[quote]howie424 wrote:
His wife is fucking hot.[/quote]
You have a very loose definition of “hot”.[/quote]
Maybe he likes more of the “loose” part[/quote]
I only know she wasn’t turning me on either so if he is also getting the constant nagging along with it, I can see why he acts like that.
She married him because he was into bodybuilding and liked 20 somethings with big booties. She is worried now because she knows she isn’t bringing it and she stuck with a guy who bases his emotions on looks.
That is HER fault. Not his.[/quote]
This is true, but he also decided to get married and have three kids. You can’t do that and then expect to still live the single life. If you do, you end up with an ex-wife and kids with emotional trauma because dad wanted to spend 3-4 hours at the gym every day instead of hanging out with them.
Which begs another question. WTF is he doing in the gym for 4 hours every day? Or does he lift for an hour or two and then go out for a couple hours, but tell his wife he was at the gym the whole time?
Of course the show was meant to present that guy in a bad light; a guy passionate about pushing weights as a monster and an irresponsible parent.
Funny how they make it looks like the guy spends all day in the gym.
I’m sure he goes to work too and have enough time left to read bedtime stories to his kids. But since wifey is no longer that hot looking… well… there’s no sex at all… and if there is, he probably imagines a hot blonde Sicilian babe while he penetrates his wife. Ouch!!
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Come on, guys. You can’t really just fall in line that easily and go with what the show producers wanted.[/quote]
That’s right. I based my view on what was presented. THAT’S all we know - fact or not.
Given that, your assumptions on their relationship are no more factual or true than anyone else’s.
It’s all Hollywood.[/quote]
I am referring to the way it was presented.
For instance, he did not stroll on national tv and yell out, “hey bitch, you let yourself go!”. They set him up. Shows like this have done that for over 3 decades. They interview you by phone first, then in person, usually NOT by Dr. Phil but by someone who acts like you can tell them anything…and then they bust you with it later.
This is true, but he also decided to get married and have three kids. You can’t do that and then expect to still live the single life. If you do, you end up with an ex-wife and kids with emotional trauma because dad wanted to spend 3-4 hours at the gym every day instead of hanging out with them.[/quote]
Gee, that’s why you don’t take the guy who trains four hours a day and expect him to change later.
I would say that is a problem MANY women have.
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Which begs another question. WTF is he doing in the gym for 4 hours every day? Or does he lift for an hour or two and then go out for a couple hours, but tell his wife he was at the gym the whole time?[/quote]
Like I said, shows like this add in everything from tanning to shaving to eating. I seriously doubt it takes him 4 fucking hours just to lift everyday.
Agree with x, how anybody can watch this and not see it is contrived and manufactured is crazy. The ambushing this dolt gets is obvious. All in an attempt to make phil look like a hero, he is self righteous asshole and truly hope he gets a 2x4 to the face.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Come on, guys. You can’t really just fall in line that easily and go with what the show producers wanted.[/quote]
That’s right. I based my view on what was presented. THAT’S all we know - fact or not.
Given that, your assumptions on their relationship are no more factual or true than anyone else’s.
It’s all Hollywood.[/quote]
I am referring to the way it was presented.
For instance, he did not stroll on national tv and yell out, “hey bitch, you let yourself go!”. They set him up. Shows like this have done that for over 3 decades. They interview you by phone first, then in person, usually NOT by Dr. Phil but by someone who acts like you can tell them anything…and then they bust you with it later.
Shame on the woman for marrying him, but it’s still his fault. He took an oath. He isn’t living up to his oath. She should have known, but he’s still the problem.
Agreed but he needs to balance out his life a bit more. 4 hours a day is a bit excessive when you have children and a wife.
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Even for Ronnie Coleman?
He competes and clearly takes it seriously. You don’t look like that by accident. Hell, you don’t look anything close to that without some major time invested. I don’t spend 4 whole hours in the gym (and I seriously doubt he actually does either…they probably added in tanning and everything else) but I know people who have. If a woman sticks with a guy like that, why tell him he needs balance ten years later when he still acts the same?
The problem is that guy got married. That is both the fault of HER and HIM.[/quote]
I have all the Ronnie Coleman videos. He is in the gym tops 3.5 hours. And I would include travel time too/from his house in that time frame. He also has a gym in the addition on the back of the house with a StairMaster and a treadmill in his room. When he needs to do extra prep work that is where he is. This is what I mean by balancing out your life. He can still be at home and still find extra time to train up if needed.
[quote]MattyXL wrote:
Agree with x, how anybody can watch this and not see it is contrived and manufactured is crazy. The ambushing this dolt gets is obvious. All in an attempt to make phil look like a hero, he is self righteous asshole and truly hope he gets a 2x4 to the face. [/quote]
Matty tell us how you really feel.
I still have not seen video, I am just talking out my ass.
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
Shame on the woman for marrying him, but it’s still his fault. He took an oath. He isn’t living up to his oath. She should have known, but he’s still the problem.
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Marriage is the problem.
The rest of the problem lies with an insecure woman and a self obsessed man who are at completely different stages of their lives and want completely different things.
That woman knows her time is running out. It is just a sad fact of society (which I honestly think is slowly changing with people like Halle Berry still looking hot at damn near 50) that women in general do not become more desirable for marriage over 40…while a man’s worth is based much more on his income and goals over that age giving him the advantage.
She is worried now…and likely makes him aware of it daily. That was never going to work.
Agreed but he needs to balance out his life a bit more. 4 hours a day is a bit excessive when you have children and a wife.
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Even for Ronnie Coleman?
He competes and clearly takes it seriously. You don’t look like that by accident. Hell, you don’t look anything close to that without some major time invested. I don’t spend 4 whole hours in the gym (and I seriously doubt he actually does either…they probably added in tanning and everything else) but I know people who have. If a woman sticks with a guy like that, why tell him he needs balance ten years later when he still acts the same?
The problem is that guy got married. That is both the fault of HER and HIM.[/quote]
I have all the Ronnie Coleman videos. He is in the gym tops 3.5 hours. And I would include travel time too/from his house in that time frame. He also has a gym in the addition on the back of the house with a StairMaster and a treadmill in his room. When he needs to do extra prep work that is where he is. This is what I mean by balancing out your life. He can still be at home and still find extra time to train up if needed.
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Are all of you really believing they gave the exact amount of time he spent in the gym and didn’t round up at all?
[quote]Jackie_Jacked wrote:
Some day, that guy will be begging her to come back to him.
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I would say the opposite is more likely to be true.
Tell me, what sort of market do you think there exists for a 41 year old recently divorced woman with kids?[/quote]
Well, I am 37, was a single mother and my husband now is 8 years younger than I am. I don’t hear him complain at all - quite the opposite - and he spends a shitload of time with me and we also lift together. We do everything as a team and actually like each others company.
If you want to live your life as though you’re single, you probably shouldn’t get married in the first place because you will have time and freedom restrictions.
[quote]MattyXL wrote:
Agree with x, how anybody can watch this and not see it is contrived and manufactured is crazy. The ambushing this dolt gets is obvious. All in an attempt to make phil look like a hero, he is self righteous asshole and truly hope he gets a 2x4 to the face. [/quote]
Matty tell us how you really feel.
I still have not seen video, I am just talking out my ass.[/quote]
actually Im trying to deflect the rumors that I am card carrying member of the Dr. Phil fan club
