Annoyed in Mainstream Gyms

[quote]Ripsaw3689 wrote:

[quote]RATTLEHEAD wrote:

[quote]Ripsaw3689 wrote:

[quote]RATTLEHEAD wrote:
I train at home cause I got kicked out of my local gym for banging the bar too loudly into the rack when benching and dropping dumbbells after incline benching too loudly.
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That’s how dumbbells get broken. Usually the ones I want to use too. If I had a dollar for every time someone broke a dumbbell I needed to use, I would have like, $5. [/quote]

These dumbbells were the cheapish rubber ended hexagon ones? Don’t know if they are prone to breaking.

I had basically went to failure, lowered the dumbbells to stretched bicep position and dropped it two inches, aint exactly gonna make the weights disintegrate.
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Right. I’ve seen too many big assholes drop DB’s over 100 lbs from chest level and fuck them up in some way, if not completely break them.
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Ah, I was lucky if mine was 30k lol

[quote]MWP wrote:

[quote]Armored22 wrote:
Not as bad as those guys who throw their weights around and scream and grunt though in my opinion :stuck_out_tongue:
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I grew up lifting with my dad who was one of the strongest powerlifters in my hometown back in Louisiana. If you are from LA then yep, we may need to check family trees. Anyway, he belonged to a small little gym that was mostly made up of other powerlifters. I was actually scared of the place because my dad’s workout partners were freaks of nature.

However, Rule #1 was never drop weights, especially dumbells. You got one pass then the next time you were gone. There was never really any rules on grunting as some of these dudes made some noises that would impress a grizzly bear but you better be pushing obscene weight, maxing out, or having a kid to do it on a continuous basis. Grunting as you rep 135 might get some stares or your ass kicked. [/quote]

Yes and no on this.

I can see why your father’s gym has this policy. If it’s a powerlifting gym, then control of the weight from start to finish is important. And it’s equally likely that db’s were used primarily for accessory work. And the members of this gym being powerlifters, it made sense to perform db movements in such a manner that there is one or two reps left in the tank (and that energy used to return the db’s to floor, rack, etc. without much fuss).

But there are other types of lifters out there who have the experience to know just how close they can go into a set before it turns into an ugly worthless grind. Take this lifter on, say, db incline presses. It can often be safer for him (or her) to finish the last rep, lower the dbs to about shoulder level, and do a controlled drop as he guides to db’s to the floor. Anyone who has seen this done knows what I’m referring to. This can spare any potential injury to bicipital tendon among other areas.

For these types of lifters who want to expend that last bit of energy into performing one more clean rep, they need a gym that allows this.

And let’s not forget this is a bodybuilding forum. Techniques such as pre-exhaust will guarantee that someone will be using what appears to be unimpressive weight. That doesn’t mean he’s not working his ass off.

Not too long ago, I saw this guy doing spider curls with an ez bar. Maybe he wanted to use dbs but someone else had the exact weight he wanted. Maybe he wanted to use a bar. Regardless. he was wrapping up an arm session and he’s the exact type of lifter I mentioned. He does his clean reps, does a few partials, and it’s obvious to a trained set of eyes that he is doing everything possible to get to those muscle fibers. After his final partial, he does a controlled negative, and, 10-15 degrees before elbow lock out, he drops the weight to the rubber mat. He didn’t have a spotter and, for him, it was obvious that one final negative was what he deemed necessary.

By the looks he got from some of the clowns around him, you’d thought he pissed on their grandmothers’ tombstones. I simply made eye contact with him, gave him the “nice-set” nod, followed by the “aren’t-these-tourists-and-dabblers-amusing?” smile, and went about my business.

As stated earlier, I can see why your father’s gym had the no-drop rules. And I agree that most fools who drop weights do so just to look alpha. However, there’s a time and place for most things - including dropping weights.

[quote]56x11 wrote:

As stated earlier, I can see why your father’s gym had the no-drop rules. And I agree that most fools who drop weights do so just to look alpha. However, there’s a time and place for most things - including dropping weights. [/quote]

Believe me, I have seen every possible way a db can hit the ground from an elevated position. The way I am refering to is usually done on incline chest press when you basically toss them to the ground because you don’t have the gas to lower them down normally. You drop those older dbs like that on the ground and your replacing them very soon and those things aren’t cheap.

