You are arguing in circles with everybody… 99/100 people have told you the same thing.
If you want to continue to justify your decision to do this, NOBODY is going to change your mind.
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
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Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
Would your partner say she 100% knows you aren’t the kind of guy to just run off and leave her and your kids because of some kind of grass is greener fantasy??[/quote]
Secondly, You are 100% correct in that you do know her only you know for sure that she is the type to want to cheat. You already said you had to tell her you wouldn’t. So if she will do it do him, why wouldn’t she do it to you?
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Mutual agreement that we wouldn’t have sex we both want to like crazy the sexual tension is so frustrating
Step 1: Divorce wife/leave partner, whatever.
Step 2: Get kids settled
Step 3: New girl breaks off her relationship with your “brother”
Step 4: You smash
Step 5: Smash some more
Step 6: Lose intense feeling of “love”
Step 7: So does girl, finds new guy to “love”
Step 8: Break-up
Step 9: Start thread on T-Nation about how this woman fucked you over
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Step 1: Divorce wife/leave partner, whatever.
Step 2: Get kids settled
Step 3: New girl breaks off her relationship with your “brother”
Step 4: You smash
Step 5: Smash some more
Step 6: Lose intense feeling of “love”
Step 7: So does girl, finds new guy to “love”
Step 8: Break-up
Step 9: Start thread on T-Nation about how this woman fucked you over
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I wish I could buy stock in this happening.
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Step 1: Divorce wife/leave partner, whatever.
Step 2: Get kids settled
Step 3: New girl breaks off her relationship with your “brother”
Step 4: You smash
Step 5: Smash some more
Step 6: Lose intense feeling of “love”
Step 7: So does girl, finds new guy to “love”
Step 8: Break-up
Step 9: Start thread on T-Nation about how this woman fucked you over
[/quote]
Listen to what the Man said…
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Thease are the reasons why I feel this is acceptable[/quote]
Key words here:
feel - you aren’t thinking, you are feeling. One of the many reasons people are giving you the “you’re only 25” line.
acceptable - This implies “good enough” or “okay”. You are going to leave your kids for acceptable?
But you still have sex every night? I know plenty of married guys that would love your idea of “grown apart”.
You know this new chick will have bad breath, a hairy asshole that chafes your tongue and takes smelly shits too right?
Protip: when everyone else says A, and you are the lone “voice of reason” saying B, you need to think a lot more about whether B is in fact the correct choice.
…
It’s one thing to break it off with your spouse because it isn’t working, and then after time find someone new. But that isn’t what you’re doing.
You can do this, today, and not even have to smell her hair to do so.
Give her $500, a bus ticket and set her up with some friends in another city. Bring her to a shelter, the cops (recommend this isn’t done), shit anything. Don’t fool yourself that this is a situation you want to be involved in.
[quote]UtahLama wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Step 1: Divorce wife/leave partner, whatever.
Step 2: Get kids settled
Step 3: New girl breaks off her relationship with your “brother”
Step 4: You smash
Step 5: Smash some more
Step 6: Lose intense feeling of “love”
Step 7: So does girl, finds new guy to “love”
Step 8: Break-up
Step 9: Start thread on T-Nation about how this woman fucked you over
[/quote]
I wish I could buy stock in this happening.[/quote]
I’ll send you pictures from our 20year anniversary when it happens lol
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]UtahLama wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Step 1: Divorce wife/leave partner, whatever.
Step 2: Get kids settled
Step 3: New girl breaks off her relationship with your “brother”
Step 4: You smash
Step 5: Smash some more
Step 6: Lose intense feeling of “love”
Step 7: So does girl, finds new guy to “love”
Step 8: Break-up
Step 9: Start thread on T-Nation about how this woman fucked you over
[/quote]
I wish I could buy stock in this happening.[/quote]
I’ll send you pictures from our 20year anniversary when it happens lol
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Good luck.
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
You know this new chick will have bad breath, a hairy asshole that chafes your tongue and takes smelly shits too right?
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Quite the wordsmith, you are…
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Thease are the reasons why I feel this is acceptable[/quote]
Key words here:
feel - you aren’t thinking, you are feeling. One of the many reasons people are giving you the “you’re only 25” line.
acceptable - This implies “good enough” or “okay”. You are going to leave your kids for acceptable?
But you still have sex every night? I know plenty of married guys that would love your idea of “grown apart”.
You know this new chick will have bad breath, a hairy asshole that chafes your tongue and takes smelly shits too right?
Protip: when everyone else says A, and you are the lone “voice of reason” saying B, you need to think a lot more about whether B is in fact the correct choice.
