What is Beautiful?

I may not have a huge amount of experience with women, but the one’s I talked too and got close to usually didn’t see how beautifull they were. They would always focus on the worst part of themselves ( a little bit of a gut, or maybe a skin problem) and that would shatter their self-esteem. Men like confident women, men like women who know they are sexy, and men like many different types of women. For example: I like fit women, I like petite women and I like vulupcious (sp?) women. And usually the more I get to know a woman the more attracted I become to her. I’m one of those guys that don’t fall head over heals over a pretty body and a pretty face and “just have to talk to her” tho if I was I’d probably go out more often haha. My advice to you… give some nice guy a chance.

sex appeal… period

Eyes and a smile that melts me…a beautiful face that I can feel as much as I can see…someone strong when she has to be, but vulnerable when she wants to be…someone who takes my breath away and makes me say stupid things when in her presence…but makes me feel lost and incomplete when she’s not there…


Someone who makes me want to be the best person I can be…and makes me feel like I can take on the world…


…THAT defines a beautiful woman to me…

I printed what you wrote. I think that may be the most profound and meaningful thing a guy has ever said about what he thinks, and I am not saying towards me or to me but just in honest reflection.

Forget about looks. If she is your soul mate you are made. And if she is a sports fan. everyday, when she wakes up you give her a deep french kiss in her asshole.

Any woman with my dick in her.

I think we all would probaly turn our heads at the same women at the mall or wherever and consider them beutiful, But i know beutiful women that i just find as the bigges turn off in the world because the way they act or dont act. So i do have to go with the whole beuty is on the inside thing too, if that dont have it thier then i cant stand to be around them. I do know less atractive on the outside women that id rather sleep with than than the ones with the perfect bodies, just because there attitude and inside beauty. Not saying i sleep around, im a good guy!

Actually I am the one who said I would post my picture soon, not bionic. As for beautiful, that depends alot on the inside as well as the outside. I’ve seen some pretty girls and some handsome guys that had lousy personalities and to me they became ugly. I’ve also seen people that didn’t catch my attention at first, but after I got to know them I thought them beautiful. Also, beauty is not always agreed on. Some guys like tall girls, some petite, some like blondes or brunettes, some like large or small busts, skinny girls or girls with meat on their bones. There is no one definition of beautiful. Bionic - no matter what you look like, to the right man you will be beautiful (but I have the feeling you are just being hard on yourself)

a perfect butt. if she has on this usaully means that she takes care of herself and she orks out. Once you see that you can go right to the face and see how she look from there.

You show me a guy who does not PREFER big busts to small and I WILL show you a (closet) gay man!!!SERIOUSLY

I don’t know - nate dogg seems pretty heterosexual as far as I can tell and he says he prefers “B” sized. My husband isn’t all that into breasts at all - he likes them, but not like he likes legs and nice butts. He says it’s because he was raised in Europe (germany actually) and seeing breasts on TV and everywhere else was not unusual. He says breasts are not so glamorized there and he grew up seeing the “good, bad, and the ugly”. Mine are not as large as they used to be, I used to sport a “D” but after having kids I’m now an average “C”. I’ve thought about having surgery to put back what I had, but it hardly seems worth the trouble since it won’t matter to my hubby. Don’t know. If I end up a “B” after I get lean enough to see my abs, I will have the surgery. If only to keep an even figure. Oh well, more info than I needed to give, but after explaining what a pap smear is to that other guy, I guess I’m being too honest.

alrighty, seems like i got you mixed up with ironbabe… my bad. Ohwell, except my humble appoliges. But anyway you should post your pics anyway. ARE YOU A LARDASS? If not, what are you afraid of? Ya pussy(hehe). <<< that wasnt meant to be an insult. Just joking… THATS THE PROBLEM WITH THIS FORUM NOW! TOO MANY FUCKING IDIOTS THAT LOVE TO BAG EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING! Nobody can say anything in here now without someone jumping all over them. Im not saying you’re like this bionic, just take a note of it before you get all defensive. I didnt post my name because i dont have a name i constantly use and i was addressing the question to YOU. Its not like a name on here is really an identifier anyway! So just chill! Oh yeah and to the person G, i hate big tits man and im not a homo. Have you ever actually felt big tits? They’re gross. They sag without a bra and feel like shit! I like firm B’s or C’s all the way. Big tits only look good in clothes!

Large breasts are gross? They sag without a bra? They feel like shit? They only look good in clothes? Everybody sing along now: Y…M…C…A! It’s fun to stay at the Y…M…C…A! (sorry Brother Dogg, not a slam!)

lol ironbabe :slight_smile:

I’m not gay, and I prefer small-to-medium-sized breasts, a “B” or “C” cup is perfect. Anything bigger is not attractive to me at all. But then again, I’m not a breast guy, so big breasts don’t appeal to me. By the way, the girl I’m dating now is my idea of beautiful in every way imaginable.

Have I felt big tits?Yes,DD’s(loooong story).Have I felt small tits?Yes,A’s(my first actually) and B’s. Which ones do I prefer? Probably the firm C’s…yes. Now how many women have firm shapely C’s, and I mean firm C’s…ummmm not many REALLY,so far only that expensive “escort” that was my friends’ birthday gift two years ago.
BUT if I had to chose between AVERAGE A,B,C and D, I’d go for size.NO DOUBT! I really disagree with the idea that big breasts are necessarily saggier than smaller ones, unless she is 40 something.
BTW ironbabe, your breasts got smaller after having kids? Really? I can understand saggier but not smaler! All the women I know, ended up with bigger, albeit saggy, breasts after giving birth.
Nate, man you are head over heels for your girl.Awesome, but how objective can you be??
And to this other guy, sure big tits feel bad if you are fucking an old or really unfit chick.
Peace out

Large ones are NOT gross… looks down shirt they look just fine to me! laugh Not everyone with d’s or larger are saggy, they usually sag if the woman was very heavy then lost weight, or has has children. The ligaments that hold the breasts up are not elastic at all, so when they get streched out they don’t recover. That’s why sag develops. Personally, that is the only plastic surgery I ever plan to have… after haveing kids I’m going to have my boobs put back where they belong, because sag is pretty much inevitable after children. (Ironbabe… you ended up smaller??? )

I got smaller after children too. Not right away. While you are pregnant and while you are breastfeeding you stay big. When you finish breastfeeding your breasts shrink. I’m not sure why, but they do. It’s quite common for women to shrink after this process.

How did this thread on beauty suddenly become a discussion on breast size?!
Isn’t beauty really in the eye of the beholder? What is beautiful to one is not necessarily beautiful to another? And believe it or not, some people really don’t care about physical looks. Generally that is the first thing that you are attracted to, but sometimes someone can become attractive because of who they are and then physical beauty is really unimportant.
But if you want a generalization on beautiful, I guess the two women who seem to capture the media attention for beauty are Catherine Zeta-Jones and Audrey Hepburn. And BTW both are brunettes, not blondes! Imagine that.

Yep, smaller. It’s not an unusual thing, it has happened to some of my friends too. I was bigger WHILE pregnant, but after my first was born and the pregnancy induced size went away, I noticed I was smaller than before pregnancy. Oh well, I’m still a comfortable size. My best friend’s sister was a “B” before children and an “A” after, but my best friend put on size instead of losing it after kids.