ass out of the house a long time ago. Does she really think by taking her hubby’s ‘‘favourite toy’’ away, the marriage will be saved? That’ll make him resent her even more. She’s never heard of compromise?
Stop complaining, woman. Before blaming your man, look at yourself and figure out what the fuck is wrong with you. Then FIX IT.
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Best post.[/quote]
Of all time!
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
He chose her knowing what she was too.[/quote]
What was she? The show didn’t go into what she was like and he she measured up now.
I agree he made a vow.
I also know a vow doesn’t change who you are.
Maybe people should be more intelligent and accept that a vow does not change who you are…and then maybe there will be less divorce.
You fault him here because the reason is superficial. What about for marriages where the reason is deeper and more emotionally charged?
Bottom line…if you want a long term partner, you need to accept who they are…and all of the bad shit that comes with it. Expecting it to change later because of a vow is about as dumb as you can get.
But hey…that’s “politically correct” for you.[/quote]
It’s not unreasonable to expect someone who gets married and has kids to change into a more responsible person who is less focused on themselves. That’s why this guy is on the show.
If they were married with no kids my attitude would be different. She should expect that he’s probably going to be doing the same stuff he was doing when they were boyfriend and girlfriend. When you have kids though, it’s a different ballgame. You can’t expect a child to be OK with the fact that daddy isn’t home for four hours a night because he wants big muscles and a nice tan. That teaches the kid that dad loves selfish pursuits more than he loves me.
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Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.
She probably hasn’t left him because she’s likely a homemaker.
That’s not an insult to her, women who are financially dependent tend to be more faithful and generally happier. In fact women who contribute 60% or more to household income have the shakiest marriages.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.[/quote]
Thank god for 24hr Fitness!!
Even then, Wifey will still not be happy!
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.[/quote]
Thank god for 24hr Fitness!!
Even then, Wifey will still not be happy!
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Basically…because that isn’t what she is pissed about. She is pissed for reasons that have nothing to do with him. She is pissed at herself…and wants him to change to accomodate her.
The truth is, none of us knows if he is the best father or not. I am sure most here aren’t going to claim no parent should spend so much time because I am guessing those same people cheer on their favorite ‘time spending away from family’ sports athlete.
Either way, expecting a vow to change who someone is…while overlooking THAT THE WIFE CHANGED is retarded. That isn’t reality. Dealing with reality might help there be less divorce. Marriage isn’t a fucking fairy tale like most little girls seem to believe.
[quote]StevenF wrote:
Dr. Phil should go to the fuckin gym. [/quote]
Yeah, the comment about how little time he spends getting ready was stupid. It shows. If he said it takes any more than 3 minutes I would have written the show.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.[/quote]
Thank god for 24hr Fitness!!
Even then, Wifey will still not be happy!
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Basically…because that isn’t what she is pissed about. She is pissed for reasons that have nothing to do with him. She is pissed at herself…and wants him to change to accomodate her.
The truth is, none of us knows if he is the best father or not. I am sure most here aren’t going to claim no parent should spend so much time because I am guessing those same people cheer on their favorite ‘time spending away from family’ sports athlete.
Either way, expecting a vow to change who someone is…while overlooking THAT THE WIFE CHANGED is retarded. That isn’t reality. Dealing with reality might help there be less divorce. Marriage isn’t a fucking fairy tale like most little girls seem to believe.[/quote]
So, what is marriage?
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.[/quote]
Thank god for 24hr Fitness!!
Even then, Wifey will still not be happy!
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Damage is done here and this will end badly for them and kids.
Having personal goals and self centered desires are not a bad thing in life, however being an adult and married with children is knowing how to juggle both. I get up at 4:15 4 days during the work week, so I can work out and then get to work. Cause the rest of my day is work and then family.
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
So, what is marriage?[/quote]
A contract between two people who agree to tether their lives together.
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
So, what is marriage?[/quote]
A legal agreement.
It is a legal bind to someone that grants you some privileges and is based in an ancient concept that marriage is holy.
I believe marriage can be holy…if both of the people involved are after the same goals and enlightenment.
Marriage, especially in this day and age, is mostly a spectacle for the family and for the wife to show off her new dress.
Anyone granting it more validity than that is not living in reality.
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.[/quote]
Thank god for 24hr Fitness!!
Even then, Wifey will still not be happy!
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How old are you darkninjaa?
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.[/quote]
Thank god for 24hr Fitness!!
Even then, Wifey will still not be happy!
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Damage is done here and this will end badly for them and kids.
Having personal goals and self centered desires are not a bad thing in life, however being an adult and married with children is knowing how to juggle both. I get up at 4:15 4 days during the work week, so I can work out and then get to work. Cause the rest of my day is work and then family. [/quote]
Yeah, but you don’t compete or take it to that level.
You don’t look like that by acting like what you just wrote.
And for the record, hey white people…all of that tanning is WHY you need botox at 31.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
So, what is marriage?[/quote]
A legal agreement.
