Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]philipmein wrote:
Kenny, maybe it would be better if you filled us in with some more information:
What does your relationship with your wife/baby momma look like?
- When was the last time you went on a date with her?
- How much time a week do you do things alone together? Even if it’s just watching TV.
- How often do you have sex? How much do you enjoy it?
What does your relationship with your “brother’s” girlfriend look like?
- How much time do you spend with her with other people?
- How much time do you spend with her alone? What kind of things do you do together?
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Havnt been on a date in about a year, every night we watch tv together but majority will be spent silent with her on her phone, we have sex pretty much every night
With this other girl obviously we don’t spend as much time together as I would like due to living with different people when we spend time alone we talk about us and try to workout how everything is going to play out in the future she talks about running away together
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If she will cheat WITH you, she will cheat ON you.
No exceptions. [/quote]
We have not had sex and iv already told her I wont fuck her untill we are both single
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]philipmein wrote:
Kenny, maybe it would be better if you filled us in with some more information:
What does your relationship with your wife/baby momma look like?
- When was the last time you went on a date with her?
- How much time a week do you do things alone together? Even if it’s just watching TV.
- How often do you have sex? How much do you enjoy it?
What does your relationship with your “brother’s” girlfriend look like?
- How much time do you spend with her with other people?
- How much time do you spend with her alone? What kind of things do you do together?
[/quote]
Havnt been on a date in about a year, every night we watch tv together but majority will be spent silent with her on her phone, we have sex pretty much every night
With this other girl obviously we don’t spend as much time together as I would like due to living with different people when we spend time alone we talk about us and try to workout how everything is going to play out in the future she talks about running away together
[/quote]
If she will cheat WITH you, she will cheat ON you.
No exceptions. [/quote]
We have not had sex and iv already told her I wont fuck her untill we are both single[/quote]
I can picture it now, Sir Kenny gazes into his lover’s eyes and says, “I won’t fuck you until we’re both single.”
Who said chivalry is dead?
[quote]BCFlynn wrote:
Run away where? Abandon your kids? And she wants you to? Great moral foundation the two of you have.
You’re getting laid almost every night, and have 2 kids. What’s the problem?
Stop wasting energy on your buddy’s girl and channel that energy toward your family.
Take your “partner” out, put the electronics away and talk over a drink. You’ll be amazed what you’ll find.
[/quote]
I’m not going to run away but I entertain the idea because it make her happy to think about it. She is sick of getting smacked around and abused, did I mention that he hits her?
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]BCFlynn wrote:
Run away where? Abandon your kids? And she wants you to? Great moral foundation the two of you have.
You’re getting laid almost every night, and have 2 kids. What’s the problem?
Stop wasting energy on your buddy’s girl and channel that energy toward your family.
Take your “partner” out, put the electronics away and talk over a drink. You’ll be amazed what you’ll find.
[/quote]
I’m not going to run away but I entertain the idea because it make her happy to think about it. She is sick of getting smacked around and abused, did I mention that he hits her? [/quote]
See my reply above. You are being used by a desperate woman as an escape vehicle. She sees you as an escape, now as a stand in emotional support, and in the future as someone who can get her out so that she can begin living a new life that will most likely not include you.
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
Thease are the reasons why I feel this is acceptable
- My relationship is going to end we have grown apart and we don’t love each other anymore
- Although everyone has tried to tell me otherwise, I generally believe that this girl is the one
- If or when my current relationship ends I will not stop providing for my kids and being a farther
- Even if me and tho other girl dont end up being together she needs to leave this drop kick
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
[/quote]
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
[/quote]
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
Would your partner say she 100% knows you aren’t the kind of guy to just run off and leave her and your kids because of some kind of grass is greener fantasy??
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
[/quote]
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
Would your partner say she 100% knows you aren’t the kind of guy to just run off and leave her and your kids because of some kind of grass is greener fantasy??[/quote]
Its not like that your twisting it…
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
[/quote]
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
Would your partner say she 100% knows you aren’t the kind of guy to just run off and leave her and your kids because of some kind of grass is greener fantasy??[/quote]
Secondly, You are 100% correct in that you do know her only you know for sure that she is the type to want to cheat. You already said you had to tell her you wouldn’t. So if she will do it do him, why wouldn’t she do it to you?
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
You think it’s only cheating when you have sex with one another…
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
[/quote]
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
Would your partner say she 100% knows you aren’t the kind of guy to just run off and leave her and your kids because of some kind of grass is greener fantasy??[/quote]
Its not like that your twisting it…[/quote]
That didn’t answer the question. Do you think your partner would say that and ultimately be miserably wrong?? And I didn’t twist anything. I merely asked you a question to point out that you really don’t know what you think you know.
[quote]magick wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
You think it’s only cheating when you have sex with one another…[/quote]
Agreed but for simplicity sake I didn’t cross that bridge.
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Thease are the reasons why I feel this is acceptable
- My relationship is going to end we have grown apart and we don’t love each other anymore
- Although everyone has tried to tell me otherwise, I generally believe that this girl is the one
- If or when my current relationship ends I will not stop providing for my kids and being a farther
- Even if me and tho other girl dont end up being together she needs to leave this drop kick[/quote]
Why did you post?
[quote]Silyak wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Thease are the reasons why I feel this is acceptable
- My relationship is going to end we have grown apart and we don’t love each other anymore
- Although everyone has tried to tell me otherwise, I generally believe that this girl is the one
- If or when my current relationship ends I will not stop providing for my kids and being a farther
- Even if me and tho other girl dont end up being together she needs to leave this drop kick[/quote]
Why did you post?[/quote]
I have no one to talk to about this
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
[/quote]
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
Would your partner say she 100% knows you aren’t the kind of guy to just run off and leave her and your kids because of some kind of grass is greener fantasy??[/quote]
Its not like that your twisting it…[/quote]
That didn’t answer the question. Do you think your partner would say that and ultimately be miserably wrong?? And I didn’t twist anything. I merely asked you a question to point out that you really don’t know what you think you know. [/quote]
No she wouldnt