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[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]ZEB wrote:

http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/docs/FastFacts-MSM-FINAL508COMP.pdf

I know the above is not something you’ll find out watching “Will & Grace” or anywhere out of the mainstream liberal media. They want you to think that there is no danger at all from homosexual behavior. But darn those pesky facts, they just keep getting in the way of their dream world.
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I read the quote and it is a terrible thing. However, I don’t understand why it’s in a government’s best interest to deny a right to a group of individuals when some members of said group may engage in reckless behavior unrelated to the right being disputed. It’s akin to denying the right of goverment-recognized marriage to a hetero couple because straight people die in skydiving accidents in a greater proportion than their share of the overall population would suggest.

What I take from the CDC site is that gay and bisexual men need to either practice safer sex or abstain lest they infect themselves.

In neither case does the government have a compelling case to withold recognition of a civil union.
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This^ is an excellent post.

[quote]Dustin wrote:

[quote]ZEB wrote:
Yea, who cares about the fabric of society, and a 5000 year old institution? And who cares how messed up the kids will be after witnessing who knows what for 18 years? And what’s the difference if we promote a lifestyle that has the single highest death, disease and suicide rate in the world?

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Yes, allowing a minority segment of the population to marry is going to destroy the fabric of society…and cause a disturbance in the force, space time continuum, or something even comparatively less important, my marriage. Yes, this is true Zeb, your marriage (the sanctity of it) is now tarnished.

I’m here for you if you need someone to talk to.

Just as a side note, I love seeing the “limited government” conservatives lose their mind when the topic of gay marriage pops up.

[/quote]

Hey Dustin good to hear from you buddy, what kept you from posting sooner on this thread? I know how you like to throw all that real world experience around. Anyway how old are you now? 23, 24? Hmm, no younger I think. Anyway, you’re getting to be a real world expert huh? Well good for you.

Maybe you can help out on this thread with some clarification.

When you’re talking about a “minority segment” of the population, are you referring to those who would marry a sibling, polygamists, or homosexuals? They are all consenting adults. Let’s see, no animals, or children involved, so why not, right? Just where does someone of your youth, inexperience and liberalism draw the line? I mean we don’t want to offend anyone right? We must be inclusive and sanction every depravity that we can think of, right Dustin? Isn’t that the way your liberal professors explained it?

Now make sure that you get right back to me with those answers. We all want to hear how a young enlightened person such as yourself would decide on these important matters.

:slight_smile:

By the way “conservative” means to “conserve.” I know that’s probably something you’ve never heard before so just take some time and try to drink it in.

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

In neither case does the government have a compelling case to withold recognition of a civil union.
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Nor is there a compelling case to sanction such an abstract idea.

[quote]ZEB wrote:

[quote]Dustin wrote:

[quote]ZEB wrote:
Yea, who cares about the fabric of society, and a 5000 year old institution? And who cares how messed up the kids will be after witnessing who knows what for 18 years? And what’s the difference if we promote a lifestyle that has the single highest death, disease and suicide rate in the world?

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Yes, allowing a minority segment of the population to marry is going to destroy the fabric of society…and cause a disturbance in the force, space time continuum, or something even comparatively less important, my marriage. Yes, this is true Zeb, your marriage (the sanctity of it) is now tarnished.

I’m here for you if you need someone to talk to.

Just as a side note, I love seeing the “limited government” conservatives lose their mind when the topic of gay marriage pops up.

[/quote]

Hey Dustin good to hear from you buddy, what kept you from posting sooner on this thread? I know how you like to throw all that real world experience around. Anyway how old are you now? 23, 24? Hmm, no younger I think. Anyway, you’re getting to be a real world expert huh? Well good for you.

Maybe you can help out on this thread with some clarification.

When you’re talking about a “minority segment” of the population, are you referring to those who would marry a sibling, polygamists, or homosexuals? They are all consenting adults. Let’s see, no animals, or children involved, so why not, right? Just where does someone of your youth, inexperience and liberalism draw the line? I mean we don’t want to offend anyone right? We must be inclusive and sanction every depravity that we can think of, right Dustin? Isn’t that the way your liberal professors explained it?

Now make sure that you get right back to me with those answers. We all want to hear how a young enlightened person such as yourself would decide on these important matters.

:slight_smile:

By the way “conservative” means to “conserve.” I know that’s probably something you’ve never heard before so just take some time and try to drink it in.