…
It’s one thing to break it off with your spouse because it isn’t working, and then after time find someone new. But that isn’t what you’re doing.
You can do this, today, and not even have to smell her hair to do so.
Give her $500, a bus ticket and set her up with some friends in another city. Bring her to a shelter, the cops (recommend this isn’t done), shit anything. Don’t fool yourself that this is a situation you want to be involved in.
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She may have bad breath at times but she is also 10/10 cute as fuck
And I like the idea of helping her run away but she also has a child and I couldn’t go the rest of my life without seeing her again
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
She may have bad breath at times but she is also 10/10 cute as fuck
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You know that means she’s crazy or a tranny right?
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
[/quote]
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
Women in abusive relationships do this subconsciously. They fall madly in love with people who don’t treat them like their abusive partner, look for a way out and ultimately end up in the same spot they began.
You. Are. Heading. For. Trouble.
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
She may have bad breath at times but she is also 10/10 cute as fuck
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You know that means she’s crazy or a tranny right?
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She is a bit crazy at times lol I mean I know she is what people would call “damaged” but so am I
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
[/quote]
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
Women in abusive relationships do this subconsciously. They fall madly in love with people who don’t treat them like their abusive partner, look for a way out and ultimately end up in the same spot they began.
You. Are. Heading. For. Trouble. [/quote]
My biggest fear is that your right
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Thease are the reasons why I feel this is acceptable[/quote]
Key words here:
feel - you aren’t thinking, you are feeling. One of the many reasons people are giving you the “you’re only 25” line.
acceptable - This implies “good enough” or “okay”. You are going to leave your kids for acceptable?
But you still have sex every night? I know plenty of married guys that would love your idea of “grown apart”.
You know this new chick will have bad breath, a hairy asshole that chafes your tongue and takes smelly shits too right?
Protip: when everyone else says A, and you are the lone “voice of reason” saying B, you need to think a lot more about whether B is in fact the correct choice.
…
It’s one thing to break it off with your spouse because it isn’t working, and then after time find someone new. But that isn’t what you’re doing.
You can do this, today, and not even have to smell her hair to do so.
Give her $500, a bus ticket and set her up with some friends in another city. Bring her to a shelter, the cops (recommend this isn’t done), shit anything. Don’t fool yourself that this is a situation you want to be involved in.
[/quote]
She may have bad breath at times but she is also 10/10 cute as fuck
And I like the idea of helping her run away but she also has a child and I couldn’t go the rest of my life without seeing her again
[/quote]
Show me a hot looking chick and I’ll show you a guy sick of fucking her. Is your buddy the woman beater the father?
Dude, please stop with the white knight in shining armor complex. You can’t save her. Trust us.
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
We’re gettin trolled aren’t we mate
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
[/quote]
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
Women in abusive relationships do this subconsciously. They fall madly in love with people who don’t treat them like their abusive partner, look for a way out and ultimately end up in the same spot they began.
You. Are. Heading. For. Trouble. [/quote]
My biggest fear is that your right[/quote]
Now you are seeing the light, that should be your mantra…
" Because when the shine wears off your shiny new penny you will be left with a woman who doesn’t trust you because she at one time was the “other” woman, an ex that hates you, and kids that you abandoned that will probably grow up and think you are a dick after their mom gets through running you through the mud." jbpick86 is predicting your future.
usmccds423 nailed it with his "Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives. "
Man up and do the right thing for your family. You’re all they have.
Ahh fuck, cant I have my cake and eat it to 
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Didn’t you say that your buddy treated her pretty bad?? If that’s the case, just stop showing her attention and tell you cant be her emotional crutch anymore. Then watch her for a couple weeks and she will replace you with some other sap. Basically she is just looking for a vehicle out of her situation, right now she thinks its you, but if its not you she’ll just find someone else. Her “Lets run away together” plan is highly flexible in that she really doesn’t give a rats ass if its you in it or some other guy. [/quote]
Nooo its really not like thatif I stop paying her attention she wont replace me she will just go back to accepting the way he treats her[/quote]
You may be right about her going back to him, but I guarantee you she will be looking for someone else to make an easy assistant to help her escape him. You are nothing more than a means to an ends at this point.
[/quote]
Your wrong man I’m not being naive either I 100% know she isn’t like this[/quote]
Women in abusive relationships do this subconsciously. They fall madly in love with people who don’t treat them like their abusive partner, look for a way out and ultimately end up in the same spot they began.
You. Are. Heading. For. Trouble. [/quote]
My biggest fear is that your right[/quote]
I am right. You’ve got 100% T-Nation consensus and probably a thousand years of experience telling you I’m right.
But please keep us updated on how badly you fuck it up over the next few months.