Why Can't Spock Get Men?

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[quote]Spock81 wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

Spock, how do you dress currently? Do you have a description of your personal style? How are you expected or required to dress for your profession? How do you want to be perceived by others at first glance? What personal statement do you want your attire to present? Are you willing to sacrifice some comfort for aesthetics and are you willing to step out of your comfort zone?

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Well I find it VERY hard to find clothes that fit me because if I can get anything up past the thigh/quad/ass area than it ends up being HUGE on my waist.
Not just like add a belt huge, but like add a belt and it will be all bunchy and ridiculous huge, heh.
I also have big arms and a wide back so INB4 muscley clothing fitting woes.
And I am only 5’0 so even petite pants end up needing to be rolled up into these boaty cuff type things.
LOL
I have three pairs of shoes
Gym chucks which have the Joker on them
Going out chucks which are not high tops so they seem quite classy
and the chucks that I used fabric paint on so I could try and draw the RHCP symbol on them, and ya… It looks like a big red blob so I don’t wear them anymore
HAHAHA

I try to look semi-formalish at work. I work for the city so they don’t want me to be a slob, and I deal with a lot of people.
But I am not in an office so I don’t need to get too crazy.
I wouldn’t mind stepping out of my comfort zone. I typically just buy whatever fits me if it doesn’t look too stupid, LOL.[/quote]

OK, you have it tougher than me. I’m nearly 5’2", and despite all my lifting, I still buy the smallest sizes I can find, especially in shirts and jackets. Always 0 or 2 petite, or I raid the little girls department when I can. Working on Delts, but still Latless. :slight_smile: I have trouble with the legs, but my hips are narrow but proportionate if that makes sense.

I know you are in Canada, but skirts cut like this are my uniform. You only have to worry about your waist measurement. They will emphasize a small waist, and I don’t have to worry about my more developed quads and calves. You can do it in a black or grey heavier fabric like wool, and wear tights in the winter -black. Length is best if it’s just above your knee or mid thigh. NO LONGER.

And you could wear a little skirt like that with some chucks and a fitted sweater, or ballet flats. You’re a lot younger than me, and this may not be your thing, but I’m telling you, skirts are your friend. I’m mostly really tailored and on the preppy side, and I wear heels and ballet flats a lot.

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Also, I do something like this A LOT. I had almost this exact outfit on today going out to brunch. In Canada, add a fitted sweater and some tights. You might have to have a skirt like this nipped in at the waist a bit, but the length is usually flattering on small women. Be meticulous about FIT. I have a couple of straight skirts with a lot of stretch in them, pencil but stretchy so they will work with your booty and quads, but you don’t have to worry about the waist.

Oh, and for shirts, you will have an easier time with knits because they will hug your waist without needing altered, if you can find something that works with your X shaped back and shoulders. And I often buy 3/4 length sleeves so I don’t have to worry about sleeve length. If things aren’t coming in to show your small waist, you’re gonna look square. For me, I’ll look kind of straight up and down - boyish.

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If you can’t bring yourself to wear skirts and sundresses more, then just a couple of things. This girl is about 5’2" 118 pounds. This outfit might be more your speed. Oh, looking for cropped ankle length pants is also a trick. You mentioned that you often roll your pants a little. I do that too sometimes, because I’ll leave pants long if I want to be able to wear them with heels.

Just notice fit. NOTHING is baggy or oversized. And the sweater comes just below her waist. Anything that hangs down past your booty will visually cut your legs off and make you look shorter. Also, anything really full - will make you look short, and like you’re swimming in it. You’d buy these to fit your quads, then have the waist and rise altered as needed. It’s worth the $15 bucks to have them fit right. Same goes for jeans. It’s a lot easier now that most women’s denim has some stretch/ Spandex in the fabric.

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I find bright colored shirts to be complementary to a very light complexion. The color reflected seems to tint or highlight the face.

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Oh you should be a redhead next! I like those.

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[quote]csulli wrote:
Oh you should be a redhead next! I like those.[/quote]

Agree!

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[quote]Bauber wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:
Oh you should be a redhead next! I like those.[/quote]

Agree![/quote]

I dunno, dark hair + dark eyes combo is sexy as fuck. Throw a little eye shadow on and she can keep it as is.

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[quote]red04 wrote:

[quote]Bauber wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:
Oh you should be a redhead next! I like those.[/quote]

Agree![/quote]

I dunno, dark hair + dark eyes combo is sexy as fuck. Throw a little eye shadow on and she can keep it as is.[/quote]

Very true, was just saying have red handy in case she decides to go super saiyan 4.

