[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
legendaryblaze wrote:
FightinIrish26 wrote:
Well, how old are your daughters? There’s a big difference between teaching a child karate under the assumption that they’ll never use it and teaching self defense to a girl who goes to college in NYC.
Honestly though, I’ll go out on a limb and say find a very good karate school- I’m partial to the Okinawan forms myself. Circular styles will help teach them to not meet force with force, and will also show them how to punch, shoot palm heel strikes, and do other things without getting them hurt.
I like judo, mainly because it will teach them to throw, and then give them an opportunity to get away. However, it is still based around sport, and still involves grappling… and I don’t like the odds when a girl is grappling with a guy, no matter how big. And I still don’t ever recommend BJJ for self defense, no matter what any asshole tells you.
Agreed. However get them into kyokushin. It’s the more violent form of karate and has emphasis on knocking out and pushing yourself as opposed to touch-point sparring.
I would think a woman’s best weapons are her feet and legs and kyokushin has an emphasis on bare hand and feet hitting.
However i would supplement it with some boxing because the major weak point of kyokushin is the lack of face punching and if she does this from a young age it will engrain a weakness in real street fight.
In which case you say go for muay thai, which is a great martial art but as far as i know isn’t that big on escapes and dodging, which would be helpful for a woman.
Imo, kyokushin + boxing + wrestling = win.
Not that I don’t agree- if it were a guy asking the question, I’d say you’re 200 percent right.
But remember- the guy isn’t asking, “What happens if my daughter gets beer balls and gets into a fight?” He’s asking for self defense, and sports are going to be sorely lacking in mental skills and avoidance and awareness that a girl will need.
Not to mention, I don’t have a whole lot of faith in the small bones of a girl’s hand standing up to an impact with a guy’s face- hence why I would favor open hand strikes for a woman sooner than I would a man.
Edit- that video is pretty tough. That girl with the long hair has some wicked footwork.[/quote]
True.
However i think i was slightly misunderstood. Let me explain the reasons i picked those 3 specifically.
Kyokushin: Focuses more on sparring and warrior mindset than katas. Will teach her how to kick and punch barefist. The focus is on kicks and the footwork of kicks. Also knees and elbows.
This will help her learn how to fight with her feet and legs. However it will also teach her how to duck, dodge and weave in accordance to kicking and body punches (rolling with the punches). It will also teach her the different forms of open hand fighting (as you mentioned, open palm and so forth) which would not be found in muay thai or boxing.
This gives her many options and to the fact that there is no protective gear, it will help instill a mindset in her that will aid her in defending herself. Being hit in the stomach with a glove and with a bare fist are two very different feelings.
Boxing is there for the upper body. It comes 2/3 of a circle with kyokushin. What boxing lacks in kicking, it more than makes up for in punches. The lack of face punches in kyokushin is a HUGE flaw for self defense. Boxing is not there to show her how to throw a punch, it is there to show her to defend herself from one.
If someone wants to punch or slap her in the face, it’s the head work and boxing skills that are pretty much unique to boxing that will help her out. She can also use her boxing skills with some open palm strikes.
Most men fight with punches and if it ever comes to that she needs to be prepared.
Wrestling is there because it completes the circle. A woman’s biggest disadvantage is size. A man just needs to hug a woman to take her down.
So far with boxing and kyokushin we have the arms and legs covered in terms of stand up but what would she do if someone got too close to her?
Bjj is great but relying on a martial art that works pretty much only on the floor is suicidal for a woman.
Judo is great too but i think it’s something that requires you to throw yourself alot. However i am not familiar with it so i won’t say much more.
I believe wrestling is better because it also has emphasis on legs and a woman will usually be smaller than a man and this will allow her to get under him/around him more easily.
I think this is the best course of action.
I agree, Irish, that such sport oriented martial arts (sounds like an oxy moron) will not necessarily help her when she will have to rip someone’s arm off but it will give her the tools to defend herself instinctively. That is something that takes a lot longer to develop (imo) then learning how to not have pity.
Ferocity is something that her father will have to teach her or that she will have to teach herself. That is something that almost no martial art can really teach you. You can train for war, but you will never know war unless you directly experience it.
In terms of skill building, if she is cornered she has the tools to defend herself. She can punch, kick, take down and throw. The mentality that is needed is something that she will have to acquire with experience and maybe some hairy situations.
To the OP:
The best thing you can teach your daughter is situation avoidance and situational awareness.
Teach her that the best way to win a self defense situation is to avoid it completely.
If the drug dealers from her class, Jeremy and John, are having a house party in a shady neighborhood, then she shouldn’t go. It’s that simple.
I know girls that have never needed to defend themselves because they have never put themselves in situations where they would need to.