You got rocked by your 18yr old soon to be step son, and it seems like you didn’t put up much of a fight. Press charges if you want to but that’s gonna be one awkward wedding ceremony. Sit him down and talk. Talk candidly and openly with him. Ask him what the fuck his problem is and what was he thinking.
Maybe he has been wanting to rearrange you mug for quite some time and all he needed was that tiny opening. Cuz you know he went back to his homeboys and told them that “I finally kicked my douchebag soon to be step dad’s ass”. I’m not trying to be a dick but these types of situations are touchy and sometimes pent up emotions manifest themselves in him tuning you up.
So talk to him seriously first, then decide what you want to do. And next time don’t get beat up in front of your fiance by her 18yr old son.
except that sometimes it’s appropriate to rage against adults, apparently, if you read a post about them on the internet and it makes you “so fucking mad [YOU’LL] find him and beat his punk ass.”
Then it’s ok to rage on them.
My only advice to the OP is to change the title of the thread. Maybe the kid got angry because you kept calling him your future son in law instead of your future stepson
Take a copy of his official scholarship papers (if he has them around) and piss on them while you call the cops to press charges. Teach him a lesson in poetry.
Seriously, pain is the best teacher. The BEST. Call the school he is going to and let the athletics director and/or dean know that he may be in trouble with the law for felony assault…and then casually ask if that could jeopardize his scholarship. Don’t explain what happened, but just ask if they’d like a copy of the police report to judge for themselves.
Then, file the report, and get a copy to mail to the people at his school.
A black eye heals. A repercussion like what could happen to him for shit like this? That’s a beautiful scar. Go for it and don’t be a fucking pussy.
[quote]KBCThird wrote:
except that sometimes it’s appropriate to rage against adults, apparently, if you read a post about them on the internet and it makes you “so fucking mad [YOU’LL] find him and beat his punk ass.”
The next time you see him, drop down into a 3-point stance, fire off the line, drive your fists into his rib cage, and drive block him into the closest available wall. When (if) he arises, let him that that is what happens in this house when he pulls shit like that.
You better figure out what youre gonna do OP cause letting it slide isn’t an option. I’d definitely talk it over with your lady too and see what she thinks/says about how to handle it.
So what if his D2 scholie gets pulled. It’s not like he’s got a full ride to play QB at USC or Notre Dame. He isn’t going to the league and gonna put you and his mom on the gravy train so you don’t have to pretend it didn’t happen lol
[quote]optheta wrote:
Am I the only one who thinks you should offer him to go in Anger Management first and if he doesn’t then press charges?[/quote]
That’s called appeasement. It didn’t work with Nazi Germany, it won’t work with this kid.
Listen, I want you to find some methylene blue and pour it in a drink of his, preferably something that’s not colorless (i.e. juice, gatorade). It’ll make him piss lavender for like 24-48 hours. Record his screams and send a copy to his coach/teammates. And all ex girlfriends.
You better figure out what youre gonna do OP cause letting it slide isn’t an option. I’d definitely talk it over with your lady too and see what she thinks/says about how to handle it.
So what if his D2 scholie gets pulled. It’s not like he’s got a full ride to play QB at USC or Notre Dame. He isn’t going to the league and gonna put you and his mom on the gravy train so you don’t have to pretend it didn’t happen lol[/quote]
Ya, but OP in all seriousness is the kid just outright more of a bad ass than you or were you just caught off guard?
What I mean is if you tried to fight him ten times out of those ten times how many times do you think you’d win? If the answer isn’t nine or ten then ya I’d go a different route.
[quote]bwbski wrote:
only thing holding me back is it may f up the rest of his life…[/quote]
No. “It” will not fuck up the rest of his life, HE will fuck up the rest of his life. That being said, I’m gonna have to go with AngryChicken on this one and recommend that you teach the fucking punk a lesson of your own. But I definitely wouldn’t hire anyone to beat his ass for you. Do it yourself. I’d wear a skimask and some sort of disguise so he won’t know it’s you and jump him if you can’t take him one-on-one.
If you can take him one-on-one, challenge his ass. Tell him now that you are actually facing him and his mother isn’t around that he better come at you because you are going to come at him. Beat his ass down until he’s verbalized that he’s had enough. If you have any sort of wrestling background put him in your favorite submission hold and make him beg you not to choke him out and beat the fuck out of him while he’s unconscious.
