[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
smelling her hair again[/quote]
Is this consensual hair smelling or do you do it while she’s not paying attention?
Pics of said feemails
Do NOT do anything until your brain, heart, and dick, agree on another woman.
Right now, your dick is influencing your (vulnerable) heart and they’re overriding good sense (brain). Otherwise, you wouldn’t question it.
Your 25 ffs, do you think that this the only time you’ll ever feel like this?
Your dick is running the show, make no mistake. This is only going to make your situation one big mind-fuck and your kids are going to suffer for it.
Good luck. I don’t envy you.
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]Steel Nation wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Would be wrong for us to continue seeing each other just to see if this as good as I think it is? Keep in mind I have never sexually cheated on my partner [/quote]
Yes it would be wrong. You’re having an emotional affair. I thought only females did this, but I guess they can’t really do it on their own.
You should cease all unavoidable contact with her, immediately.[/quote]
I cant … Iv made my choice[/quote]
This right here is what makes this discussion lose/lose for anyone offering you advice. Infatuation thrives on opposition, obsession even moreso. You yourself describe what you have for this woman as an obsession. I believe this is accurate.
You “love your kids more than life itself”. In my mind there is your answer. Unfortunately, I don’t think you came looking for an honest answer. I think you came looking for permission. Or maybe just for an argument where you could rationalize a choice you’d already made.
I’m not going to try to tell you what to do, other than to go carefully and be brutally honest with yourself about the impact your choices will have on your kids. I hope you choose well, I really do.
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives.
How did you manage to fall madly in love with “your brothers” girlfriend while being married with two kids while working ridiculously hard to make things better in your current relationship? I just don’t understand how this happens.
[/quote]
Love is a fucked up thing man but thease arnt recent feels iv had them for years just always pushed it to the side[/quote]
you’re 25
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives.
How did you manage to fall madly in love with “your brothers” girlfriend while being married with two kids while working ridiculously hard to make things better in your current relationship? I just don’t understand how this happens.
[/quote]
Love is a fucked up thing man but thease arnt recent feels iv had them for years just always pushed it to the side[/quote]
you’re 25
[/quote]
Soooooo…
You are saying he is only 25?
[quote]Jewbacca wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
- Paragraphs, punctuation, and spacing are your friend.
– Mrs. J.[/quote][quote]
I share Mrs J. infatuation with paragraphs.[/quote]
But not punctuation, I see.
– Mrs. J. [/quote]
Plus, get your own login, you know you want to.
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
No man your wrong its not even about sex with this other girl I melt when I see her and I get overwhelmed with feels when I make her happy. Very much appreciate your input!! But I know the difference between love and lust my friend![/quote]
There is no difference, at least initially. “True” love is learned, and takes a long-ass time to develop (based on theories that study this shit). Divorce rates are so bloody high partially because people think the infatuation stage is genuine love when it’s not even close to the real thing. So when said stage wears off (inevitable) and people are already married, they quickly tire of one another.
UNLESS THEY’RE WILLING TO WORK FOR THEIR FUCKING MARRIAGE.
Anyways.
You’re going to fuck up not only your life, but also your wife’s and (more importantly) your children’s. But clearly you don’t care about it. So go ahead! Knock yourself out!
I know its wrong I know I’m a bad person for this
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
I know its wrong I know I’m a bad person for this[/quote]
…and, yet…
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives.
How did you manage to fall madly in love with “your brothers” girlfriend while being married with two kids while working ridiculously hard to make things better in your current relationship? I just don’t understand how this happens.
[/quote]
Love is a fucked up thing man but thease arnt recent feels iv had them for years just always pushed it to the side[/quote]
you’re 25
[/quote]
Soooooo…
You are saying he is only 25?[/quote]
25 IS only 25
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives.
How did you manage to fall madly in love with “your brothers” girlfriend while being married with two kids while working ridiculously hard to make things better in your current relationship? I just don’t understand how this happens.
[/quote]
Love is a fucked up thing man but thease arnt recent feels iv had them for years just always pushed it to the side[/quote]
you’re 25
[/quote]
Soooooo…
You are saying he is only 25?[/quote]
25 IS only 25
[/quote]
So like… 25 is 25?
Say it is not so!
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives.
How did you manage to fall madly in love with “your brothers” girlfriend while being married with two kids while working ridiculously hard to make things better in your current relationship? I just don’t understand how this happens.
[/quote]
Love is a fucked up thing man but thease arnt recent feels iv had them for years just always pushed it to the side[/quote]
you’re 25
[/quote]
Soooooo…
You are saying he is only 25?[/quote]
25 IS only 25
[/quote]
So like… 25 is 25?
Say it is not so![/quote]
Just to reiterate…
OP is only 25…
He’s really in love with his best friends girl…
It’s really love this time…
He’s 25
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives.
How did you manage to fall madly in love with “your brothers” girlfriend while being married with two kids while working ridiculously hard to make things better in your current relationship? I just don’t understand how this happens.
