Why Is It So Difficult for my Friend to Get a GF?

Maybe women are afraid he’ll give their computers a virus.

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So he needed an ego stroke whilst being a virgin at the age of 26, who would’ve thought… does he also have a lifted truck, by chance?

Well, by definition he is an incel, but lets move on.

Are you saying if he was gay, you wouldn’t be friends with him? Or if he was an incel, you wouldn’t be his friend?

Off topic, but it’s good to know that while you’re out clubbing, you’re cool with your girl getting shagged by that guy she told you not to worry about - so long as she doesn’t love him. Solid foundation for a relationship in my books.

We’re very glad to hear that you have such high standards for the women you choose to cheat with. God forbid you end up sick.

I’ll cast another vote in favor of OP shagging his buddy. Or vice-versa, I suppose.

Naw I wouldn’t mind if he were gay. Incel oth nope. Not the literal definition but the precursors of such. For example hating women and blaming them for his in-celibacy, you know 4chan incel type shit. I wouldn’t tolerate a friend who does that.

Yeah I knew I was going to get shitted on for cheating on my gf but I guess it comes with its territory. I genuinely have a problem remaining faithful. I have a super high sex drive, not sure why though. I got my testosterone levels checked and it was like 960 ng/dl. Doctor asked if I was on any pro hormone I said nope. Not sure if this would cause me to cheat although i’m sure most of you folks have higher levels than me and are faithful. But tbh that’s a separate topic. I definitely would be upset
If she cheated on me. Would probably break me.

Tbh it’s not just me, I wouldn’t want my gf to catch any diseases. I will likely marry her, I think she’ll be a good mother for my children.

Dont worry dude. Its not gay if…

You’re both wearing the same clothes. Then its just giving yourself a yankee, to someone else.

Lol i’m not gay though. Like legit i’m not attracted to men. Just beautiful women. Preferably thick thighs and narrow waist :slight_smile:

Then you’re a moron.

I hope not, for her sake.

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The territory of being a bit of a cunt?

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If being Indian actually is hampering his chances with non-Indian women (we don’t know if it actually is), can’t he just go for Indian women to avoid this issue?

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This.

Most of my Indian friends have told me that their parents would vastly prefer, sometimes even require, that their partners be Indian

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Maybe one day humans could quit that mindset, oof.

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Parental influence in who’s going to mate with and marry whom. Good. (Not joking.)

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How so?

I agree they parental influences matter, but racial profiling in finding matches is unjustified, possibly counterproductive

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Hold up! Is your girlfriend by any chance Latina? This might really be @greenboy

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A positive and healthy parental influence on whom one “mates” with occurs when a person makes good choices in the dating scene due to a lifetime of positive role modeling from their parents. I’m personally of the opinion that when a parent’s literal choice of a mate supersedes that of their child, it’s controlling, potentially damaging, and - again, just my opinion - super creepy. It doesn’t leave room for someone to learn from mistakes in dating, it doesn’t allow for the possibility that they have different sexual and personal preferences than their parent, and it places a ton of pressure on them to conform to a relationship that may be unhealthy and unfulfilling just to satisfy the needs and wants of the parent.

And that’s only when we’re NOT talking about flagrant racism. Putting racial restrictions on your child’s dating choices is disgusting.

In terms of OP’s question, not being able to pick up a girl at a club isn’t any sort of deficiency worth worrying about, and this seems more like an opportunity for OP to brag about his sexual prowess and apparently naturally high testosterone production.

Oh, but I disagree, my friend - it’s about the vibes, dude. This thread has trainwreck written all over it.

"Why can’t my friend get a GF? I have a gf, and I cheat on her all the time, maybe it’s because my testosterone is high and I love sex and I look like a movie star."

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Your points are good, though I never thought of the influence I speak of as in literally coercing children to marry specific people, as in, “You must marry this man/woman. We’re giving you no choice.”

We might not like or do things like this (I didn’t marry in my race) but I’ve noticed those who do, usually make it quite easy for their children to find spouses through various customs and institutions, again, without coercion. Same goes for those who are religious or class conscious too.

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I was actually just reading a paper on assortative matching.
Similar backgrounds definitely reduces frictions in finding a match and improves the stability

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