[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]ephrem wrote:
…reliable in what way? You could say that if i do something i find moral and subsequently notice how someone else is negatively affected by it, i’d make sure not to act like that towards that person…
…but that’s rare. I mean, it’s not so rare that someone finds me offensive for instance, or crass, but i have little regard for social norms. So yeah, i still don’t get what you mean by reliable?
…sleep well!
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Alright I lied. Really last post tonight:
How do you know you can trust them?
To use your example, you felt that you acted against your principles when denying the two Turkish gentlemen entrance to the bar you were working at. How do you know that your boss was wrong and you are right?
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…the boss had his reasons for asking that of me; reasons i understood. But that can’t be the yardstick i live my life by. How i feel about things, the effects i’ve experienced certain behaviour can have on people, what effect certain behaviour has on me [stress, guilt, sorrow], all contribute to my sense of wrong and right…
…i prefer to be relaxed, to be friendly and kind because of how that makes me feel. Being stressed, surly, mean and vindictive is not how i want to live the one life i have. That’s how…