[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
I mean you can be naÃ??Ã?¯ve and know what it about to happen if a dude and chick are going home alone together. Also, I am with stokes on being really curious as to why he opened the door to announce his departure. Trying to kill the mood perhaps. Seems like a poor strategy at that point. I don’t know if I have ever met someone quite that weak willed.[/quote]
He was hoping you guys would ask him to join in.[/quote]
Probably.
He would have taken in the ass just for the chance to kiss her.
Not sure that is a missed opportunity, except in prison or Canada.[/quote]
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
I mean you can be naÃ??Ã?¯ve and know what it about to happen if a dude and chick are going home alone together. Also, I am with stokes on being really curious as to why he opened the door to announce his departure. Trying to kill the mood perhaps. Seems like a poor strategy at that point. I don’t know if I have ever met someone quite that weak willed.[/quote]
He was hoping you guys would ask him to join in.[/quote]
Probably.
He would have taken in the ass just for the chance to kiss her.
Not sure that is a missed opportunity, except in prison or Canada.[/quote]
Where have you been?
[quote]stokes1989 wrote:
question…is it a bad omen when a girl wants you take take her to a strip club for the first date?[/quote]
Probably not, unless she’s introducing you to her coworkers.[/quote]
haha this reminds me of old apt where my roommate was dating a stripper, so she would bring all of her stripper friends over all the time. Made for the most awesome parties! a bunch of drunk half naked/completely naked chicks giving lap dances everywhere…it was amazing
[quote]stokes1989 wrote:
question…is it a bad omen when a girl wants you take take her to a strip club for the first date?[/quote]
Probably not, unless she’s introducing you to her coworkers.[/quote]
Actually, not always a bad sign, just don’t get any long term ideas in your head.[/quote]
True… but make sure you know a good lawyer if that’s the case. Completely serious.[/quote]
maybe im just dumb…but what the heck does that imply?[/quote]
I suspect, a good story![/quote]
Yup… but one I’m not going to get into. Lol.[/quote]
come on now…you don’t get to intice everyone with the thought of a good story then not tell it[/quote]
Oh, I want to, I just don’t want it getting back to my current gf.
But without actually going into it, you just want to make sure you’re on solid ground if she ever decides to play the date rape card. It’s one of the [many] cons that strippers tend to pull. It’s an industry of generally unscrupulous people profiting off of their ability to con people out of their money, and that sinks in deeper than just the club with some of these girls.
[quote]stokes1989 wrote:
question…is it a bad omen when a girl wants you take take her to a strip club for the first date?[/quote]
Probably not, unless she’s introducing you to her coworkers.[/quote]
Actually, not always a bad sign, just don’t get any long term ideas in your head.[/quote]
True… but make sure you know a good lawyer if that’s the case. Completely serious.[/quote]
maybe im just dumb…but what the heck does that imply?[/quote]
I suspect, a good story![/quote]
Yup… but one I’m not going to get into. Lol.[/quote]
come on now…you don’t get to intice everyone with the thought of a good story then not tell it[/quote]
Oh, I want to, I just don’t want it getting back to my current gf.
But without actually going into it, you just want to make sure you’re on solid ground if she ever decides to play the date rape card. It’s one of the [many] cons that strippers tend to pull. It’s an industry of generally unscrupulous people profiting off of their ability to con people out of their money, and that sinks in deeper than just the club with some of these girls.[/quote]
[quote]LoRez wrote:
But without actually going into it, you just want to make sure you’re on solid ground if she ever decides to play the date rape card. It’s one of the [many] cons that strippers tend to pull. It’s an industry of generally unscrupulous people profiting off of their ability to con people out of their money, and that sinks in deeper than just the club with some of these girls.[/quote]
Well, that’s some shitty shit, man.
I used to hang with two, while I was in college. They were more like friends with bennies. One did house call type work, parties and what not. The other worked out of a club. The one that worked at a club was really a sweet girl, but she’d share some f-d up stories. Kinda like what you’re talking about, Lo. The other was quite scandalous and manipulative. I guess it comes with the territory. I never liked her as a person much, but it was always fun to mess with a manipulator. Not to mention, she did pay my rent a few times. Any way, I could picture her trying to pull something like you mentioned.
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
I mean you can be naÃ??Ã?¯ve and know what it about to happen if a dude and chick are going home alone together. Also, I am with stokes on being really curious as to why he opened the door to announce his departure. Trying to kill the mood perhaps. Seems like a poor strategy at that point. I don’t know if I have ever met someone quite that weak willed.[/quote]
He was hoping you guys would ask him to join in.[/quote]
Probably.
He would have taken in the ass just for the chance to kiss her.
Not sure that is a missed opportunity, except in prison or Canada.[/quote]
Umm I think you might have caught the ghey.
No way in hell am I trying to get into a sword fight. Someone could get their eye poked out.
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
I mean you can be naÃ???Ã??Ã?¯ve and know what it about to happen if a dude and chick are going home alone together. Also, I am with stokes on being really curious as to why he opened the door to announce his departure. Trying to kill the mood perhaps. Seems like a poor strategy at that point. I don’t know if I have ever met someone quite that weak willed.[/quote]
He was hoping you guys would ask him to join in.[/quote]
Probably.
He would have taken in the ass just for the chance to kiss her.
Not sure that is a missed opportunity, except in prison or Canada.[/quote]
Where have you been?[/quote]
[quote]LoRez wrote:
But without actually going into it, you just want to make sure you’re on solid ground if she ever decides to play the date rape card. It’s one of the [many] cons that strippers tend to pull. It’s an industry of generally unscrupulous people profiting off of their ability to con people out of their money, and that sinks in deeper than just the club with some of these girls.[/quote]
Well, that’s some shitty shit, man.
I used to hang with two, while I was in college. They were more like friends with bennies. One did house call type work, parties and what not. The other worked out of a club. The one that worked at a club was really a sweet girl, but she’d share some f-d up stories. Kinda like what you’re talking about, Lo. The other was quite scandalous and manipulative. I guess it comes with the territory. I never liked her as a person much, but it was always fun to mess with a manipulator. Not to mention, she did pay my rent a few times. Any way, I could picture her trying to pull something like you mentioned.
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Well, it wasn’t as bad as it could have been. It never went past the point of being an accusation. But that came completely came out of left field, since we’d been friends for a few months. For the most part, she’s was a pretty normal, interesting, awesome girl, and if I’d met her under other conditions, that might have gone somewhere.
Plus, she was great to go out with; she’d get other guys to buy her drinks, then go home with me. Definitely knew how to use her “feminine charms”, if you will.
So yeah, my warning above was less of a “she’s going to screw you over” and more of a “she’s probably a bit crazier than you think”.