[quote]clip11 wrote:
[quote]Gregus wrote:
[quote]clip11 wrote:
Im black and ill be the first to say…poverty doesnt cause crime! If that was the case, West Virginia, being one of the poorest states in the nation, would be the most dangerous but West Virginia is mostly white and has one of the lowest crime rates in the country. Its a problem we blacks must deal with.
Every one of the cities on that list are majority black and when whites lived in the cities before they flocked to the suburbs the cities were in much better condition. If poverty caused crime, black athletes and rappers, some of who come from poor backgrounds would suddenly stop committing crime once they get that million dollar contract, because at that point, theyre no longer poor. Yet we see multimillionaire black rappers and athletes still committing crimes.
We see the same pattern in Africa and the caribbean. When whites occupied the countries they at least had electricity, running water, and food, which the people they colonized benefited from as well. As a race, we are at fault for alot of our own downfalls. Alot of whites are scared to point this out for fear of being labeled racist, so they give us black folks an excuse by saying we’re poor thats why we shoot each other over cell phones.[/quote]
I agree and basically this is an issue that can only be worked out if there is an honest dialogue and communication. I believe that not Poverty but lack of Education causes this. The culture of not being educated has to be ended in the black communities first and foremost.
I feel like always saying that there is a reason other then the individual him or herself to blame for their shortcoming is guaranteed to keep that person from ever succeeding. The root cause is never addressed and it’s all quick fixes and a patch on top of patch on top of patch. [/quote]
Malcolm X once said that problems of race can only be solved when the black man and white man can come to the table and say whats on their mind without worrying about hurting the others feelings. Then and only then can there be progress. Too many whites are afraid of offending and being called racist so they make up excuses for behavior. “Jamal killed another teen over an argument over a coat because he’s poor and didnt have a father ion the home…” So being poor and no father made him kill…thats comparing apples and oranges.[/quote]
True Dat. I just don’t see why we can’t all be getting along now. All this pushing of equality and sameness is tiring. Not everyone is the same, not everyone is equal. We need to SEE the differences. We need to like and appreciate the differences. Not try to erase them and make everyone think were the same. Noone wants to feel were all the same.
In other words today it can be said that if i were to date a black girl and was attracted to the fact that she is black i might be a racist or racial. But who’s to say that it’s wrong for me to enjoy this person because of what they are? Why can;t i like the difference, revel in it, talk about it and be passionate about it.
Is it only OK to date a black woman as long as i pretend to not notice she is black?
We need open communication but i actually find white people being the ones that are difficult in this. I’ve had nothing but the best of discussions about race with Black Dudes and Girls. Sometimes heated other times not. Either way i was always the only 1 to 2 white people to engage a large black dude on anything from reparations to racism. For this i was always respected despite being shunned by most white people but liked by black people.
I feel a vibe between myself and Black people. I don’t know why, it may just be a human thing or it could be us both being descendants of Slaves and I’m white 