Okay, first off, I go down to stay with the in-laws for 5 freaking days! Now these are not my favorite people in the whole wide world, not bad people, just negative, dysfunctional people that are best taken in small doses.
So I get down there and my mother in-law has this HORRENDOUS cough that she claims is not contagious - never mind the fact that it sounds like she is dying. Then my father in law has really the stomach flu or something. Oh, and did I mention that my 2.5 y/o is also sick? (sigh) I was pissed.
But we’re not even to the good stuff. My wife then proceeds to get sick, and by Christmas morning she’s bleeding. She was pregnant, so she starts freaking out. The next day she started REALLY BLEEDING and went to the ER.
Miscarriage.
Fuck. I guess the chances for a miscarriage for anyone are 1:5, so it’s not that uncommon, but I can’t help but wonder if it had something to do with my recent cycle. From what I’ve read, miscarriages occur due to “chromosomal abnormalities” or whatever.
Man bro sorry to hear about the miscarriage. There will always be time for another one. Just be there for her right now. Had the same thing happen to my wife the first time around and it can mess a woman up emotionally for awhile. Stress plays a big part in a pregnancy as well. If your wife was really stressed out that could have caused a miscarriage. I would put the stress causing a miscarriage before a cycle of AAS. I know it does not help any with the guilt but just my 02 cents. I wish you and Mrs. Warhorse the best.
Sorry to hear about all this warhorse,just think positive about it and tell yourself,and your wife as well, that it must have happened for a reason.Anyway wish you luck in the new year bro
sorry about that bro. i dont know the science (maybe someone else wil help us out) but i highly doubt a cycle caused this. if there was something wrong with your sperm she probably wouldnt have been able to get pregnant in the first place.
look on the bright side. now she is going to expect you to give her the wood every day until she gets pregnant again.
I’m sorry to hear about that warhorse. Hope things get better for you, and can only say that without times of extreme sadness one can’t ever truly appreciate the happiness of a beautiful moment. I’m sure you have some comming your way. Stay strong.
I am so sorry about the miscariage dude, i feel for you. I’m sure you’ll get another chance at it. Not to freak you out or anything but I read it’s better to wait 2 years after a cycle to impregnate…don’t know why tho. Pretty sure it had nothing to do with your incident.
Again so sorry
Merry holidays nevertheless
The RETARD
I needed to vent, I was more frustrated than anything – it’s hard for me to deal with stuff I can’t control. So I’m not gonna sit here and dwell on the negatives, here’s what’s going good:
I have a healthy son, I’m healthy, my whole family is healthy actually. I have a loving, supportive wife and an enjoyable marriage. I live in a country where the sky is the limit. The only constraints on my life are those of my own choosing, I am free to pursue any goal I can dream up. How could things be better than that?
It’s very true that one cannot truly experience joy without tasting sorrow. That which does not kill us makes us stronger, right? (Nietzsche)
Looking back at my life, I’m glad for the trouble I’ve had, because that’s when I’ve learned the most and grown the most. Sure, it’s tough at the time, but I hate easy, because easy is boring and lulls one into complacency. The world has plenty of people plodding complacently through their dull lives in their weak, flabby, bodies that they “can’t” change because it’s “too hard.” I mean, how satisfying is it to go and workout at 50% of your capacity? Sure it’s easy, but what’s the point?
So anyway, this pity party is officially over. Time to get back to ass-kickin’.
Sorry to hear about your loss. I know there is nothing that can be said or done to make things right but things will get better. I have two kids ages 9 and 4 and have been cycling fairly consistently for the last 14 years-maybe skipping a year or so in there somewhere. Never had any problems with any of the pregnancies and I have never heard of any factual evidence supporting that claim.
Keep focused and I wish you and your bride the best of luck.
Warhorse, I feel for you. Stay strong (I know you will) and keep the faith.
My son is leaving for Bagdad Monday (after having been in Afghanistan for 8 months and returning in July) and I am going through a divorce. hey, that’s good though!
Anyway - my thoughts to you, and think about our men and women deployed overseas.
Sorry Warhorse, my wife and i went through that as well the first time out. I know that it is very painful not only to her but to you as well… As you stated you have one kid now, thats a blessing. And my wife and I ended up being blessed with two of the greatest boys alive afterward.
Its just natures way of sorting out its errors. Our lost baby was trisome 8 which if memory serves is downs syndrome or worse, so no, I can only thank god for not letting that happen to one of my kids… I doubt very much your cycle had anything to do with it… God bless and hang in there… Spook