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Conservative also means to carry on the torch and not to pray to its ashes.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]ZEB wrote:

[quote]Dustin wrote:

[quote]ZEB wrote:
Yea, who cares about the fabric of society, and a 5000 year old institution? And who cares how messed up the kids will be after witnessing who knows what for 18 years? And what’s the difference if we promote a lifestyle that has the single highest death, disease and suicide rate in the world?

[/quote]

Yes, allowing a minority segment of the population to marry is going to destroy the fabric of society…and cause a disturbance in the force, space time continuum, or something even comparatively less important, my marriage. Yes, this is true Zeb, your marriage (the sanctity of it) is now tarnished.

I’m here for you if you need someone to talk to.

Just as a side note, I love seeing the “limited government” conservatives lose their mind when the topic of gay marriage pops up.

[/quote]

Hey Dustin good to hear from you buddy, what kept you from posting sooner on this thread? I know how you like to throw all that real world experience around. Anyway how old are you now? 23, 24? Hmm, no younger I think. Anyway, you’re getting to be a real world expert huh? Well good for you.

Maybe you can help out on this thread with some clarification.

When you’re talking about a “minority segment” of the population, are you referring to those who would marry a sibling, polygamists, or homosexuals? They are all consenting adults. Let’s see, no animals, or children involved, so why not, right? Just where does someone of your youth, inexperience and liberalism draw the line? I mean we don’t want to offend anyone right? We must be inclusive and sanction every depravity that we can think of, right Dustin? Isn’t that the way your liberal professors explained it?

Now make sure that you get right back to me with those answers. We all want to hear how a young enlightened person such as yourself would decide on these important matters.

:slight_smile:

By the way “conservative” means to “conserve.” I know that’s probably something you’ve never heard before so just take some time and try to drink it in.

[/quote]

Conservative also means to carry on the torch and not to pray to its ashes.
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Hey, orion welcome to the fray. All we need is forlife and we’ve assembled the old pro/anti gay marriage club. Of course there are some new members just dying to get in.

Here you go my friend:

Conservative: Disposed to maintain the status quo.

[quote]ZEB wrote:

Here you go my friend:

Conservative: Disposed to maintain the status quo.

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That becomes a problem when the status quo stinks.

[quote]ZEB wrote:

Hey Dustin good to hear from you buddy, what kept you from posting sooner on this thread? I know how you like to throw all that real world experience around. Anyway how old are you now? 23, 24? Hmm, no younger I think. Anyway, you’re getting to be a real world expert huh? Well good for you.
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Oh, hai Zeb! I couldn’t post anything cereal until you gave me something to work with. And you came through, as always with overly sensationalized anti-gay rhetoric.

Yes, I’m only 17 Zeb, with zero real world experience. Like that Ryan McCarter dood has more life experience than I. That is how wet behind the ears I am.

I was referring to homosexuals. That is the topic of the thread.

I’m 17 Zeb and haven’t graduated high school yet, but I’m sure when I get to college my professors will indeed explain it in that exact manner.

But that’s cool that you think two gay (consenting adults) people who love each other entering into a relationship together (marriage) is depravity.

Enlightened maybe, tolerant and pro liberty, yes.

:slight_smile:

You’d be better off to say that you oppose gay marriage for religious reasons. I can respect that. But to try and argue that gay marriage is somehow going to destroy the US and A makes no sense at all.

[quote]ZEB wrote:

Hey, orion welcome to the fray. All we need is forlife and we’ve assembled the old pro/anti gay marriage club. Of course there are some new members just dying to get in.

[/quote]

Where is that bigot Troll28 at? I loved that guy.

No homo.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]ZEB wrote:

Here you go my friend:

Conservative: Disposed to maintain the status quo.

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That becomes a problem when the status quo stinks.

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“We have remarked that one reason offered for being a progressive is that things naturally tend to grow better. But the only real reason for being a progressive is that things naturally tend to grow worse. The corruption in things is not only the best argument for being progressive; it is also the only argument against being conservative. The conservative theory would really be quite sweeping and unanswerable if it were not for this one fact. But all conservatism is based upon the idea that if you leave things alone you leave them as they are. But you do not. If you leave a thing alone you leave it to a torrent of change. If you leave a white post alone it will soon be a black post. If you particularly want it to be white you must be always painting it again; that is, you must be always having a restoration.” G.K. Chesterton

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]ZEB wrote:

http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/docs/FastFacts-MSM-FINAL508COMP.pdf

I know the above is not something you’ll find out watching “Will & Grace” or anywhere out of the mainstream liberal media. They want you to think that there is no danger at all from homosexual behavior. But darn those pesky facts, they just keep getting in the way of their dream world.
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I read the quote and it is a terrible thing. However, I don’t understand why it’s in a government’s best interest to deny a right to a group of individuals when some members of said group may engage in reckless behavior unrelated to the right being disputed. It’s akin to denying the right of goverment-recognized marriage to a hetero couple because straight people die in skydiving accidents in a greater proportion than their share of the overall population would suggest.

