Another One of Kenny's Emotional Relationship Threads

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[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Ok famalam I need multiple random advice from the internet again. So this is the run down as some may know from my last relationship thread I have been with my partner for many years we have 2 kids together, we are both 25 years old. Things have been hard in our relationship for awhile now I have been working ridiculously hard to make things better and it has been working. HOWEVER I have come to the realization that I am in love with another girl I mean fucking intensely in love!!! She knows this and she feels the same way we have been friends for almost the same time I have known my partner and she is in a relationship with a guy who is practically my older brother I mean we have been through some serious shit and I love him like a brother. So I’m laying my cards out here because I really do need help here BUT!.. I kinda think I know the answer towhat everyone is going to say so my mate who is in a relationship with this other girl I madly love has a raging drug addiction (not the kind that brings us gains!) and he treats her like shit if she leaves him it is going to crush him and he is most likely going to spiral further into his death id I leave my missus it is going to ruin my family and my kids will grow up in a broken home. Me and this other girl have not had sex or done anything in that category I have not cheated on my partner sexually. This is tearing me apart in the moat brutal way I could imagine, I love my kids more then life itself but this girl man I have never felt this way about anyone! We are both crazy in love with each other and it would turn me into a cold heartless mosnter if I cant be with her. And no my cycle is not affecting my judgment my e2 is in check and I have felt like this before I started cycling steroids. So peeps help me lol lend me some wisdom!![/quote]

  1. What is best for your children? Whatever this answer is, do that.

  2. Paragraphs, punctuation, and spacing are your friend.

– Mrs. J.

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[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
No man your wrong its not even about sex with this other girl I melt when I see her and I get overwhelmed with feels when I make her happy. Very much appreciate your input!! But I know the difference between love and lust my friend![/quote]

You’re right, it ins’t necessarily about sex. It’s about the rush this girl gives you that you’re partner no longer does. It happens in pretty much every long term relationship and if you decide to trade up it will most likely happen with this new girl too.

There’s legitimate science behind this phenomenon. [/quote]
True this is a rush its not like teenage love though I cant even pit it into words
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Teenage love, puppy dog love, infatuation, etc… It doesn’t really matter what you call it, it’s most likely not REAL love. That’s something that you develop, build, and maintain over the entirety of it’s existence. Not something that magically happens over FaceBook and the occasional cup of coffee. [/quote]
But it feels so good :([/quote]

Of course it does man. I’m not saying what you feel isn’t real. It just isn’t likely “love.” [/quote]
If this isn’t love then I have never felt love. This is the closest thing I could imagine to loving someone
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If you honestly believe that then go for it. Understand it could very easily destroy your life though. [/quote]

Not only his life…[/quote]

Yep.[/quote]
I’m being extremely selfish aren’t i
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You know, I am extremely tired of mens tendency to sacrifice their own happiness for the happines of others.

On the other hand, I subscribe to the Epicurian hedonistic notion, that happiness actually requires sacrifice.

Now, what that would ultimately come out as is, your woman better be a insatiable slut in the bedroom and suck cock like it is her job because, yes, you are sacrificing a lot.

So, my advice would be , make that sacrifice, but expect to be recompensated for it.

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[quote]Jewbacca wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Ok famalam I need multiple random advice from the internet again. So this is the run down as some may know from my last relationship thread I have been with my partner for many years we have 2 kids together, we are both 25 years old. Things have been hard in our relationship for awhile now I have been working ridiculously hard to make things better and it has been working. HOWEVER I have come to the realization that I am in love with another girl I mean fucking intensely in love!!! She knows this and she feels the same way we have been friends for almost the same time I have known my partner and she is in a relationship with a guy who is practically my older brother I mean we have been through some serious shit and I love him like a brother. So I’m laying my cards out here because I really do need help here BUT!.. I kinda think I know the answer towhat everyone is going to say so my mate who is in a relationship with this other girl I madly love has a raging drug addiction (not the kind that brings us gains!) and he treats her like shit if she leaves him it is going to crush him and he is most likely going to spiral further into his death id I leave my missus it is going to ruin my family and my kids will grow up in a broken home. Me and this other girl have not had sex or done anything in that category I have not cheated on my partner sexually. This is tearing me apart in the moat brutal way I could imagine, I love my kids more then life itself but this girl man I have never felt this way about anyone! We are both crazy in love with each other and it would turn me into a cold heartless mosnter if I cant be with her. And no my cycle is not affecting my judgment my e2 is in check and I have felt like this before I started cycling steroids. So peeps help me lol lend me some wisdom!![/quote]

  1. What is best for your children? Whatever this answer is, do that.

  2. Paragraphs, punctuation, and spacing are your friend.

– Mrs. J.[/quote]

I share Mrs J. infatuation with paragraphs.

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[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Would be wrong for us to continue seeing each other just to see if this as good as I think it is? Keep in mind I have never sexually cheated on my partner [/quote]

Emotional cheating is just as bad.

How would you feel if you knew she was spending time with another guy and felt like that about him?

Little mad maybe?

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[quote]UtahLama wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Would be wrong for us to continue seeing each other just to see if this as good as I think it is? Keep in mind I have never sexually cheated on my partner [/quote]

Emotional cheating is just as bad.

How would you feel if you knew she was spending time with another guy and felt like that about him?

Little mad maybe?[/quote]

Yup

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[quote]orion wrote:

  1. Paragraphs, punctuation, and spacing are your friend.

– Mrs. J.[/quote][quote]

I share Mrs J. infatuation with paragraphs.[/quote]

But not punctuation, I see.

– Mrs. J.

