[quote]Westclock wrote:
tribunaldude wrote:
TBH “former geeks” actually BECOME recreational weight trainers and bodybuilders as they get older to avenge their former humiliation or being picked on when they were skinny and nerdy.
whizzing through the posts on this and other sites (especially GAL forum) has convinced me about that. I feel that current criticism of bbers actually comes from guys who were the “cool dudes” (think Fonz or any of the guys from Dawson’s creek)
who used to get the chicks easily in high school but are now relegated to a lifetime of being ordinary and unremarkable, stuck with prematurely graying hair, average looking wives and a boring poorly paying job.
Bill Roberts wrote:
Personally I believe there’s a psychological phenomenon that for some people – and it seems only to be men that are vehement about it – comes into play whenever they consider things related to having a lot of muscle.
Anabolic steroids?!? Horror!!
High protein diet?!? Idiots!
Bodybuilding?? THEY HAVE SMALL DICKS!!
I don’t know whether it comes from having been geeks in high school and either beaten up by the football players and other athletes, or losing their girlfriends to them, or just never getting any girlfriends in their formative years while those with better builds did so much better than they, or perhaps some unrelated who-knows-what cause.
But it isn’t reason that is driving these emotional responses, of that I am pretty sure.
I cant speak for bodybuilders in general, but many of the most committed lifters I have met were not geeks, so much as “late bloomers”
They didn’t really peak until half way through college.
The late bloomer is an interesting person, they were “cute” or “decent looking” in highschool, but were of average popularity, they werent the studs and cheerleaders, they were the Girl/Boy next door types in other words.
Alot of these guys and girls WANT more than anything to be the “bodies” from highschool.
And due to the fact that they didnt peak physically at 17, they actually develop a personality, a hardcore training routine, and a near perfect diet.
By the time they are in their early twenties in college they are smart, have a great personality, and thanks to their hardwork also have an amazing body.
In other words a total package.
I think alot of lifters will fit into this category.[/quote]
although my athleticism was above average as a freshman in high school being on varsity…my physique didn’t develop until my late jr year, and then my sr year I was a god on campus dating the head cheerleader and all that b.s.
Some of my friends who “bloomed” sooner are still there if you know what I mean. They haven’t strived to become anything outside of high school. I wanted to play college sports, pursue bodybuilding, and an education outside of my small town life so I busted ass in high school. I think if I was an “early” bloomer that things would be different.
I can see what you mean definitely.
DG