You are so fucking stupid rofl.
You should definitely leave. I mean true love that silver bullet comes only once in your life right?
Here are your Top 10 reasons
- Your partner will hate you. Hell hath a woman scorned. I’m sure she’ll understand
- Your kids will be at best confused. Where’s Daddy? Why doesn’t he live with us anymore?Abandonment issues
- You will be broke. Child support x 2, worse living arrangements, won’t be able to afford the juice
- You’ll have lost your best friend. Brothers don’t screw each other over
- You won’t trust the other woman, because hey, she only cheated on my best friend because it’s me and I’m the balls.
- You’re not with her day to day, you only see her best side, what is she like in the middle of a heavy cycle, feeling miserable? You have no idea.
- You haven’t slept with her, and I advise you please don’t it will make it worse. But what if she is a starfish in bed?
- Less than 5% of all affairs turn into successful long term relationships.
- That high you get when you have a great conversation and everything clicks? That fades away too. It’s your hormones playing Jedi mind tricks.
- Your family and friends will completely support you and side with you because you deserve to be happy. Wait, what? They support my wife?
The only reason the grass is greener around the septic tank is because it’s filled with shit.
Do what you want, you’ll get caught if you keep it up. Everyone thinks they’re invincible, everyone gets caught.
Your ego is completely out of control. You really want to hurt the mother of your children who will be completely blindsided.
Get some courage and do the right thing.
[quote]Magnetic88 wrote:
the world needs more strippers.
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Agreed.
How about waiting for your blast to end before making emotional decisions like this? You sound fucking manic mate.
[quote]Stinkfist wrote:
Do NOT do anything until your brain, heart, and dick, agree on another woman.
Right now, your dick is influencing your (vulnerable) heart and they’re overriding good sense (brain). Otherwise, you wouldn’t question it.
Your 25 ffs, do you think that this the only time you’ll ever feel like this?
Your dick is running the show, make no mistake. This is only going to make your situation one big mind-fuck and your kids are going to suffer for it.
Good luck. I don’t envy you.[/quote]
So close, but I’d say its more your ovaries that are running the show. OP, as others have said, man-up, grow-up, and for fuck’s sake, stop the emotional heavy petting, alone or with your brother’s girlfriend. Until you do this, I think it is appropriate for you to only pee sitting down.
You have responsibilities to your wife, kids, and everyone else in that circle to not fuck up their lives. You may think that your “feelz” trumps that, but that’s only some stupid creeping in, ignore it. Raise a glass on a quiet night to what “might have been” and enjoy the memories if you have to, but avoid this train wreck.
As further evidence of what an awful decision this is; You may have created the only relationship thread ever on T-Nation that got everyone to agree on what you should do. It is the most incredible thing I have ever seen.
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
As further evidence of what an awful decision this is; You may have created the only relationship thread ever on T-Nation that got everyone to agree on what you should do. It is the most incredible thing I have ever seen. [/quote]
Excellent observation! op, T-Nation has spoken in one voice, go forth, deadlift, and prosper.
I still content that the price of any relationship thread should be a pic of the women involved, preferably bikini or better.
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
As further evidence of what an awful decision this is; You may have created the only relationship thread ever on T-Nation that got everyone to agree on what you should do. It is the most incredible thing I have ever seen. [/quote]
hhahahhaahahahahahahahahaha Gold Jerry this is Gold
I should of mentioned that regardless of this other girl I’m pretty sure my relationship is comming to and end
No pics you perves
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
I should of mentioned that regardless of this other girl I’m pretty sure my relationship is comming to and end [/quote]
Oh really?
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Things have been hard in our relationship for awhile now I have been working ridiculously hard to make things better and it has been working.
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Yup, sounds like it’s been working.
It’s quite clear you’re rationalizing.
I literally hate you opie.
You’re a bitch.
[quote]Magnetic88 wrote:
[quote]Yogi wrote:
Personally, I think if you are unhappy with your current partner, then leave her. Staying together for the sake of the kids’ll breed resentment which’ll end up making the kids fuck ups anyway.
If you genuinely believe your life will be better with this other girl then go for it. It’s a risk, obviously, but most things are.
You just need to make sure you provide for your kids in the same way as you would have if you stayed with their mother. Despite what Orion says, kids from divorced parents do just fine providing the parents aren’t dicks.
Basically, do what Bryan says.[/quote]
Yes a resentment filled house that is together just for the kids isn’t great, but the OP doesn’t hate his “partner”, he’s just trying to get a bigger better deal.
You know what, I say go ahead and cheat on the mother of your children. Bad fathers are how strippers are made and lord knows the world needs more strippers.
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And bukkake porn.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
As further evidence of what an awful decision this is; You may have created the only relationship thread ever on T-Nation that got everyone to agree on what you should do. It is the most incredible thing I have ever seen. [/quote]
hhahahhaahahahahahahahahaha Gold Jerry this is Gold[/quote]
Seconded. Or thirded. Or plus-whatever to how many people have agreed with this.
Kenny, maybe it would be better if you filled us in with some more information:
What does your relationship with your wife/baby momma look like?
- When was the last time you went on a date with her?
- How much time a week do you do things alone together? Even if it’s just watching TV.
- How often do you have sex? How much do you enjoy it?
What does your relationship with your “brother’s” girlfriend look like?
- How much time do you spend with her with other people?
- How much time do you spend with her alone? What kind of things do you do together?
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
As further evidence of what an awful decision this is; You may have created the only relationship thread ever on T-Nation that got everyone to agree on what you should do. It is the most incredible thing I have ever seen. [/quote]
In my 13 years here, I have never see it.
[quote]philipmein wrote:
What does your relationship with your wife/baby momma look like?
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Well for starters he refers to the mother of his children as his “partner” which is the lamest post modern horseshit ever.
[quote]philipmein wrote:
Kenny, maybe it would be better if you filled us in with some more information:
What does your relationship with your wife/baby momma look like?
- When was the last time you went on a date with her?
- How much time a week do you do things alone together? Even if it’s just watching TV.
- How often do you have sex? How much do you enjoy it?
What does your relationship with your “brother’s” girlfriend look like?
- How much time do you spend with her with other people?
- How much time do you spend with her alone? What kind of things do you do together?
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Havnt been on a date in about a year, every night we watch tv together but majority will be spent silent with her on her phone, we have sex pretty much every night
With this other girl obviously we don’t spend as much time together as I would like due to living with different people when we spend time alone we talk about us and try to workout how everything is going to play out in the future she talks about running away together
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]philipmein wrote:
Kenny, maybe it would be better if you filled us in with some more information:
What does your relationship with your wife/baby momma look like?
- When was the last time you went on a date with her?
- How much time a week do you do things alone together? Even if it’s just watching TV.
- How often do you have sex? How much do you enjoy it?
What does your relationship with your “brother’s” girlfriend look like?
- How much time do you spend with her with other people?
- How much time do you spend with her alone? What kind of things do you do together?
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Havnt been on a date in about a year, every night we watch tv together but majority will be spent silent with her on her phone, we have sex pretty much every night
With this other girl obviously we don’t spend as much time together as I would like due to living with different people when we spend time alone we talk about us and try to workout how everything is going to play out in the future she talks about running away together
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If she will cheat WITH you, she will cheat ON you.
No exceptions.
Run away where? Abandon your kids? And she wants you to? Great moral foundation the two of you have.
You’re getting laid almost every night, and have 2 kids. What’s the problem?
Stop wasting energy on your buddy’s girl and channel that energy toward your family.
Take your “partner” out, put the electronics away and talk over a drink. You’ll be amazed what you’ll find.