What I take from the CDC site is that gay and bisexual men need to either practice safer sex or abstain lest they infect themselves.

In neither case does the government have a compelling case to withold recognition of a civil union.
[/quote]

I’m just going to say straw man and maybe someone will explain it to you if you do not understand.

[quote]brnforce wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:

[quote]ZEB wrote:

http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/docs/FastFacts-MSM-FINAL508COMP.pdf

I know the above is not something you’ll find out watching “Will & Grace” or anywhere out of the mainstream liberal media. They want you to think that there is no danger at all from homosexual behavior. But darn those pesky facts, they just keep getting in the way of their dream world.
[/quote]

I read the quote and it is a terrible thing. However, I don’t understand why it’s in a government’s best interest to deny a right to a group of individuals when some members of said group may engage in reckless behavior unrelated to the right being disputed. It’s akin to denying the right of goverment-recognized marriage to a hetero couple because straight people die in skydiving accidents in a greater proportion than their share of the overall population would suggest.

What I take from the CDC site is that gay and bisexual men need to either practice safer sex or abstain lest they infect themselves.

In neither case does the government have a compelling case to withold recognition of a civil union.
[/quote]

This^ is an excellent post. [/quote]

No it’s not, it’s a logical fallacy, unless you mean this logical fallacy is a good fallacy, then sure you maybe correct, but I’ve still seen better.

[quote]ZEB wrote:
[…]There’s nothing better than when the politically correct left sees facts that do not align with their core, politically correct, beliefs.

These facts are fresh from the CDC web site:

“SM (men who have sex with men) account for nearly half of the more than one million people living with HIV in the U.S. (48%, or an estimated 532,000 total persons).”

Gee I wonder how that happened? It couldn’t be from having anal intercourse. Must be that they also belong to an every other wednesday night basketball league and the floors are filled with HIV, yea that’s it.

More politically incorrect, but factually accurate information from the CDC:

“MSM (men who have sex with men) account for more than half of all new HIV infections in the U.S. each year (53%, or an estimated 28,700 infections).”

“While CDC estimates that MSM (men who have sex with men) account for just 4 percent of the U.S. male population aged 13 and older, the rate of new HIV diagnoses among MSM in the U.S. is more than 44 times that of other men (range: 522â??989 per 100,000 MSM vs. 12 per 100,000 other men).”

“MSM (men who have sex with men) is the only risk group in the U.S. in which new HIV infections are increasing. While new infections have declined among both heterosexuals and injection drug users, the annual number of new HIV infections among MSM has been steadily increasing since the early 1990s.”

http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/docs/FastFacts-MSM-FINAL508COMP.pdf

I know the above is not something you’ll find out watching “Will & Grace” or anywhere out of the mainstream liberal media. They want you to think that there is no danger at all from homosexual behavior. But darn those pesky facts, they just keep getting in the way of their dream world.[/quote]

No one disputes the figures - HIV hasn’t had the impact on the US as was originally feared, as it was pretty much contained in the original group from which the first patients came. Prevention and information have achieved what they could, and since the 90s basically the new infection rates have been stable, although they had to be corrected upwards as the original estimates were set too low.

What I dispute now is that the CDC proclaims causality between homosexual contact and HIV infection. That sounds counterintuitive at first, but let me explain: while there is an obvious correlation (historically easily explained) of a higher prevalence of HIV amongst MSM, the cause for higher new infection rates is given as risk behaviour - which in itself is independent of sexual orientation. Unprotected anal sex is as risky for heterosexual as for homosexual partners, as is intravenous drug use with needle sharing, etc.