Bottom line, I guess it all depends on the kind of db’s in your gym and your gym’s policy because hell yeah, I would drop some 120’s in a heartbeat if I could.

[quote]AnytimeJake wrote:
try looking at some of this from the other side, in order to make money and keep the doors open, I have to have a gym that appeals to all walks of life not just BB’s. so I have 600 some odd members, a small percentage of them are moderatly hardcore BB’s(including me)at the end of the day they probably make up less than 10% of membership, but they acount for a 100% of my agrivation, broken equipment because of missuse or overloading,complaining about equipment and wanting naw eqip.

bigger DB’s ect,grunting and banging(scareing other members) and at the end of the day they’re the ones I have the hardest time collecting money from. Versus seniors and soccer moms, who don’t break equip. don’t complain, and who’s cheques don’t bounce. I’m in this for my passion, but I also need to feed my family, it would be easier at the end of the day to just ban all this nonsence like Planet fitness, but at the end of the day I enjoy heavy lifting myself. mabey keep some of this in mind when your bashin gym owners, our life’s would be alot easier whithout ya’s, were trying to provide a sevice. On a side note there are a mature class of lifter that gets all this, I’m not lumping all BB’s all toghter. 2cents[/quote]

Fucking deadbeat lifters!

[quote]MWP wrote:

[quote]56x11 wrote:

As stated earlier, I can see why your father’s gym had the no-drop rules. And I agree that most fools who drop weights do so just to look alpha. However, there’s a time and place for most things - including dropping weights. [/quote]

Believe me, I have seen every possible way a db can hit the ground from an elevated position. The way I am refering to is usually done on incline chest press when you basically toss them to the ground because you don’t have the gas to lower them down normally. You drop those older dbs like that on the ground and your replacing them very soon and those things aren’t cheap.

Bottom line, I guess it all depends on the kind of db’s in your gym and your gym’s policy because hell yeah, I would drop some 120’s in a heartbeat if I could. [/quote]

Great post. I believe dropping heavy is almost ALWAYS an end results. I strained my right wrist hard trying to be polite goin to failure on 130lbs inclines. Another time, I was at a local gym, and doing 135lbs shoulder presses. I brought them down as safely as possible as they thunderous hit the mat. Lisa, the owner came over and asked me passive aggressively, “Do you drop the weights Ian?” I told her, " Yes it was me Im not about to risk sprain or blowing out my rotary cuff for the sake of good manners. Unless, you’re gonna spot me down." She of course backed down respectively and laughed it off because, there’s no peaceful way to unload heavy dbs. Its not arrogance or bravado or being Alpha Male, it’s necessity.

well, if you are talking about people throwing them from up high then i understand

but if you are saying, if someone is doing flat bench and after their set they lower their arms and drop the weights… I don’t see the issue?

Shouldn’t have to do a situp just to put the DBs on the ground, when I can just drop them after a set, that’s dumb…

[quote]SavagedNatiion wrote:

[quote]MWP wrote:

[quote]56x11 wrote:

As stated earlier, I can see why your father’s gym had the no-drop rules. And I agree that most fools who drop weights do so just to look alpha. However, there’s a time and place for most things - including dropping weights. [/quote]

Believe me, I have seen every possible way a db can hit the ground from an elevated position. The way I am refering to is usually done on incline chest press when you basically toss them to the ground because you don’t have the gas to lower them down normally. You drop those older dbs like that on the ground and your replacing them very soon and those things aren’t cheap.