[/quote]
Love is a fucked up thing man but thease arnt recent feels iv had them for years just always pushed it to the side[/quote]
you’re 25
[/quote]
Soooooo…
You are saying he is only 25?[/quote]
25 IS only 25
[/quote]
So like… 25 is 25?
Say it is not so![/quote]
Just to reiterate…
OP is only 25…
He’s really in love with his best friends girl…
It’s really love this time…
He’s 25
[/quote]
Mother of God!!!
He would not act on his impulses while being 25!?!
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives.
How did you manage to fall madly in love with “your brothers” girlfriend while being married with two kids while working ridiculously hard to make things better in your current relationship? I just don’t understand how this happens.
[/quote]
Love is a fucked up thing man but thease arnt recent feels iv had them for years just always pushed it to the side[/quote]
you’re 25
[/quote]
Soooooo…
You are saying he is only 25?[/quote]
25 IS only 25
[/quote]
So like… 25 is 25?
Say it is not so![/quote]
Just to reiterate…
OP is only 25…
He’s really in love with his best friends girl…
It’s really love this time…
He’s 25
[/quote]
Your logic makes you come off as 24
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives.
How did you manage to fall madly in love with “your brothers” girlfriend while being married with two kids while working ridiculously hard to make things better in your current relationship? I just don’t understand how this happens.
[/quote]
Love is a fucked up thing man but thease arnt recent feels iv had them for years just always pushed it to the side[/quote]
you’re 25
[/quote]
Soooooo…
You are saying he is only 25?[/quote]
25 IS only 25
[/quote]
So like… 25 is 25?
Say it is not so![/quote]
Just to reiterate…
OP is only 25…
He’s really in love with his best friends girl…
It’s really love this time…
He’s 25
[/quote]
Your logic makes you come off as 24
[/quote]
Duuuudeeeeeee…
I am not saying that at 40 I have all the answers and stuff, but 25…
What do you know?
Yeah, you can tie your own shoes, and you know when to cross a street…
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives.
How did you manage to fall madly in love with “your brothers” girlfriend while being married with two kids while working ridiculously hard to make things better in your current relationship? I just don’t understand how this happens.
[/quote]
Love is a fucked up thing man but thease arnt recent feels iv had them for years just always pushed it to the side[/quote]
you’re 25
[/quote]
Soooooo…
You are saying he is only 25?[/quote]
25 IS only 25
[/quote]
So like… 25 is 25?
Say it is not so![/quote]
Just to reiterate…
OP is only 25…
He’s really in love with his best friends girl…
It’s really love this time…
He’s 25
[/quote]
Your logic makes you come off as 24
[/quote]
It’s not my logic
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Facepalm_Death wrote:
[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
Jesus Mary mother of God T-Nation is like the internet version of Day’s of Our Lives.
How did you manage to fall madly in love with “your brothers” girlfriend while being married with two kids while working ridiculously hard to make things better in your current relationship? I just don’t understand how this happens.
[/quote]
Love is a fucked up thing man but thease arnt recent feels iv had them for years just always pushed it to the side[/quote]
you’re 25
[/quote]
Soooooo…
You are saying he is only 25?[/quote]
25 IS only 25
[/quote]
So like… 25 is 25?
Say it is not so![/quote]
Just to reiterate…
OP is only 25…
He’s really in love with his best friends girl…
It’s really love this time…
He’s 25
[/quote]
Your logic makes you come off as 24
[/quote]
Duuuudeeeeeee…
I am not saying that at 40 I have all the answers and stuff, but 25…
What do you know?
Yeah, you can tie your own shoes, and you know when to cross a street…
[/quote]
Ok mate
Personally, I think if you are unhappy with your current partner, then leave her. Staying together for the sake of the kids’ll breed resentment which’ll end up making the kids fuck ups anyway.
If you genuinely believe your life will be better with this other girl then go for it. It’s a risk, obviously, but most things are.
You just need to make sure you provide for your kids in the same way as you would have if you stayed with their mother. Despite what Orion says, kids from divorced parents do just fine providing the parents aren’t dicks.
Basically, do what Bryan says.
[quote]Yogi wrote:
Personally, I think if you are unhappy with your current partner, then leave her. Staying together for the sake of the kids’ll breed resentment which’ll end up making the kids fuck ups anyway.
If you genuinely believe your life will be better with this other girl then go for it. It’s a risk, obviously, but most things are.
You just need to make sure you provide for your kids in the same way as you would have if you stayed with their mother. Despite what Orion says, kids from divorced parents do just fine providing the parents aren’t dicks.
Basically, do what Bryan says.[/quote]
Yes a resentment filled house that is together just for the kids isn’t great, but the OP doesn’t hate his “partner”, he’s just trying to get a bigger better deal.
You know what, I say go ahead and cheat on the mother of your children. Bad fathers are how strippers are made and lord knows the world needs more strippers.