The question that comes up now, is what tends to get people to display these risk behaviours - and here’s what’s interesting; and if you’d read a little bit further in your own source, you would have found factors that increase the risk:

  • high prevalence: this is a no brainer - if a population has a high incidence already, it’s more likely to get infected; especially with a as long an incubation period as with HIV/AIDS; to summarise, there will always be a higher infection rate among MSM
  • ignorance of HIV status: a HIV infection may lead to first symptoms more than 10 years later; many people don’t know their status as they don’t understand the concept or don’t have appropriate access to information
  • complacency about risk: this is where the effectiveness of prevention and therapies really turn out to deliver a pyrrhic victory - people are a lot less concerned than they should be
  • social discrimination and cultural issues: this is includes being surrounded by an environment that makes it harder to access prevention and health care measures due to their surroundings (the CDC explicitly mentions homophobia)
  • substance abuse: not much to be added

Now let’s summarise this a bit - the above factors play a role in increasing risk factors, and this leads to a rather unsettling set of observations. Besides the first one, they all tend to be significantly more prevalent in poor segments of the population. Doesn’t seem relevant? Check this out: http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/surveillance/resources/other/poverty.htm
They even have pretty cool poster which explains the significantly increased prevalence in US poverty areas, which are with regards to HIV infections on par with Ethiopia and Angola. If you now go for the same dataset used for the fact sheet you quoted (which I understand is the basis of mine as well), the significantly highest number of new infections occur among black people in the US. http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/surveillance/incidence.htm

Does this happen because they are black? No, that’s correlation, not causation - it’s because the black population in the US tends to be significantly poorer than the white population, and this contributes (as above) to prevalence of risk behaviours. Following your own source again, at the bottom of page 2, there is an especially high infection rate of black young MSM, who don’t know their status (and have difficulty accessing appropriate health information). http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/docs/FastFacts-MSM-FINAL508COMP.pdf

This is to illustrate what the CDC identifies as causation, and why its preventative measures tend to focus not on reducing homosexual behaviour, but risk behaviours - and to point out to the inequalities which promote them. It’s not - as has already been pointed out because it would be un-PC - but because this is where the real battle against HIV is fought. Not too dissimilar from the rest of the world, I dare say.

Do MSM engage in risk behaviours? Yes. Men in generally do so more than women, but what’s more important is that socio-economic and cultural factors play a huge role is excacerbating the risk behaviours which lead to these figures. The disease got into the US via the homosexual community - and it has thankfully not spread as far as it has if it went another route. But transmission is not caused by the homosexual nature of the contact - it is caused by risk behaviours which lie not in the sexual orientation, but in the environment which foster them. Blaming MSM for the spread of HIV in the US is shortsighted at best, negligent and dangerous at worst. The CDC recognises that, and makes its recommendations accordingly - which is why they never discourage homosexual contact per se - but focus on the risk behaviours. Anything else would be blaming the victims. Now I know this is easier, but also simply irrational.

Not so many hours on my part - just not enough people to do it.

Makkun

We heteros have some things that are sacred to us. Why do gays have to be such shitholes that they have to intrude on our culture?

Gay culture, in fact all cultures, are sacrosanct, except for normal heteros who are to be fucked with at every opportunity.

We tried to accomodate gays and other such perversions by giving you civil unions. You took that as a sign of weakness and that now you can crush ALL of our traditions. Its never enough for you homosexual perverts!

Don’t be surprised that, if you keep poking a lion with a stick, that the lion finally tires of you and bites off your arm. Dumb fucks…

You can take issue with the CDC, but in all reality, unsafe homosexual sex causes a number of physical disease’s. I just can’t say it any clearer than that and you can’t really successfully deny that.

[quote]makkun wrote:
ZEB wrote:

Do MSM engage in risk behaviours? Yes.[/quote]

As I’ve posted repeatedly, it almost doesn’t matter how much money, or time is committed to informing the homosexual community regarding the risks of HIV, nothing prevents them from having multiple partners and taking multiple risks with those partners. I have a study somewhere pointing out that San francisco spent something like 5 million dollars above and beyond what they usually spend in “educating the gay community.” Apparently the homosexuals laughed at this as HIV actually increased that same year and the year after. Here’s a clue, they know what they are doing is wrong and they still do it. Simple. It’s not about education, it’s about the will to do the right thing.

Yea, this has been discussed many times. When there are two males who are willing there is no one to say no thanks. And, two males are usually willing, hence the problem.

True, and the homosexual community continues to spread this horrible disease by simply not caring about the people whom they are having sex with. It’s all about enjoying the moment and not really caring about the other person. Nice huh?

