I’m thinking I’ve been a loner for too long now. I’m actually getting pretty damn bored with doing everything either with my roommate, her friends, or alone. Need guy friends to re-ignite my machismo. Man-Laws are still in effect, however. For those of you in the NOVA area, hit me up. I’m thinking of going to the Slipknot concert next month.
I was thinking about going, but I gotta get some financials in order first. I’m definitely interested if I can get the money boat headed in the right direction quick.
I feel you on the no more loner stuff dude.
I get so caught up with work and my family (i have little kids)
that i rarely make time for me. Rarely feel like making time for me for that matter, usually rather sleep or just rest.
Time where i can just hang out with friends is important it just always gets delayed. I think i am going to remedy this this football season however…Games are easy excuse to make time…
Beast, I feel you. For a while, I cut pretty much everyone except family out of my life to focus on my goals.
Now that the hard parts over, I’m starting to say ‘yes’ when my friends invite me out. At least, the ones that still talk to me. I have the strange feeling I’m going to be apologizing for the way I’ve acted these last couple of months.
I was the same way otep, just for a different reason. My wife and i got married really young and started having kids. All my friends were also young and some of the invites that came i obviously wasn’t as interested in because at the time my kids and wife needed me more than anything.
now my kids are bit older and my wife and i are used to covering for each other so we can have girls and guys nights out. It’s just i have had to make some new friends.
Resocializing is a difficult things sometimes. Learning how to make and be friends.
I’m just about on that train right now, supe. I’ve made several sacrifices for a woman, and now, I’m realizing that I pretty much forgot about myself. Diggin that avatar.
Yeah beast, it’s easy in a relationship to lose touch with who you are as an individual. I got caught up with who i was as a father and husband and had to rediscover myself in some ways.
That happened about two years ago for me when i started my whole fitness thing…Just make a little time for yourself doesn’t have to be a lot. I have started (with my new friends) doing stuff like gaming, and as i said making plans to watch sports etc…
In retro spect guys like us that focus on our relationships and caring for others make incredible husbands and fathers…
On a separate not from rediscovering social interaction, thanks for the avatar compliment. You know i dig marvel stuff more but something about ol’ sups is just cool.
Thanks for the tips, guys. I was actually just looking at the kickball thing this morning! Don’t think I’ll go that route, though. It’s a good lil drive away. I might try a new boxing gym. I’ll see.