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[quote]Jewbacca wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

  1. Paragraphs, punctuation, and spacing are your friend.

– Mrs. J.[/quote][quote]

I share Mrs J. infatuation with paragraphs.[/quote]

But not punctuation, I see.

– Mrs. J. [/quote]

Of course not, pedantic yes, overly pedantic, no!

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[quote]UtahLama wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Would be wrong for us to continue seeing each other just to see if this as good as I think it is? Keep in mind I have never sexually cheated on my partner [/quote]

Emotional cheating is just as bad.

How would you feel if you knew she was spending time with another guy and felt like that about him?

Little mad maybe?[/quote]

I dunno, i cant answer this

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[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Would be wrong for us to continue seeing each other just to see if this as good as I think it is? Keep in mind I have never sexually cheated on my partner [/quote]

Yes it would be wrong. You’re having an emotional affair. I thought only females did this, but I guess they can’t really do it on their own.

You should cease all unavoidable contact with her, immediately.

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I’m going to continue seeing this girl I dont have the will power to not. call me a bad person/ farther but I need her i need more of what we have it is so good I am obsessed with her id seriously die before never seeing her smile or smelling her hair again

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[quote]Steel Nation wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Would be wrong for us to continue seeing each other just to see if this as good as I think it is? Keep in mind I have never sexually cheated on my partner [/quote]

Yes it would be wrong. You’re having an emotional affair. I thought only females did this, but I guess they can’t really do it on their own.

You should cease all unavoidable contact with her, immediately.[/quote]
I cant … Iv made my choice

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[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Truthfully I wasn’t ready for thease responses… Shit[/quote]

I’m going to guess pages 2 & 3 are unanimous the way page one is. Go with the consensus of the forum. It really will be best even if it hurts.

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[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:

[quote]Steel Nation wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Would be wrong for us to continue seeing each other just to see if this as good as I think it is? Keep in mind I have never sexually cheated on my partner [/quote]

Yes it would be wrong. You’re having an emotional affair. I thought only females did this, but I guess they can’t really do it on their own.

You should cease all unavoidable contact with her, immediately.[/quote]
I cant … Iv made my choice[/quote]

Oh for fucks sake. Why did you even post then? Have you gone and told your wife or something stupid like that?

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Much like a drunk insisting he’s OK to drive, I don’t think you’re in a position to make major life choices based upon your hormonal milieu.

http://tnation.T-Nation.com/free_online_forum/sports_training_performance_bodybuilding_gear/getting_on_the_gains_train_log

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You sound like a piece of shit and a poor excuse for a husband and a father.

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You’re a fucking hormonal mess right now - I don’t give a shit what some mail order lab says your estrogen levels are. Lift your skirt and grab your shrunken, atrophied balls and man the fuck up.

NEWSFLASH: “the feelz” are ALWAYS hormonally driven.

You are NOT in a position to be making decisions that affect the lives of your children right now!!! <<>>

Whatever stupid fantasy you have about this other chick, you need to slow your roll. I know this sounds easier said than done. But whatever accountability system you need to put in place, do it. We will help you. You came to this forum for a reason: because DEEP DOWN, you know you’re about to step on your dick. AMIRIGHT?

So you now have an opportunity to do the right thing. And we will help to hold you accountable. I will, at least. Don’t fuck up your kid’s lives over a few more inches on your arms. Find the things about the mother of your kids that made you want to be with her in the first place. You need to find that again, man. After two kids, she may not have the perfect figure anymore, but the spark will help you find a way past that.

Stop the emotional affair with your best friend’s girl. That’s fucked up on so many levels. If your friend is spiraling down due to addiction, be a fucking friend and help him out! Don’t mack on his woman! We all have choices to make in life. Crossroads. Once taken, they can’t be taken back. They define you. If you make too many fucked up decisions, they will have a synergistic effect that will take you decades to dig yourself out of. Trust me, I know.

I smell what you’re about to step in. I would invite you to take a pause. Cycle off whatever you are on, run a clean PCT and get your TPA stable. Only THEN will you be able to think clearly enough to assess this situation. But for now, JUST STOP CHASING A HORMONALLY DRIVEN FANTASY.

It is NOT real, I promise you. It’s a roller coaster of excitement and awesomeness driven by exogenous androgens. I’ve used plenty of gear and have many friends that have as well. Some of them react EXACTLY THE WAY YOU DO while they are on. They fall madly in love, fuck up whatever relationship they are in, chase a wild ride with a codependant that meets their exact level of “fucked up ness” and when they come off, they inevitably crash and burn, the relationship fizzles and they are left to reap the consequences of what they have sown.

See Dick shoot steroids
See Dick get swole
See Dick attract hawt chicks
See Dick fuck up his marriage, ruin his children and embarrass himself before his community
DON’T BE A DICK

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Good luck with allllll of that…

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Best advice I can give you: Move at least 3 states away with your family and never talk to that girl or your “brother” again. You’ll be doing everyone involved a huge favor.

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[quote]on edge wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:

[quote]Steel Nation wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
Would be wrong for us to continue seeing each other just to see if this as good as I think it is? Keep in mind I have never sexually cheated on my partner [/quote]

Yes it would be wrong. You’re having an emotional affair. I thought only females did this, but I guess they can’t really do it on their own.

You should cease all unavoidable contact with her, immediately.[/quote]
I cant … Iv made my choice[/quote]

Oh for fucks sake. Why did you even post then? Have you gone and told your wife or something stupid like that?
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He knew what he was going to do and he knew it was wrong. He just came on here hoping we would agree with his terrible decision. We didn’t.

Orion: I’ll see your Epicurus and raise you one Epictetus.