Hey fellas sorry I haven’t replied sooner, I’ve been really busy with work lately (still found time to work out though!)
For the most part I’ve found everyone’s comments to be encouraging, I guess I just have to realise that this is a long term thing and that results dont come overnight. Thanks for the encouragement!
Quite a few people asked me how I train so I’ll detail exactly what I do in a typical week:
SUNDAY:
bench press 5 sets
incline bench press 2 sets
dumbbell flat bench 1 set
pullups 5 sets
lat pulldown 2 sets
cable row 2 sets
shrugs 2 sets
forearm work
TUESDAY:
overhead press 5 sets
rear delt raises 5 sets
lateral raise 2 sets
skull crushers 2 sets
dumbell kickbacks 1 set
cable pushdown 2 sets
pullups 2 sets
forearm work
THURSDAY:
dumbbell curls 3 sets
barbell curl 1 set
hammer curl 1 set
shrugs 2 sets
deadlifts 6 sets
pullups 2 sets
forearm work
FRIDAY:
overhead press 5 sets
rear delt raises 5 sets
lateral raises 2 sets
squats 7 sets
leg press or lunges 3 sets
WHY DO I TRAIN LIKE THIS?
-i’ve found that back, forearms and traps respond best to really high frequency
-i have shoulder issues, and have found that the only thing that keeps them working well is stretching every morning and training them at least 2x week
-i get crazy DOMS in the legs this way and they’re not fully healed again til the next wednesday (they are trained thurs or friday), so i can only train them once a week
-i do a total of 5 sets for triceps and 5 sets for biceps in a typical week. any more than this and i feel like they are overtrained.
-i never gave much of a s**t about calves, maybe one day i will train them, who knows.
—TO BE HONEST, I DON’T REALLY WANT ANY ADVICE ON HOW I TRAIN, IT’S WHAT WORKS FOR ME AND I SIMPLY PUT IT DOWN BECAUSE QUITE A FEW PEOPLE ASKED ME ABOUT IT—
WHAT DO I EAT IN A TYPICAL DAY?
—wake up—
protein shake with a banana, 10 scrambled eggs (3 yolks), 3 slices brown bread, glass of milk, cup of coffee, 1 whole fish, creatine
—train—
large beef or chicken curry with brown rice or wholewheat pasta, can of tuna, pint of milk, creatine
—later—
smoothie: protein powder, milk, 1 banana, oatmeal, ice
—later—
big bag of nuts
MACROS:
4100 calories, 355g protein, 224g carbs, 198g fat
HOW CAN YOU HELP ME?
-i guess by analysing my diet, lately i’ve kind of ditched the whole idea of eating every 2 hours and 30+g protein with every meal and all that, mainly due to reading up on intermittent fasting. i’ve kind of just figured if i get the right amount of macros in at the end of the day then surely the results will follow. do you agree with this?
-i have 2 more years of study to go before i enter the big bad world, so i plan to make the most of them. do you think i could potentially reach 240LBS with a similar bf% in that time?
-i’ve gotten to know myself and my habits and found that if i overthink my diet then i end up completely derailing and making zero progress. my current approach is “this is the pile of food for today. by the time you go to sleep it should all be gone.” however that pile of food is always the same, every day, it is listed above. aside from that i’m not too strict on when i eat, meal times etc, although i generally try to lean towards carbs+ protein in the morning and early afternoon, and fat+protein in the late afternoon /evening. i know this method will stop me from derailing, so should i just roll with it?
CONCLUSION:
thanks to everyone whos posted so far. generally speaking this is a diet/motivation/how to stay on track thread, so i have to say a special thanks to njrusmc for his post, but feel free to chime in about anything at all. I am in your debt fellas 
-IrishOak