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[quote]Bauber wrote:

[quote]red04 wrote:

[quote]Bauber wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:
Oh you should be a redhead next! I like those.[/quote]

Agree![/quote]

I dunno, dark hair + dark eyes combo is sexy as fuck. Throw a little eye shadow on and she can keep it as is.[/quote]

Very true, was just saying have red handy in case she decides to go super saiyan 4.[/quote]
SSJG.

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[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]Bauber wrote:

[quote]red04 wrote:

[quote]Bauber wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:
Oh you should be a redhead next! I like those.[/quote]

Agree![/quote]

I dunno, dark hair + dark eyes combo is sexy as fuck. Throw a little eye shadow on and she can keep it as is.[/quote]

Very true, was just saying have red handy in case she decides to go super saiyan 4.[/quote]
SSJG.[/quote]
The only true canon one of course.

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[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
I find bright colored shirts to be complementary to a very light complexion. The color reflected seems to tint or highlight the face.
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Right on.

And open necks like this, or V necks will also draw the eyes up, AND make you look taller because they elongate the neck. AND they are so feminine. You can do cami tops for about 8 bucks in solid knits from Target. Layer. And they work with yoga pants for the gym. Way more feminine than that boxy t-shirt you got from doing a breast cancer walk, ya know?

Spock - This is probably boring the heck out of the guys, but building your imaginary wardrobe is fun. And I sort of imagine you being a Zooey type - girl next door, quirky. Forgot to say, the new hair and makeup pic of you is really pretty. You have a great smile, and nothing looks as pretty as a big smile.

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Powerpuff making Spock an imaginary wardrobe.

Boys have started talking about Dragonball Z.

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[quote]csulli wrote:
Powerpuff making Spock an imaginary wardrobe.

Boys have started talking about Dragonball Z.[/quote]

LOL. I’ll stop with the girl talk before I give someone gyno.

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Honestly this thread has been kind of life changing.

I never thought about putting so much thought into all this stuff other people think about, LOL .

I am excited to get out of my bubble, it’s very stuffy in here I must admit.

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I loooove the new hair colour. Sometimes changing a simple thing makes us feel a bit different and can spur a slightly different behaviour like donning a costume. Makeup is looking very nice as well.

Regarding clothes fitting, it you ever wear skirts, try making your own. I found a simple make your own pattern for circle skirts on the web and made 12 for myself and my two daughters. I’m not super sewing talented but they turned out beautifully and I wear mine to work all the time. The style accentuates a small waist and gives a nice hip flair. They make you look hour glassy and super feminine. Because you’re making your own, length is what you want it to me as well as all the other measurements. I suck a sewing zippers so I just did them with elastic waists that pull over my hips and wear a wide belt that can give a bit of a corset look. The point is, you can get creative with that and other things if you don’t mind trying to do it yourself.

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[quote]csulli wrote:
Powerpuff making Spock an imaginary wardrobe.

Boys have started talking about Dragonball Z.[/quote]

And later on we can make a 3 man slingshot out of 10 speed inner tubes and a bucket!

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[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:
Powerpuff making Spock an imaginary wardrobe.

Boys have started talking about Dragonball Z.[/quote]

And later on we can make a 3 man slingshot out of 10 speed inner tubes and a bucket!
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Somewhere in there we need to fit in a Tecmo Bowl tournament.

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[quote]red04 wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:
Powerpuff making Spock an imaginary wardrobe.

Boys have started talking about Dragonball Z.[/quote]

And later on we can make a 3 man slingshot out of 10 speed inner tubes and a bucket!
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Somewhere in there we need to fit in a Tecmo Bowl tournament.[/quote]

No point. It’s already over. I got dibs on the Raiders with Bo Jackson.

Spock you should post a lower body pic that can give PowerPuff a better idea to plan your wardrobe around. :wink:

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[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]Bauber wrote:

[quote]red04 wrote:

[quote]Bauber wrote:

[quote]csulli wrote:
Oh you should be a redhead next! I like those.[/quote]

Agree![/quote]

I dunno, dark hair + dark eyes combo is sexy as fuck. Throw a little eye shadow on and she can keep it as is.[/quote]

Very true, was just saying have red handy in case she decides to go super saiyan 4.[/quote]
SSJG.[/quote]
The only true canon one of course.[/quote]