Oh, I do have to say that I was invited out to eat with a group by a girl I was starting to talk to. She had already eaten as I was getting out of work or something like that. I got there and had some apps to hold me over until I got home for a real dinner. I did not offer to buy her meal. She proceeded to break off our “relationship.”
Up until that point I thought she was a cool girl with a lot to offer.
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
Oh, I do have to say that I was invited out to eat with a group by a girl I was starting to talk to. She had already eaten as I was getting out of work or something like that. I got there and had some apps to hold me over until I got home for a real dinner. I did not offer to buy her meal. She proceeded to break off our “relationship.”
Up until that point I thought she was a cool girl with a lot to offer. [/quote]
Hahahaha, she was most likely embarrassed because her friends noticed.
Most women I know will reach for the check even if we are just having a friend type of gathering (at times I get the feeling this is how they flex muscle). I must say most of these women are past 30.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
I wasn’t aware that it was now ok to expect your date to pay. It seems that women are the ones who tell us if it is ok or not.
Which is fucked up.
Women like and take full advantage of getting treated on simple dates. It has become a cultural norm…one that won’t be outdone just because one woman states she didn’t know this was happening.[/quote]
Yeah.
There’s usually never a second date if you actually expect her to pay, and that first date doesn’t end well. The girl has a lot of power.
I guess the only thing you wasted in that case was your time.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
That is professional level shit. A whole website of guys looking to sponsor pussy and women willing to give it up for free vacations and clothing sprees.
Someone has tapped into the Houston dating world and made it a career.
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Seeking arrangement is better and more established. Plenty of guys with a lot of swagger and knowledge with a bit of wealth are using it to plunder as much hot young stuff as there is without paying them allowances.
It is pretty funny seeing these whores get used with promises of allowances and the like. haha
[quote]Professor X wrote:
That is professional level shit. A whole website of guys looking to sponsor pussy and women willing to give it up for free vacations and clothing sprees.
Someone has tapped into the Houston dating world and made it a career.
[/quote]
Seeking arrangement is better and more established. Plenty of guys with a lot of swagger and knowledge with a bit of wealth are using it to plunder as much hot young stuff as there is without paying them allowances.
It is pretty funny seeing these whores get used with promises of allowances and the like. haha[/quote]
I would not do that and here is why:
Whores are some of the most honest and respectable women on this planet.
They dont pretend to have feelings they do not have, they tell you their price upfront, they aim to please in order to get a stable client base.
Now, that a large part of Western womanhood has been ruined it is downright uncivilized to fuck whores over.
You dont damage your save haven man, you just dont.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
That is professional level shit. A whole website of guys looking to sponsor pussy and women willing to give it up for free vacations and clothing sprees.
Someone has tapped into the Houston dating world and made it a career.
[/quote]
Seeking arrangement is better and more established. Plenty of guys with a lot of swagger and knowledge with a bit of wealth are using it to plunder as much hot young stuff as there is without paying them allowances.
It is pretty funny seeing these whores get used with promises of allowances and the like. haha[/quote]
I would not do that and here is why:
Whores are some of the most honest and respectable women on this planet.
They dont pretend to have feelings they do not have, they tell you their price upfront, they aim to please in order to get a stable client base.
Now, that a large part of Western womanhood has been ruined it is downright uncivilized to fuck whores over.
You dont damage your save haven man, you just dont. [/quote]
I have to agree.
Hos may be the last true lighthouse of integrity left in relationships.
My experience has been very different than what’s being expressed here (and so often in other threads as well). I’ve had a whole bunch of relationships that lasted at least 6 months so its safe to say I knew the girls really well. Not one of them ever came across to me like they wanted to be treated with gifts, dinners, vacations or anything. They all just wanted to be with me.
Maybe that’s because they knew I didn’t have much wealth or free spending money so their minds didn’t go their and maybe I wasn’t attracting the gold diggers from the start (nah that can’t be it, it must have been my good taste). I know there’s plenty of girls out there that don’t prioritize “receiving” at all. Probably most girls.
[quote]Varqanir wrote:
If I ask a lady out to dinner, I wouldn’t consider making her pay for her food. It just doesn’t seem right. And no, there’s no implicit expectation of sex in return: there is a certain inherent satisfaction in providing something for someone that you care about, and as long as nobody feels taken advantage of, or an obligation unfairly put on them, then I don’t see the harm.
Of course, I also open doors for women and offer to carry heavy stuff for them so I suppose that makes me a caveman.
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I’m pretty much exactly the same. I’m a younger guy, but definitely the same, and in particular I very much enjoy providing something for someone I care about. No ulterior motives for me. I don’t see why there needs to be really (of course, this is distinct from me saying I don’t know why they exist or why the ritual dance exists).
I think this kind of deal is kind of lame but for the sake of discussion…
If you are going to pay for a relationship, why not just go to a foreign country for that? Equally attractive girls but cheaper and less high maintenance.
[quote]DN90 wrote:
If you are going to pay for a relationship, why not just go to a foreign country for that? Equally attractive girls but cheaper and less high maintenance.
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Absolutely. This is the philosophy of the multinational company: outsourcing to foreign countries will provide you with higher-quality workers at a lower price, with more favorable laws and fewer labor disputes.
[quote]Varqanir wrote: A member of the Bulgarian labor force
[quote]DN90 wrote:
If you are going to pay for a relationship, why not just go to a foreign country for that? Equally attractive girls but cheaper and less high maintenance.
[/quote]
Absolutely. This is the philosophy of the multinational company: outsourcing to foreign countries will provide you with higher-quality workers at a lower price, with more favorable laws and fewer labor disputes.
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PROFIT!!![/quote]
haha right!
I should point out that the girl in that pic is Dominican, but that doesn’t hurt the overall point.