[quote]BrickHead wrote:
What income and career should a man have before he goes about finding a woman[/quote]
a man should have a steady income and a career with a lot of upward mobility before he looks for a woman.
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Before I write a post that starts on faulty ground because I read into this incorrectly, do you mean that a man should put off dating/relationships in general until this point, or put off actively finding ‘the one’ until this point?[/quote]
I personally do not believe that a man should date seriously until he has his financial house completely in order…contingency plans… solid connections through networking, etc.
I feel as though financial problems are the main things that couples fight about… so why not head those off before they happen?
that’s just what I plan on doing when I start looking for a serious relationship, tho I don’t plan on ever getting married. [/quote]
If young guys can’t get laid until they are well set up financially and career wise then you will have a lot of pent up frustration by young men who may never reach that state of financial security. Sounds like Middle East.
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Energy cannot be created or destroyed merely transferred into one form or another. If more men saw the value in building themselves instead of indulging the whims of women to get sex society would be better off.
[quote]BrickHead wrote:
What income and career should a man have before he goes about finding a woman[/quote]
a man should have a steady income and a career with a lot of upward mobility before he looks for a woman.
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Before I write a post that starts on faulty ground because I read into this incorrectly, do you mean that a man should put off dating/relationships in general until this point, or put off actively finding ‘the one’ until this point?[/quote]
I personally do not believe that a man should date seriously until he has his financial house completely in order…contingency plans… solid connections through networking, etc.
I feel as though financial problems are the main things that couples fight about… so why not head those off before they happen?
that’s just what I plan on doing when I start looking for a serious relationship, tho I don’t plan on ever getting married. [/quote]
If young guys can’t get laid until they are well set up financially and career wise then you will have a lot of pent up frustration by young men who may never reach that state of financial security. Sounds like Middle East.
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I think similar. I think if most men waited till all was set, we would have a many socially awkward and just downright weird dudes walking around. [/quote]
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
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Thing is, nobody shares his views.[/quote]
Nobody is a lie, and the communities that do, do quite well actually.
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
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Thing is, nobody shares his views.[/quote]
I do. Women want to be treated as equal, time to provide equally to the relationship.
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
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Thing is, nobody shares his views.[/quote]
Nobody is a lie, and the communities that do, do quite well actually.[/quote]
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
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Thing is, nobody shares his views.[/quote]
I do. Woman want to be treated as equal, time to provide equally to the relationship.
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Are you also a virgin with no intention of getting married but hoping to meet a girl with similar views on premarital sex?
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
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Thing is, nobody shares his views.[/quote]
I do. Woman want to be treated as equal, time to provide equally to the relationship.
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Are you also a virgin with no intention of getting married but hoping to meet a girl with similar views on premarital sex?[/quote]
Yes I am a virgin. I would get married if my assets were protected 100% in a event of a divorce and if 50% shared custody was guaranteed within the law. I do not really care about premarital sex, although I do see a trend between girls that sleep around a lot and my low level of desire for them.
I am virgin not because sex is unattainable simply I see sex as a pleasurable temporary experience with a lot of draw backs in this day and age.
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
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Thing is, nobody shares his views.[/quote]
Nobody is a lie, and the communities that do, do quite well actually.[/quote]
WTF does that mean, Orion?[/quote]
That means that there are communities which do share his views on premarital sex and they have stable marriages and more kids than average and they will simply outbreed the people that dont.
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
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Thing is, nobody shares his views.[/quote]
I do. Woman want to be treated as equal, time to provide equally to the relationship.
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Are you also a virgin with no intention of getting married but hoping to meet a girl with similar views on premarital sex?[/quote]
Yes I am a virgin. I would get married if my assets were protected 100% in a event of a divorce and if 50% shared custody was guaranteed within the law. I do not really care about premarital sex, although I do see a trend between girls that sleep around a lot and my low level of desire for them.
I am virgin not because sex is unattainable simply I see sex as a pleasurable temporary experience with a lot of draw backs in this day and age.