Kind of funny if it were not so sad. Unprotected anal sex spreads HIV. Simple and irrefutable. That is pretty much the end of the story if we were just looking for the truth. But, truth is lost among the politically correct mainstream liberal media which perpetuates the lie of the happily coexisting homosexual couple. Okay, here it comes, the exception to the rule, not the actual rule (not from you Makkun): “I have a neigbor who has lived with his partner for 24 straight years and I have followed them 24/7 and never once have either cheated.” Yawn, that’s nice, now tell the other 97.8% that they should do the same thing-Good Luck.

There is a problem with that thinking. The problem is that part of being a homosexual male is being promiscuous and part of that promiscuity is having unprotected anal sex. You are saying, “hey there’s nothing wrong with that behavior if they just watch themselves.” Those are two diametrically opposed ideas. To be homosexual (for the most part) is to be promiscuous. I can show you studies from reputable sites which demonstrate that even a homosexual who is supposed to be in a committed relationship still has sexual contact with multiple partners.

The CDC while reporting the truth and shocking all the people who think that homosexuality is perfectly safe cannot be seen as not being politically correct.

The “victims?” Oh that’s right, I almost forgot, everyone is a victim it’s 2010. Darn those nasty imaginary (what shall we call them, ghosts?) for spreading HIV. Someone should really do something about those ghosts that roam the streets infecting people. Oh wait, hold on, it’s the homosexuals who refuse to take responsibility for their own actions who actually spread HIV. AND it’s those politically correct enablers who refuse to hang any blame on them who cause them more pain. It’s a nasty little circle of never ending pain-But as long as homosexuals get to do what they want the way they want to do it, and are accepted by society, well all the disease, emotional pain and trauma is well worth the great freedom they have. Uh huh.

The only real victim in your little scenario is the truth!

[quote]Headhunter wrote:
We heteros have some things that are sacred to us. Why do gays have to be such shitholes that they have to intrude on our culture?

Gay culture, in fact all cultures, are sacrosanct, except for normal heteros who are to be fucked with at every opportunity.

We tried to accomodate gays and other such perversions by giving you civil unions. You took that as a sign of weakness and that now you can crush ALL of our traditions. Its never enough for you homosexual perverts!

Don’t be surprised that, if you keep poking a lion with a stick, that the lion finally tires of you and bites off your arm. Dumb fucks…[/quote]

The only reason there’s such a thing as ‘gay culture’ is because they were forced out of the mainstream. There’s nothing inherent about homosexuality that would give birth to its own sub-culture. Like any group of people singled out for some aspect (some identity group) of themselves, they end up turning it around and making it a point of pride within their community. This always happens.

Bottom line: any contract between two consenting adults should be legal, and recognized by the government as such.

IMHO the government should ONLY do civil unions: if you want to get married, marry in a church. Marriage is a religious institution, and worry about what your church thinks about you and your sexual preference.

However, in the here and now, almost EVERYONE gets married, because that’s how the system is setup, so to deny some people this right because of your arbitrary idea of “perversion” is not simply stupid, it flies in the face of equality under the law, in a nation governed by laws.

[quote]Spartiates wrote:
Bottom line: any contract between two consenting adults should be legal, and recognized by the government as such.
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Lawl…So, if we have a contract that you pay me my money or I shot you in your knees until you do, the government should recognize it?

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]Spartiates wrote:
Bottom line: any contract between two consenting adults should be legal, and recognized by the government as such.
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Lawl…So, if we have a contract that you pay me my money or I shot you in your knees until you do, the government should recognize it?[/quote]

Not too clear on the difference between ‘consent’ and ‘coerce’?

[quote]Neuromancer wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]Spartiates wrote:
Bottom line: any contract between two consenting adults should be legal, and recognized by the government as such.
[/quote]

Lawl…So, if we have a contract that you pay me my money or I shot you in your knees until you do, the government should recognize it?[/quote]

Not too clear on the difference between ‘consent’ and ‘coerce’?[/quote]

If someone gets a loan from a loan shark, they know the consequences, yet they still do it. And, I am sure no one coerced them into taking the loan.

[quote]ZEB wrote:
If we never hear back from you again, T Nation if far better off.[/quote]

Cut this shit out right now. You know what happened last time you started down this road.

[quote]makkun wrote:
Do MSM engage in risk behaviours? Yes. Men in generally do so more than women[/quote]

Testosterone bearing men taking risks. Who would have thought.