Bottom line, I guess it all depends on the kind of db’s in your gym and your gym’s policy because hell yeah, I would drop some 120’s in a heartbeat if I could. [/quote]

Great post. I believe dropping heavy is almost ALWAYS an end results. I strained my right wrist hard trying to be polite goin to failure on 130lbs inclines. Another time, I was at a local gym, and doing 135lbs shoulder presses. I brought them down as safely as possible as they thunderous hit the mat. Lisa, the owner came over and asked me passive aggressively, “Do you drop the weights Ian?” I told her, " Yes it was me Im not about to risk sprain or blowing out my rotary cuff for the sake of good manners. Unless, you’re gonna spot me down." She of course backed down respectively and laughed it off because, there’s no peaceful way to unload heavy dbs. Its not arrogance or bravado or being Alpha Male, it’s necessity.
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Bullseye.

Experienced lifters know that middle area in which they:

  1. first and foremost not injure themselves so they can continue to train and progress.

  2. not recklessly and unnecessarily throw things on the ground with no justification.

Re-visiting the incline db example in my prior post, there is method to bring the dbs to a shoulder level, and guide the db’s down in a controlled fall.

And people should learn situational awareness. If I see a lifter going hard (like the ones I described earlier), I am absolutely going to give him a wide berth. And I expect the same courtesy (at least from people who know better). If it’s busy/crowded and I know I’m surrounded by those who are not as experienced as they think they are (what I call the tourists/dabblers), I will give a warning and ask for extra space or do something else.

In my very first post, I stated that the quality of the gym, as long as it’s reasonably well-equipped, boils down to the management, employees, and clientele. Well, IMO, a smart owner/manager should know the difference between ‘abuse’ and ‘necessary’ in terms of how weights are handled by experienced lifters.

Now, if the owner, as in MWO’s example, wants to have a strict no-drop policy, then that’s fine - as long as the potential client is made aware of this BEFORE signing on the dotted line.

Unfortunately, I’ve too often seen owners and managers subtly show off the “serious” lifters to potential clients when giving a tour (so the gym has more street cred)…and, when these potential clients are gone, turn around and chastise these very same lifters for piddly dink reasons. If you’re going to open a first-rate coffee shop, don’t expect all your customers to order decaf.

[quote]marshaldteach wrote:
and as for grunting, wear headphones? I don’t grunt personally… I don’t go to the gym to impress others and I would be noisy if no one was there. Not my fault some people are scumbags and can’t afford headphones, or go there to talk and get butthurt once someone is making noise. Or get upset if I drop a plate on the ground. poor plate is hurt.
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You seem mad. You’re also overly defensive about being loud and dropping weights, which leads me to believe you do these things on a daily basis…

I wear earbuds playing music on max level, but when people are grunting so loud I can hear it, or dropping weights that you can feel across the gym, that’s just retarded. The ONLY time I believe is an acceptable time to drop weights is flat/incline DB bench, as you said in another post. All other times are just silly.

The reason I hate this so much is because of one guy in particular at my gym who roars when curling 30s, lets go of the weight when he’s done with tricep pressdowns (with only like 40 lbs), and basically drops the weights (even curling in standing position) at all times. He then struts around glaring at everyone, like he’s Ronnie Coleman when in fact he’s a 130 lb inbred moron.

I guess I should have made this more clear - that type of grunting and dropping weights. Last night, a kid dropped his 60s after doing a set of seated db mil press, the left db violently bounced into my right ankle and gave it a nice bone bruise. Dicks like this are the reason dropping weights are retarded in my book.

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Your post was very well put together, and I agree with it to the utmost. This last bit is what I was getting at, which, if you guys were to visit my gym, would see - little punks all trying to look alpha as you put it :slight_smile:

hey, I was simply trying to throw another perspective on here,the truth be told I have two competeing BB’s and there awesome, because they lift weights they can handle,and they’re respectfull, it’s the kids trying to mimic them that mainly cause problems. my dream was to open somthing like Metro flex, it’s just not financialy viable in a small market, there’s alot of doeshy owners out there for sure, but some of us are just trying to please everyone, and thats almost imposible. I do pride myself in haveing the most hardcore gym in my chain though LOL.

