[quote]Alpha wrote:
pjlife: Thank for the kind words man! Well man, I think mental toughness needs to be worked out just the same as a muscle. Start out small and build up tolerance as you go along. Don’t think for a second that you are unique in feeling that way when lifting gets tough. Every single person goes through the same feelings, it is just what you decide to do with those feelings that matters. Daily I feel as if things are heavier than they should be, something on my body is too hurt to train and there never seems to be enough oxygen in the room. There have been people in my gym who have had literal anxiety attacks during a workout because they didn’t feel like they could get enough oxygen. Feeling overwhelmed is a very normal feeling, but if you listen to those feelings, you will never get to where you want to be. It is all about pushing just a little bit longer than you want to, or heavier than you want to, surprising yourself with he result and then pushing a little bit further into the red next time.
I also like to set up challenges pretty regularly that push me to a different level so that when things get bad in a normal workout I am able to recognize the feelings and put things in perspective. Things like a 10 Minute Plank. Or a mile long farmer’s walk or Weighted lunges for a mile. I also like to restrict my breathing at times and perform tabatas with a mouthful of water. Things like these have really helped me have milestones to look back upon and draw from those experiences so that normal things do not do not seem so bad.
I also have made it a point to make those feelings and negative self talk so repugnant in my mind that when they arise, I view them as a line in the sand that I have to cross. I make it a point to push twice a hard when my mind wants to quit as a form of punishment. I HATE weakness and a victim mindset. When I start feeling sorry for myself I will intentionally make things much harder just to prove my thoughts wrong. It is like I have two personalities that battle constantly. But just like all things in life. Whichever one you feed more is the one that grows stronger. I just make it a point to always force feed the stronger part of myself. Hopefully one day the stronger side of me will just eat the weaker one…
I hope that helps you out man. Those are just a few things that have helped me along the way.[/quote]
He Alpha, I just subbed a week ago on your log, and thruth bombs are dropping already! LoRez mentioned you, your a beast with great goals I’m into too.
Pushing yourself hard in times of trouble is probaly the hardest thing that’s around, harder than most people will ever do in their lives voluntary!
Somethings you listed, like tabata’s with water in your mouth or 10 min planks are too much for my stomach, but I will push myself definately harder after these words.
Your right, victims are the worst. It’s more of a mindset than something different. There are just facts, and some will make life suck donkey nuts, but thats all it they are, cold facts.
I thought to myself a few weeks ago: there are 2 kinds of people who face great adversity: victims and problem solvers. Maybe give that a think.
I overheard you like to read a 100 books a year, awesome objective!
Maybe you would like some suggestions of artworks, not all books, that changed my life (I’m pretty young though, and pretty much a geek, maybe it doesn’t appeal you):
-The Harry Potter series: the books offer more. Probably the best coming-of-age books/movies I ever read tillt this point. Rowling makes everybody grow up in one rich environment chockfull of intertextuality. You won’t even notice the slow aging of the characters, very crafty done.
-The Secrets of the Immortal Nicholas Flamel: Also a series. Mythology overkill, makes me bounce around like I had 3 lbs of sugar and a marriage that day. Creative use of history and mythology to make a parallel world.
-Percy Jackson series (and heroes of olymipus, sequel series): Everything I said about Nicolas Flamel but kicked into overdrive. Some awesome concepts are implemented in the new series about the difference between Roman and Greek paradigms. Pretty childish at times tho.
-The Avatar series(Legend of Aang is to childish yet highly praised, Legend of Korra is far more intresting in both moral questions and politics): Especially Korra, great way of displaying real problems in a fake world. Artwork is incredible, plot , timing and humor ripen when the series carry on. All episodes are online. Overcoming adversity is one of the main theme’s. If you decide to give it a try, watching the legend of aang first gives far bigger emotional investment in the later series.
This series (Legend of Aang) got me intrested in martial arts and strenght training to begin with haha:)
That’s probabely the biggest influence from clearly indentifiable sources of media I had. I was mostly in my late childhood, pre-teens, teens when I watched/read this stuff, so keeping it in perspective would be a good thing.
Live Prosperous, bro 