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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
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Thing is, nobody shares his views.[/quote]
Nobody is a lie, and the communities that do, do quite well actually.[/quote]
WTF does that mean, Orion?[/quote]
That means that there are communities which do share his views on premarital sex and they have stable marriages and more kids than average and they will simply outbreed the people that dont.
Like Mormons. [/quote]
His views on premarital sex aren’t based on religion as you well know.
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
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Thing is, nobody shares his views.[/quote]
I do. Woman want to be treated as equal, time to provide equally to the relationship.
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Are you also a virgin with no intention of getting married but hoping to meet a girl with similar views on premarital sex?[/quote]
Yes I am a virgin. I would get married if my assets were protected 100% in a event of a divorce and if 50% shared custody was guaranteed within the law. I do not really care about premarital sex, although I do see a trend between girls that sleep around a lot and my low level of desire for them.
I am virgin not because sex is unattainable simply I see sex as a pleasurable temporary experience with a lot of draw backs in this day and age.
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Bullshit.
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Do you want me to share a few stories? Is it too hard to believe that a man would turn down that short term pleasure for long term security?
[quote]roybot wrote:
His views on premarital sex aren’t based on religion as you well know. [/quote]
Well, I intentionally simplified things down to simply being against premarital sex in the first place, rather than any actual reasoning.
[quote]Lift or die wrote:
Do you want me to share a few stories? Is it too hard to believe that a man would turn down that short term pleasure for long term security?[/quote]
I’m sorry, but what?
How does that “short term pleasure” diminish his “long term security”? What is this “long term security” that you’re talking about anyway?
[quote]debraD wrote:
True story! I was told (seriously) by a colleague that I am too Alpha and I needed to let the some of the Betas on the team develop their leadership. [/quote]
[quote]Lift or die wrote:
Do you want me to share a few stories? Is it too hard to believe that a man would turn down that short term pleasure for long term security?[/quote]
I’m sorry, but what?
How does that “short term pleasure” diminish his “long term security”? What is this “long term security” that you’re talking about anyway?[/quote]
And isn’t it pretty much a scientific fact that men who aren’t getting laid have massive IQ drops and make stupid decisions (especially regarding women lol)
[quote]Lift or die wrote:
Do you want me to share a few stories? Is it too hard to believe that a man would turn down that short term pleasure for long term security?[/quote]
I’m sorry, but what?
How does that “short term pleasure” diminish his “long term security”? What is this “long term security” that you’re talking about anyway?[/quote]
What he probably means is she will steal his sperm and all his future livelihood,accuse him of rape and then kill his horse and ruin his tractor AND truck. Or is that some country song I’m thinking of. Womens are teh danger.
[quote]Lift or die wrote:
Do you want me to share a few stories? Is it too hard to believe that a man would turn down that short term pleasure for long term security?[/quote]
I’m sorry, but what?
How does that “short term pleasure” diminish his “long term security”? What is this “long term security” that you’re talking about anyway?[/quote]
Maybe the idea that any women he sleeps with before he has his long term security will falsely accuse him of rape, sabotage his condom and trap him with kids or boil his rabbit? I’m curious as well.
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I would want a career-driven woman […] who shares my views on premarital sex[/quote]
I think that’s going to be near impossible to find. The latter is just difficult to find in the West anyway.
I know one, but only one, who is career-driven and shares your views. All of the others either got married long before their careers started, or simply just don’t share those views.
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Thing is, nobody shares his views.[/quote]
I do. Woman want to be treated as equal, time to provide equally to the relationship.
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Are you also a virgin with no intention of getting married but hoping to meet a girl with similar views on premarital sex?[/quote]
Yes I am a virgin. I would get married if my assets were protected 100% in a event of a divorce and if 50% shared custody was guaranteed within the law. I do not really care about premarital sex, although I do see a trend between girls that sleep around a lot and my low level of desire for them.
I am virgin not because sex is unattainable simply I see sex as a pleasurable temporary experience with a lot of draw backs in this day and age.
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Bullshit.
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Do you want me to share a few stories? Is it too hard to believe that a man would turn down that short term pleasure for long term security?
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Sure. It’s Christmas. No better time for tall tales and shaggy dog stories.