You better figure out what youre gonna do OP cause letting it slide isn’t an option. I’d definitely talk it over with your lady too and see what she thinks/says about how to handle it.
So what if his D2 scholie gets pulled. It’s not like he’s got a full ride to play QB at USC or Notre Dame. He isn’t going to the league and gonna put you and his mom on the gravy train so you don’t have to pretend it didn’t happen lol[/quote]
Ya, but OP in all seriousness is the kid just outright more of a bad ass than you or were you just caught off guard?
What I mean is if you tried to fight him ten times out of those ten times how many times do you think you’d win? If the answer isn’t nine or ten then ya I’d go a different route. [/quote]
0 is my guess (maybe 1 time… If the kid happened to be sleeping when the fight started)
You better figure out what youre gonna do OP cause letting it slide isn’t an option. I’d definitely talk it over with your lady too and see what she thinks/says about how to handle it.
So what if his D2 scholie gets pulled. It’s not like he’s got a full ride to play QB at USC or Notre Dame. He isn’t going to the league and gonna put you and his mom on the gravy train so you don’t have to pretend it didn’t happen lol[/quote]
Ya, but OP in all seriousness is the kid just outright more of a bad ass than you or were you just caught off guard?
What I mean is if you tried to fight him ten times out of those ten times how many times do you think you’d win? If the answer isn’t nine or ten then ya I’d go a different route. [/quote]
0 is my guess (maybe 1 time… If the kid happened to be sleeping when the fight started)[/quote]
I don’t know man…never wake a sleeping giant right?
You better figure out what youre gonna do OP cause letting it slide isn’t an option. I’d definitely talk it over with your lady too and see what she thinks/says about how to handle it.
So what if his D2 scholie gets pulled. It’s not like he’s got a full ride to play QB at USC or Notre Dame. He isn’t going to the league and gonna put you and his mom on the gravy train so you don’t have to pretend it didn’t happen lol[/quote]
Ya, but OP in all seriousness is the kid just outright more of a bad ass than you or were you just caught off guard?
What I mean is if you tried to fight him ten times out of those ten times how many times do you think you’d win? If the answer isn’t nine or ten then ya I’d go a different route. [/quote]
0 is my guess (maybe 1 time… If the kid happened to be sleeping when the fight started)[/quote]
I don’t know man…never wake a sleeping giant right?[/quote]
[quote]bwbski wrote:
My Fiance and I came home tonight and found her son (18 year old scholarshipa football player DII) on the stoop. He is 4 steps up and gets into a verbal argument with the two of us, about him being locked out of the house. I inform the key is the usual place and attempt to show him. He then proceeds to push his mother, my fiance, and cold cock me in the eye and nose while i am bending over to show him where the key is. My fiance falls to the ground from his assaulting her from his elevated position. From his elevated position when he struck me with his right fist, he proceeded to break my nose and open a major cut above my left eye.
He continued to assault me on the front lawn and knock his mother down again. I managed to get away from his assault and get inside and was attempting to get his mother inside also, and in the process he forced his way inside. He then proceed to assault me again inside the kitchen and dining room.
It finally ended and the police were called by my fiance. They asked me if i wanted to press charges and at the time my adrenaline was pumping and I did not realize the extent of my injuries from his assault. At the time I said I didn’t wish to press charges. But now realizing the extent of my injures:
Broken Nose
Major Cut above left eye, needing stitches
Sprained Right Ankle and pain in my 4rd metatarsal
And a major bruise to my left hip
What should I do, Press Charges or not?[/quote]
There’s obviously something more to this than being locked out of the house. If you come here to give us this moment in time, you should give us more background.
But I’m not sure under what circumstances I’d tell you not to press charges. He’s 18, he’s a football player (mostly irrelevant) and he just can’t go around doing this without consequences (very relevant).
Press charges. What happens when he goes to college and does that to his (hypothetical) ex girlfriend and her boyfriend? He will be kicked out of school and in jail and maybe worse. What if he does that to the wrong kid and gets killed in retaliation? Better he learns his lesson now.