At the end of the day,generly the biggest guys are the quietest, no grunting or throwing weights, no drama, meanwhile the kids and wanna be’s are shouting at one another, throwing DB’s on the ground, heaving and jerking overloaded cable machines, they look the same year after year, but aleast all thier drama gets people to look at them, it’s not about broken weights, it’s about broken ego’s. LOL

[quote]Armored22 wrote:

[quote]marshaldteach wrote:
and as for grunting, wear headphones? I don’t grunt personally… I don’t go to the gym to impress others and I would be noisy if no one was there. Not my fault some people are scumbags and can’t afford headphones, or go there to talk and get butthurt once someone is making noise. Or get upset if I drop a plate on the ground. poor plate is hurt.
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You seem mad. You’re also overly defensive about being loud and dropping weights, which leads me to believe you do these things on a daily basis…

I wear earbuds playing music on max level, but when people are grunting so loud I can hear it, or dropping weights that you can feel across the gym, that’s just retarded. The ONLY time I believe is an acceptable time to drop weights is flat/incline DB bench, as you said in another post. All other times are just silly.

The reason I hate this so much is because of one guy in particular at my gym who roars when curling 30s, lets go of the weight when he’s done with tricep pressdowns (with only like 40 lbs), and basically drops the weights (even curling in standing position) at all times. He then struts around glaring at everyone, like he’s Ronnie Coleman when in fact he’s a 130 lb inbred moron.

I guess I should have made this more clear - that type of grunting and dropping weights. Last night, a kid dropped his 60s after doing a set of seated db mil press, the left db violently bounced into my right ankle and gave it a nice bone bruise. Dicks like this are the reason dropping weights are retarded in my book.

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haha, that sucks… i can see your POV

the only reason I get pissed is this small idiot gave me a funny look for throwing my plate near my machine (when I was gonna use it later). He was standing there socializing… and basically way too close to my machine. It’s just annoying.

my gym also has hordes of scrawny little newbies that go around and talk to each other, and stand in your way… and you have to bump them out of the way so you could put plates on your machine/whatever… annoying

a thing I really don’t like is people who stand too close to me when I’m doing DB bench. I’ve had idiots walk right next to me and start DB curling… I’m not gonna stop my set because of that, if i have to put the weight down it’s going where it would go normally. sick of idiots who do that shit.

I’m probably only loud on rack pulls really

and I don’t grunt, just make faces…

i think grunting is funny especially if they are lifting a light weight, i usually keep headphones on so I can work out and not laugh at people

@marshaldteach

Exactly, hah my bad. Now that things were clarified, we both see eye to eye on these matters. Lol @ not laughing at people, I gave up on that… Some people deserve to be laughed at openly >:D


Nearly stepped in this pile whilst getting out of my car at the gym (Kuwait). Luckily I had my workboots on.
I have absolutely no problem with steroids (it’s your own body, do whatever you like to it), but FFS show a little human decency and at least put the needles in the fucking bin!

@armored and marshalld
haha ya i no wut u guyz mean!! these small guys all over my commercial gym look like little girl. they try to be “alpha” and drop the weights but they are not alpha like me because i am big and they are small by comparison and i am bigger so more alpha haha.

addendum: i just do not understand why these little girl-men act alpha when they are clearly not alpha because i am bigger. the natural law dictates that because i am in their proximity that i assume the alpha position in the workout-group until i leave in which case the next biggest person would assume the alpha role…

[quote]Grumpig Hunt wrote:
Nearly stepped in this pile whilst getting out of my car at the gym (Kuwait). Luckily I had my workboots on.
I have absolutely no problem with steroids (it’s your own body, do whatever you like to it), but FFS show a little human decency and at least put the needles in the fucking bin![/quote]

You have got to be kidding me! There we are complaining about people leaving out or dropping dumb bells and you go and drop that pic!!