It is a legal bind to someone that grants you some privileges and is based in an ancient concept that marriage is holy.
I believe marriage can be holy…if both of the people involved are after the same goals and enlightenment.
Marriage, especially in this day and age, is mostly a spectacle for the family and for the wife to show off her new dress.
Anyone granting it more validity than that is not living in reality.[/quote]
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
So, what is marriage?[/quote]
A legal agreement.
It is a legal bind to someone that grants you some privileges and is based in an ancient concept that marriage is holy.
I believe marriage can be holy…if both of the people involved are after the same goals and enlightenment.
Marriage, especially in this day and age, is mostly a spectacle for the family and for the wife to show off her new dress.
Anyone granting it more validity than that is not living in reality.[/quote]
Marriage like a business contract. If it’s a legal document, isn’t he violating his legal obligations?
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.[/quote]
Thank god for 24hr Fitness!!
Even then, Wifey will still not be happy!
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Damage is done here and this will end badly for them and kids.
Having personal goals and self centered desires are not a bad thing in life, however being an adult and married with children is knowing how to juggle both. I get up at 4:15 4 days during the work week, so I can work out and then get to work. Cause the rest of my day is work and then family. [/quote]
Yeah, but you don’t compete or take it to that level.
You don’t look like that by acting like what you just wrote.
And for the record, hey white people…all of that tanning is WHY you need botox at 31.[/quote]
Lol true I do not, however I do juggle more than most and still get to the gym.
He is a cop, so I mean all he has to do is beat on a couple black people and shot some dogs at work. Minimal effort on his part for work.
Or smoking will ruin a face as bad as the sun.
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.[/quote]
Thank god for 24hr Fitness!!
Even then, Wifey will still not be happy!
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Basically…because that isn’t what she is pissed about. She is pissed for reasons that have nothing to do with him. She is pissed at herself…and wants him to change to accomodate her.
The truth is, none of us knows if he is the best father or not. I am sure most here aren’t going to claim no parent should spend so much time because I am guessing those same people cheer on their favorite ‘time spending away from family’ sports athlete.
Either way, expecting a vow to change who someone is…while overlooking THAT THE WIFE CHANGED is retarded. That isn’t reality. Dealing with reality might help there be less divorce. Marriage isn’t a fucking fairy tale like most little girls seem to believe.[/quote]
So, what is marriage?[/quote]
Some kind of archaic bullshit
Used really in ancient times til aabout20 years ago to keep women as housepets…but dressed up as a goal for “well adjusted” adults.
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
So, what is marriage?[/quote]
A legal agreement.
It is a legal bind to someone that grants you some privileges and is based in an ancient concept that marriage is holy.
I believe marriage can be holy…if both of the people involved are after the same goals and enlightenment.
Marriage, especially in this day and age, is mostly a spectacle for the family and for the wife to show off her new dress.
Anyone granting it more validity than that is not living in reality.[/quote]
Marriage like a business contract. If it’s a legal document, isn’t he violating his legal obligations?[/quote]
What was written in the contract terms? This question is too ambiguous.
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Or dad should get his ass up at 3 am and go to the gym for his personal time.[/quote]
Thank god for 24hr Fitness!!
Even then, Wifey will still not be happy!
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How old are you darkninjaa?[/quote]
Dude really.
Two things you never ask a woman
Her age
and her weight
Write that shit down
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
So, what is marriage?[/quote]
A legal agreement.
It is a legal bind to someone that grants you some privileges and is based in an ancient concept that marriage is holy.
I believe marriage can be holy…if both of the people involved are after the same goals and enlightenment.
Marriage, especially in this day and age, is mostly a spectacle for the family and for the wife to show off her new dress.
Anyone granting it more validity than that is not living in reality.[/quote]
Marriage like a business contract. If it’s a legal document, isn’t he violating his legal obligations?[/quote]
How? By stating what bothers him?
Look, you know what needs to change in society? The idea that a man is somehow wrong for not being turned on by his woman if she drastically changes from what she used to be.
I think men need to be held to a higher standard also (and I think many are now) and maintain themselves…but the idea that a man is somehow dishonoring his vows by being the same guy he was when he got married is DUMB.
If I go marry a porn star who strips at night, do I get to bitch 15 years later when she won’t go to church with me???
[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
So, what is marriage?[/quote]
A legal agreement.
It is a legal bind to someone that grants you some privileges and is based in an ancient concept that marriage is holy.
I believe marriage can be holy…if both of the people involved are after the same goals and enlightenment.
Marriage, especially in this day and age, is mostly a spectacle for the family and for the wife to show off her new dress.
Anyone granting it more validity than that is not living in reality.[/quote]
Marriage like a business contract. If it’s a legal document, isn’t he violating his legal obligations?[/quote]
What was written in the contract terms? This question is too ambiguous.
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I guess I don’t specifically know his vows, but that would be an oral contract. Sertainly, respecting and supporting and being a father is implicit. When the state checks the validity of marriages for green cards, those things are required.