Advice About Ex....This Is Different

[quote]Steel Nation wrote:
She is not your problem anymore, and you’ve clearly spent far too much time and energy on this. Pull the fucking band-aid off already and stop all contact with her immediately.[/quote]

Yes.

And stop assuming that logic and level-headed reasoning are even remotely applicable here.

Dead serious.

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
I just want this to be clear to everyone…IF, IF I’m going to get my ex back it’s going to be because…[/quote]

I’d argue that as long as you’re carrying around this mindset, getting back together cannot actually happen.

[quote]chillain wrote:

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
I just want this to be clear to everyone…IF, IF I’m going to get my ex back it’s going to be because…[/quote]

I’d argue that as long as you’re carrying around this mindset, getting back together cannot actually happen.
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Well she was “influenced” by her POS girlfriends and her POS mother.

More likely than not, that means she is a POS.

Also a homewrecker, an unabashed sloar and probably lowlife scum.

Mebbe, he could use that energy for learning mechatronics, which I hear is the way of the future, or create a call girl ring or take up gardening?

She is a whore, lets just let go of her, shall we?

Should make the same noise too!

[quote]orion wrote:
Mebbe, he could use that energy for learning mechatronics, which I hear is the way of the future, or create a call girl ring or take up gardening?[/quote]
Mechatronic call girls.

[quote]orion wrote:

Well she was “influenced” by her POS girlfriends and her POS mother.

More likely than not, that means she is a POS.

Also a homewrecker, an unabashed sloar and probably lowlife scum.

Mebbe, he could use that energy for learning mechatronics, which I hear is the way of the future, or create a call girl ring or take up gardening?

She is a whore, lets just let go of her, shall we?[/quote]

Mebbe she had great fake tits, fantastic ass and abs, and sucked his cock like it was an oxygen tube in a depressurized plane at 26,000 feet.

Such women are hard to let go, no matter how skanky.

No that I know anything about such things.

[quote]chillain wrote:

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
I just want this to be clear to everyone…IF, IF I’m going to get my ex back it’s going to be because…[/quote]

I’d argue that as long as you’re carrying around this mindset, getting back together cannot actually happen.
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Just out of curiosity, why’s that?

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:

[quote]chillain wrote:

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
I just want this to be clear to everyone…IF, IF I’m going to get my ex back it’s going to be because…[/quote]

I’d argue that as long as you’re carrying around this mindset, getting back together cannot actually happen.
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Just out of curiosity, why’s that?[/quote]

You look thirsty pining over someone who thinks the grass is greener somewhere else.

Why are you fucking up this guys situation?

Has it ever crossed you mind, OP, that maybe this guy, your ex, and his wife(-ish) are actually all dating each other and your ex doesn’t want to crush you by telling you the truth?

Hell, who even says anyone is cheating at all? Maybe the dude is casually dating two different women at the same time as there are no strings attached.

Remember you’re getting information through other people so you and they have no idea the details of said relationship.

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:

I care very deeply for her, and her for me…it just didn’t work out. Chalk it up to timing, shitty single girlfriend’s (and their shitty single advice, and one hell of a cancerous life sucking thundercunt mother.

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Call me Quasimodo, but I’ve a hunch that they prefer Mr. POS to you.

[quote]MaximusB wrote:

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:

[quote]chillain wrote:

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
I just want this to be clear to everyone…IF, IF I’m going to get my ex back it’s going to be because…[/quote]

I’d argue that as long as you’re carrying around this mindset, getting back together cannot actually happen.
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Just out of curiosity, why’s that?[/quote]

You look thirsty pining over someone who thinks the grass is greener somewhere else.

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Exactly.

Any continuing interest you display will come off as… unattractive. At best.

If she’s an idiot enough to not to pay attention and listen then she deserves whatever she gets. You can’t talk reason to a woman. Period.

Man, if a “lengthy” relationship is 1 year and 3 months, what’s a short relationship?

I’m going to make an educated guess and say that there’s an incredibly good probability that she was the one who dumped you. Dude, it wasn’t that long of a relationship. More to the point, it’s been 9 fucking months since and she still hasn’t reconsidered. Why would she start now, especially since she’s banging some fresh meat.

Pursuing her for 9 months following the break-up is the epitome of neediness. The only way you’ll ever see her lady bits again is as a possible revenge fuck when her new beau pisses her off. I’d say you should cut your losses and preserve your dignity, but I think the dignity ship sailed a long time ago.

Sorry bud, but you need some tough love right now.

[quote]theBeth wrote:
You can’t talk reason to a woman. Period.[/quote]

Must… say… nothing…

She deserves to be treated exactly the way she lets herself be treated. Consider yourself fortunate you escaped this hornets nest. Always remember, if women didn’t have pussies, there’d be bounties on the sons-a-bitches.