[quote]mgbyrnc wrote:
@armored and marshalld
haha ya i no wut u guyz mean!! these small guys all over my commercial gym look like little girl. they try to be “alpha” and drop the weights but they are not alpha like me because i am big and they are small by comparison and i am bigger so more alpha haha.

addendum: i just do not understand why these little girl-men act alpha when they are clearly not alpha because i am bigger. the natural law dictates that because i am in their proximity that i assume the alpha position in the workout-group until i leave in which case the next biggest person would assume the alpha role…[/quote]

I can tell how alpha you are by how big and alpha you’re telling us you are

[quote]mgbyrnc wrote:
they are not alpha like me because i am big and they are small by comparison and i am bigger so more alpha haha.
addendum: i just do not understand why these little girl-men act alpha when they are clearly not alpha because i am bigger. the natural law dictates that because i am in their proximity that i assume the alpha position in the workout-group until i leave in which case the next biggest person would assume the alpha role…[/quote]
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Good one.

i work out at home. when im away for work i look at the ol hardcore gym registry. if im stuck in a commercial gym i always have headphones on and im at war with the weight so i dont pay attention to anyone else unless they put themselves in my way. Im very considerate and dont make too much noise yes i drop anything over 130s in a controlled drop when im doing overhead. if i can find rubber 100s or 45s i put those on first for deads.

people piss me off in general so i mainly stare at the ground in between sets only to look up when its time to work. grunts and gasps come out sometimes it is what it is. i rarely have issues at the gym, only the time that a certain gym said i could bring my chains then asked me to stop a couple sets in. i finished my sets and havent looked back. i really need a leg press machine and will be adding one very shortly i have everything else i need to stay strong all over.

[quote]MattyXL wrote:
I train at a LA Fitness in Staten Island, home of the stereotypical douchebag…on the surface only.

Alot of the guys that you would probably look at as a Bro, tanning guido, is only one side of their story they are also amateur BBers, one guy I believe just received their pro-card recently. I found all of the advanced BBers to be helpful, gregarious and courteous…again you look at them and a pre-conceived notion would be typical tanned bro. I was the only PLer there and we joke about me slamming weights, making a mess of chalk and relegating me to PL corner next to the power rack…but its all in good fun. While it may be cool to say I work out at a Hardcore gym…so Im hardcore…it aint where ya from its where ya at…

I also love watching all the ass in my gym…Love people watching and I find the real douchebag element at my gym, the 19 - 22 year olds playing slap ass with each other for half repping a 265 on the bench…(yes I know there are times where full ROM has its place, but these dolts are doing so they can update their FB status).

My la fitness has a Power Rack, 2 squat racks, tons of benches and DBs up to 125…not too shabby for a commercial gym… if I need to go heavier on say DB rows, I get creative or rock Meadows Rows. I would like to train at a PL oriented gym sometimes, no doubt, but I dont think Ill ever leave my commercial gym…its just too much fun.[/quote]

I went to an LA Fitness that opened a few miles from me for about 6 months. There were definitely some monsters there and for a commercial gym, i think they have the best equipment. Tons of benches, every HS machine you can imagine, DB’s up to 125…unfortunately it was in a ghetto area though so there were LOADS of scum bags and hardasses around fucking the place up constantly.

For a while i had a workout partner who did a 2 year sentence a few years back. THREE FUCKING TIMES we were working out there and he ran into guys he knew from prison. In six months…thats not a good sign IMO.

Went back to my old private gym about 5 months ago.

What’s so hard about lowering the dumbbells to your knees? No damage to the dumbbells and no strain on your biceps.

Our very own HolyMac demonstrates:

[quote]56x11 wrote:
In my very first post, I stated that the quality of the gym, as long as it’s reasonably well-equipped, boils down to the management, employees, and clientele. Well, IMO, a smart owner/manager should know the difference between ‘abuse’ and ‘necessary’ in terms of how weights are handled by experienced lifters.

Now, if the owner, as in MWO’s example, wants to have a strict no-drop policy, then that’s fine - as long as the potential client is made aware of this BEFORE signing on the dotted line.

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You nailed it and it really does come down to the management and ultimately the kind of gym you train at. The mainstream gyms that cater to the average lifter is probably going to frown on dropping anything and that’s fine if you know that up front. Heck, placing heavy db’s under control back to the floor can sound like incoming to somebody that thinks 40’s are heavy. However, there are gonna be times that it’s just not practical to lightly place a db back on the ground (like heavy flat bench db presses where coming up to a seated position is not possible). That situation is much different than just tossing them because you are either to lazy to do it right or want everyone all the way to the front desk to know you just finished a heavy set.